Equalizing (equal outcomes) everything is not a solution

In modern society, we focus on equalizing everything. We are not only talking about equality in terms of opportunities but, some radical leftwing  politicians are demanding that, we should also go for equal outcomes. First thing you need to know that, it’s not practically possible. 2nd left-wing people are fooling you. Everyone talks about equality. It sounds cool but, what we really should be talking about is the competence. You look at the education system, corporate system of North America particularly, a lot of emphasis is given on diversity, equality. There’s nothing wrong when you make efforts to include everyone in the mission or in the goal of expansion and growth but, at what expense? I’m in huge favour of giving equal rights & opportunities to men and women but, why some politicians, globalists, main stream media houses are giving more and more emphasis on equal outcomes? When you start dividing everyone on the basis of their skin colour, race and ethnicity instead of focusing on competence then, there’s a big problem. Sadly, we’re witnessing the worst and people who are trying to step up are labeled as tyrannical. For instance, you got 2 people and you give them the same amount of money and ask them that, you got 3o days to increase their wealth. One of them made a wise decision to put some money in stocks, real estate and mutual funds whereas, the other man thought that, he only got 3o days so why not, to put put money in gambling. You might get lucky with gambling for a day let’s suppose for 2 weeks but for 30 days? No way! Consistent efforts always beat luck in long run. If I were to hire someone, I would hire for his attitude for competence instead of hiring some one on the basis of their skin colour, race, gender. Hiring on the basis on skin colour, gender and race always lead to downfall of any good company. Left wing people are bringing senseless woke culture in universities and in corporate America. I mean basically everywhere. You name it. I wanna ask them that, what’s the point of dividing people if you can’t promote competence. The world needs competent plumbers, electricians, politicians, civilians, lawyers, doctors. People who are competent earn more, admired more, live well, add more value to the society. Start focusing on competence instead of equal outcomes. You will go long way.

Sacrifice for better tomorrow is worth it!

Let me begin this blog post by saying Sacrifice of what? Why there’s need to make any sacrifices because who the hell knows what’s written in the future? We need to know how sacrifice will bring a better tomorrow… Sacrifice is full of pain & suffering. Nobody likes to make sacrifices of anything that he truly cares about especially when it comes to addictions. When you know that, you are on the verge of losing everything in your life and as soon as you realize this, you become increasingly lonely and depressed. Humans are social animals. We love to have interactions with people. We love to share the adventures of our lives to all of those who are associated with us somehow and someway. As soon as things go downhill, people start to leave us one by one. We just keep watching it. It’s called mental and emotional pain when your loved ones start ignoring you and keep going out of your life. Now, you wanted to relieve the pain and you instead of making things better, you start to take drugs, consume alcohol, binge watching and eating. The cycle keeps on going and going making you sick & tired everyday! You open your eyes and see nobody’s around you to comfort you. This is no life! Imagine now, your end is near because of your toxic habits and terrible addictions. You know that, you have badly damaged your health, by the way it’s not just the health your soul has become morally weak! You are saying to your self I wish I would have done something better in my life. I wish I would’ve come out of my addiction habits to make my life little bit less suffering! No- one is around your death bed. You’re dying alone! No one is comforting you. No one is there in the room weeping out loud for you… what a terrible waste of life! As I’m writing this blog, I can sense that, there’s no limit to negative thinking. I usually write my blogs with positive intent. I have also realized that, if you are naively positive about everything, you will act like a fool in front of others. When you act like a foolish person, no one takes you seriously not even your own life. So, negativity/problems are what we need to wake the hell up to become little bit serious in our lives and undertake the burden of responsibilities and bear the cost associated with it! Nobody knows what’s in the future. We can predict the future and make assumptions about. In order to play with the future, we need to think clearly as much as we can by keeping an eye on our present circumstances. If you predict that, future brings a lot of uncertainty and less hope then, you need to think what I’m doing wrong in my present. You need to make the list of all of those things that you are doing on a regular basis which are having negative impact on your future. It could be uncontrollable consumption of alcohol, porn, smoking. You need to go for uncomfortable talk with yourself and make sacrifices starting today, starting right now to have good future. It’s better to die peacefully than miserably. It’s better to die when your loved ones are comforting you in your final moments than just keep staring at the ceilings. Sacrifice for better tomorrow is worth it!

Keep going in-spite of your suffering.

