Author: sekhrikush11

Mind your own Business  but, what’s the business of life? Is it to take advantage of others or is it to focus on your life to make it a better to promote win- win for everyone? We need to be familiar about the core business of life and focus only on it! Envy, resentment & bitterness are surrounded by all of us. Our focus is on the wrong things and we all know that. When our focus on things that we don’t want/desire guess what, we then, start to see more of the things that we wish not to see. It’s all because of law of attraction. The universe fulfills your wishes. Human life is the precious gift that we’ve. We have an incredible ability to think. It’s not just the ability to visualize things but, we are capable of taking actions in our lives. The more action we take by indulging ourselves into the things that make us weak, resentful, the more terrible we would feel in our lives. We need to shift our focus on minding our own life. It doesn’t mean that, you should stop talking to your family. It also doesn’t mean that, you should lock yourself in the room and become lonely. The true essence of minding your own business is to put your focus more on good things than negative things so that, you enjoy yourself and most importantly, others enjoy your presence too! We can only do well in the business of life as long as we don’t cover our flaws, seek truth, show kindness and focus on taking more humble and noble responsibilities in our lives to make it better. Remember, Resentment, bitterness and anger do not damage others but it slowly destroy your happiness by damaging your soul permanently. I’m not saying that, you need to close your eyes and ears to the world especially to those people who’s incredibly successful in their respective fields. You look at them. They worked hard to be at top of their lives. We can take inspiration from them but, comparing yourself to them is just like committing a suicide. So, come up with a plan even, with a stupid plan to start minding your business with good intentions in your heart. Your eyes and ears must be wide opened and your hands and feet must be ready to take actions. Actions to make good scarifies! The one thing you need to take away from this blog-post is to work on your life by investing your time and efforts to make it better for yourself & beautiful for others. I believe that, that’s the true spirit of having a life business

Nothing is free in the world. Even the things that cost you nothing got hidden cost. You pay with your time & efforts. Time and efforts to get something are the most underrated currencies of the world. People who really understand this, really make tremendous improvement in their lives. Real cost to find meaning in life The short answer to this is to make sacrifices in your present. The long answer to this is to have aggressive patience and faith. Everybody thinks that, it’s hard to find meaning in life but, actually it’s not. The meaning of life is to improve your life. It’s to make your life a better one. Now the question arises, how can you make your life a better one? Well, in order to make your life a better one, we need to take core responsibilities in our lives. For instance, if your are overweight, you need to start with one healthy meal in a week then, scale it up to 2 healthy meals with 15-20 minutes of daily exercise. If you smoke & drink too much may be, you need to channel your free time into productive things like walking, reading, writing and working out. Someone having problem with money then, it’s better to MAKE the money. SAVE it and INVEST it. Everyday, we need to diligently work on all of those things that will ultimately help us to become a better person. Money comes and goes. Power comes and goes but, the real question you need to ask yourself what kind of legacy would you like to leave behind when you are all gone? A legacy that would inspire your kids/grandkids and other people associated with you to do well in their lives and become good people. Life makes more sense when we shift our focus from the propagandas of governments, mainstream media, corporate greed, fake climate change & gender politics to the real things like having faith in God, putting families first, building & creating & preserving values (freedom, seeking truth, self-control, justice, kindness & common good) and helping one another in achieving humble and noble goals. That’s the real meaning of life. That’s what we all need to focus on. When you sacrifice toxic things and put your focus on real shit then, you will be less depressed & more happy with yourself.

We crave for freedom all the time. Everybody likes to be free. There’s always a cost associated with free things in our lives. I was wondering why not to make a blog post about true essence of freedom. We got a wrong perception about freedom like, once you are free, you are above the law. You can do whatever you like to do in your life. No need to stress about anything. Everything will be easy to attain. Sadly, it’s not true. People who really have this kind of fancy ideology, doom to be anxious, resentful and depressed. First of all, we need to understand that, how we can get freedom and how we can truly enjoy it? Freedom is confidence. It enables you to do productive things in your life and lives of those around you by taking calculative risks and keeping the ethical and moral standards of the society in the mind. In order to get freedom, we need to take heavy burden of responsibilities on our shoulders. We need to constantly work on our physical, mental, emotional, financial and spiritual well being. We presume that, freedom gives you the authority to control the lives of others. Freedom doesn’t give you the right to start causing trouble in the society. The role of freedom is to make you humble when you have the authority to control the things. The role of independence is to serve justice, seek truth, have self-control and serve people with kindness. In order to obtain freedom we need to make sacrifices in present for better tomorrow. We need to make sacrifices of our toxic habits for less painful future. It’s hard but, with consistency it can be done otherwise, 5 to 10 years from now, we will have more regrets. Regrets are way more painful than facing a death. We got a wonderful gift from heaven- A gift of freedom of choice. We are free to choose our thoughts, habits, action. Let all of us make best use of this gift. In order to enjoy true freedom, we need to do take action for common good. We need to be more kind in our acts and promote common good. If we consistently make efforts into this direction, we will have beautiful life. How better we would feel about ourselves when we see that, our acts of kindness inspire others to take initiative to improve their lives! At least, we can go to the bed with peace. The first rule of freedom is to take more responsibilities in your life and the 2nd rule is never forget about the first rule!

We are living in a dangerous times. We got information about everything. Everything is just one click away. We really need to know that, is knowing about everything really doing any good to us or is it just making us confused and lazy? let’s talk about Pick something meaningful and stick to it! Information is power but, having too much of information about everything can be disastrous to us. Back in the days, there were less resources because of no internet. People had to spend countless hours in the library to research their topic. Because of availability of less resources really made them desperate to dig deep to seek out truth. Now, we got internet,everything is just one click away to find out. By having too many resources at our disposal, have made us quite undeceive and lazy to work on anything. Young people are feeling the burden of having too much of information