. What’s the point of keep going when you know that, the life is like a tragic hell! Life is pretty much playing with the fire. It doesn’t matter whether you are master of playing with the fire or not because, you got no choice except to accept the harsh realities of the world. In this blog post, I would like to give emphasis on keep going in-spite of your sufferings. There are 2 things that lead to pain and suffering. First one is all the bad choices you make in your life. All the malevolent activities/ toxic things that you are doing to make your life a living hell. 2nd one all the external factors that are not in your control like, any physical harm, any life threatening illness. It’s merely impossible to control the nature(external factors). The better thing we can do is to keep our head down and be grateful what ever is left over. I know that, it’s a tough pill to swallow but, why you wanna live a miserable life forever. It’s not worth it. I know that, nobody likes to suffer in their lives especially, a tragedy like death of one of their family member. You got every right to grief about it but, being hopeless is not gonna make the present any better. Let’s suppose that, there are hundreds of thousands of things going against you. By turning yourself into a malevolent and resentment person is not going to help you either. We are living in a broken world. We have the ability to think positive and to make genuine efforts to clean up garbage from our lives. The goal of any suffering is to transform you. It is to make you a better living person. When pain and suffering jolts you down completely, it’s better to be grateful cause, when you are grateful for the things that you have in your life, you still have some sort of light. You still have some kind of vision and I will take any light as long as it helps me walking. To be grateful in-spite of your suffering requires great amount of courage and love. I’m not talking about any ordinary love and courage. Ordinary love and courage dies in a week. I’m talking about the ever green fountain of love and courage that flows with in you. Even if you got so many reasons to give up somehow, someway your love and courage for yourself and for others never let you quit! Let your love and courage make you grateful in-spite of suffering

Open your eyes!

Open your eyes! If you are driving your car would you just keep your eyes closed and reach from point A to point B? No of course not (only if you are a reasonable and sensible person). Life is like a car that we just borrowed from our creator. How do we drive & how well we drive it all depends upon us. It all depends upon the choices we make in our present. In order to have control we need to have our eyes on the road and pay attention to the things that are happening around us! The world is a cruel place. Everyday, some weird shit take place on social media and there we go. The whole system is full of crap. Our fundamental institutions are falling apart. The entire education system is one of them. It’s teaching kids how to be weak. Our schools are teaching young kids that, there’s no difference between men and women( well there is physically, mentally, emotionally ) They are encouraging kids to change their gender overnight. Useless courses like gender studies, feminist research programs, woke culture are given more preference. At one point students go to universities to learn how to think, speak and articulate their skills in a careful manner but, sadly now because of radical left wing, universities are useless. Students are more concerned about finding racism, segregation and inequality everywhere. They are increasingly becoming more and more confused. Instead of taking courses like Literature, history, Science, engineering, Technology, Business and Maths our youth wasting their 4 years in universities by wilfully indulging in things that are not of their concerned like the whole new concept of woke culture. Instead of focusing on competence we are teaching our kids how to be an average. Not to mention when you take 4 years degree at the university, you actually go for a student debt. It is way better to take trade courses. At least, you learn something basic and meaningful. The radical left wing people are taking more and more control of our education system by making it weak. They got problem with everything. They find inequality, racism and problem related to equity everywhere they go. When you brain wash people with all of theses things their brain stop working and they close their eyes to real problems and soon as you close your eyes guess what? You start to lose control of your life (car) We need to step up. We need to focus on real things like competence, building and creating value in our lives by going for meaningful careers in our lives. As long as you stay focus on real things schools will have hard time to make you weak, resentful and nihilistic. Don’t be confused of your biological identity because you are created in the image of God. That’s the truth. Seek truth and stick to the truth! Open your eyes!

At least, be honest with yourself!

Do we have the courage to go for a real talk with ourselves in front of a mirror? The things that we have done wrong with our lives and others who were once the part of our lives… Are we ever gonna accept the mistakes that we made and hold ourselves truly accountable and re start our lives again? For how long is it okay to hide things under the carpet? One day, we have to face it. I believe that, there’re awful things we are doing in our lives. The sins we are committing in our lives are like, willfully indulging in Toxic habits, keep giving up and not taking the humble and noble responsibilities to make life better. Our governments, radical left wing people, globalists and mainstream media are blinding people and doing their best on social media to create nonsensical issues around people like gender politics, discrimination against all of those who refused to get covid shots, creating confusion in the minds of young people against their own biological identities, removing essence of God from the life and the whole new radical feminism movement taking place and turning young girls to hate men. The goal of this blog post is clear-crystal. It is to open the eyes of people especially, young ones to focus on real issues that are related to physical, mental, emotional and spiritual aspect of their lives. Any kind of resentment and bitterness can be overcome if you have the positive attitude and the courage to take extra responsibilities on your shoulders to make your life little bit of less suffering. Just relying on cheap drugs, cheap friends and Ill-mentality are not going to help you in your life. If you think that, by crying on social media you can bring your life back in order then, good luck to you! If you think that, by changing your sex overnight will bring you glory then, good- luck with that! Real problems need real answers. Answers can only be found if you are willing to make sacrifices of your toxic habits. Life can only get better when you realize that, pain and suffering are indispensable part of life. Without evil, there’s no way to appreciate good. Without toxic things, there’s no way to value real things. People need to come out of the bubble created by radical left wing people. They need to discard their ideologies and take control of their lives again. People, especially young ones need to put one thing straight to their heads there’s no nobility in complaining. You devalue yourself! Dig deeper in the darkness to find something meaningful and stick to it maybe, that would show you some light and enlighten your life with strength and courage. Have the brass balls to face the devil inside of you. Acknowledge it and make best use of it. Have the courage to be little bit honest to yourself and take responsibility!  

Have aggressive patience

I wanna talk about patience. I know that, we’re living in a fast paced world where everything is associated with race. We’re crazy busy in our lives to make ends meet. We are busy to take care of our bills, take care of our loved ones and it’s just going on and on. Sometimes, we don’t have the time to catch up our breath. We’re restless basically. I’m not the one who would say to you that, go to the beach. Have some drinks and have fun. The basic requirement to have fun according to me is this: how would you have fun if you’re fully aware about that your own life is a bloody mess! When you put your life back in order only then, we can talk about having some fun. In order to come out of mess, we need to have patience and not just patience but with consistent efforts to bring back the order! Look, if you are suffering from bad addictions ( smoking, drinking, porn, masturbation) then, you definitely need to have aggressive patience. Even if you tried quitting 100 times and it’s still not working for you…you need to try again with faith. Try until you get some success. Remember one thing: even if you fail a million times to curb your addictions, you can always start again! It’s so sad that, people try couple of times to eradicate toxic habits out of their lives when they don’t see any success they go back to their old routine of complaining and live a miserable life. I think it’s way better to die than to live a miserable life at least, you are not dying every day. It’s even way more better to live when you show the courage and start taking accountability of the mess you have in your life and pick up the broom and start cleaning it little by little, step by step. When your life gets better what is more beautiful than that? Nothing really nothing! There’re couple of things you need to right now to make impact 1.Pray to God or higher power when you have the urge to go back to your toxic habits 2.Breathe in breathe out 3. Think about all of those loved ones who care about you. Keep your head down and do it for them At the end, right intentions always win. Efforts always bring success. Justice, truth, kindness always triumph. So what are you waiting for? Grab the courage and have aggressive patience.

Mind your own business

Mind your own Business  but, what’s the business of life? Is it to take advantage of others or is it to focus on your life to make it a better to promote win- win for everyone? We need to be familiar about the core business of life and focus only on it! Envy, resentment & bitterness are surrounded by all of us. Our focus is on the wrong things and we all know that. When our focus on things that we don’t want/desire guess what, we then, start to see more of the things that we wish not to see. It’s all because of law of attraction. The universe fulfills your wishes. Human life is the precious gift that we’ve. We have an incredible ability to think. It’s not just the ability to visualize things but, we are capable of taking actions in our lives. The more action we take by indulging ourselves into the things that make us weak, resentful, the more terrible we would feel in our lives. We need to shift our focus on minding our own life. It doesn’t mean that, you should stop talking to your family. It also doesn’t mean that, you should lock yourself in the room and become lonely. The true essence of minding your own business is to put your focus more on good things than negative things so that, you enjoy yourself and most importantly, others enjoy your presence too! We can only do well in the business of life as long as we don’t cover our flaws, seek truth, show kindness and focus on taking more humble and noble responsibilities in our lives to make it better. Remember, Resentment, bitterness and anger do not damage others but it slowly destroy your happiness by damaging your soul permanently. I’m not saying that, you need to close your eyes and ears to the world especially to those people who’s incredibly successful in their respective fields. You look at them. They worked hard to be at top of their lives. We can take inspiration from them but, comparing yourself to them is just like committing a suicide. So, come up with a plan even, with a stupid plan to start minding your business with good intentions in your heart. Your eyes and ears must be wide opened and your hands and feet must be ready to take actions. Actions to make good scarifies! The one thing you need to take away from this blog-post is to work on your life by investing your time and efforts to make it better for yourself & beautiful for others. I believe that, that’s the true spirit of having a life business

Real cost associated with finding meaning

Nothing is free in the world. Even the things that cost you nothing got hidden cost. You pay with your time & efforts. Time and efforts to get something are the most underrated currencies of the world. People who really understand this, really make tremendous improvement in their lives. Real cost to find meaning in life The short answer to this is to make sacrifices in your present. The long answer to this is to have aggressive patience and faith. Everybody thinks that, it’s hard to find meaning in life but, actually it’s not. The meaning of life is to improve your life. It’s to make your life a better one. Now the question arises, how can you make your life a better one? Well, in order to make your life a better one, we need to take core responsibilities in our lives. For instance, if your are overweight, you need to start with one healthy meal in a week then, scale it up to 2 healthy meals with 15-20 minutes of daily exercise. If you smoke & drink too much may be, you need to channel your free time into productive things like walking, reading, writing and working out. Someone having problem with money then, it’s better to MAKE the money. SAVE it and INVEST it. Everyday, we need to diligently work on all of those things that will ultimately help us to become a better person. Money comes and goes. Power comes and goes but, the real question you need to ask yourself what kind of legacy would you like to leave behind when you are all gone? A legacy that would inspire your kids/grandkids and other people associated with you to do well in their lives and become good people. Life makes more sense when we shift our focus from the propagandas of governments, mainstream media, corporate greed, fake climate change & gender politics to the real things like having faith in God, putting families first, building & creating & preserving values (freedom, seeking truth, self-control, justice, kindness & common good) and helping one another in achieving humble and noble goals. That’s the real meaning of life. That’s what we all need to focus on. When you sacrifice toxic things and put your focus on real shit then, you will be less depressed & more happy with yourself.

True meaning of freedom

We crave for freedom all the time. Everybody likes to be free. There’s always a cost associated with free things in our lives. I was wondering why not to make a blog post about true essence of freedom. We got a wrong perception about freedom like, once you are free, you are above the law. You can do whatever you like to do in your life. No need to stress about anything. Everything will be easy to attain. Sadly, it’s not true. People who really have this kind of fancy ideology, doom to be anxious, resentful and depressed. First of all, we need to understand that, how we can get freedom and how we can truly enjoy it? Freedom is confidence. It enables you to do productive things in your life and lives of those around you by taking calculative risks and keeping the ethical and moral standards of the society in the mind. In order to get freedom, we need to take heavy burden of responsibilities on our shoulders. We need to constantly work on our physical, mental, emotional, financial and spiritual well being. We presume that, freedom gives you the authority to control the lives of others. Freedom doesn’t give you the right to start causing trouble in the society. The role of freedom is to make you humble when you have the authority to control the things. The role of independence is to serve justice, seek truth, have self-control and serve people with kindness. In order to obtain freedom we need to make sacrifices in present for better tomorrow. We need to make sacrifices of our toxic habits for less painful future. It’s hard but, with consistency it can be done otherwise, 5 to 10 years from now, we will have more regrets. Regrets are way more painful than facing a death. We got a wonderful gift from heaven- A gift of freedom of choice. We are free to choose our thoughts, habits, action. Let all of us make best use of this gift. In order to enjoy true freedom, we need to do take action for common good. We need to be more kind in our acts and promote common good. If we consistently make efforts into this direction, we will have beautiful life. How better we would feel about ourselves when we see that, our acts of kindness inspire others to take initiative to improve their lives! At least, we can go to the bed with peace. The first rule of freedom is to take more responsibilities in your life and the 2nd rule is never forget about the first rule!

Pick something meaningful and stick to it!

We are living in a dangerous times. We got information about everything. Everything is just one click away. We really need to know that, is knowing about everything really doing any good to us or is it just making us confused and lazy? let’s talk about Pick something meaningful and stick to it! Information is power but, having too much of information about everything can be disastrous to us. Back in the days, there were less resources because of no internet. People had to spend countless hours in the library to research their topic. Because of availability of less resources really made them desperate to dig deep to seek out truth. Now, we got internet,everything is just one click away to find out. By having too many resources at our disposal, have made us quite undeceive and lazy to work on anything. Young people are feeling the burden of having too much of information. When you got 3 options, it’s simple to decide in comparison with having hundreds of thousands of choices to decide from. When we have difficulty in deciding something, we suffer in our life tragically. When 9 out of 10 people feel lazy to take desired action, the whole society suffers because there’s no one to lead. There’s no one to give a right direction to the society. When you put your focus on everything, you go no where. The same shit is taking place with our youngsters. Inability to focus on something meaningful, makes you internally weak. For instance, you want to read a non-fiction book on personal development and did a research on the internet and you found out that, there’s are hundreds of thousands of books available. When you have so many of options then, your mind starts to wander around and comes up with excuses like, there’s are so many options to look at and it’s gonna take a lot of time to pick one best book on personal development. We work our best when there’s a shortage of resources. We show great level of care and creativity when there’s scarcity. It’s deeply embedded into our DNA. Now going back to the example of picking up a personal development book, I would’ve picked up any book on that subject matter. It’s better to decide something than just keep evaluating every option available to you. As you pick something, as you move one step forward, you will just keep making your way. The biggest problem of our times is not the lack of information but the lack of will to decide something. So, pick something meaningful and stick to it!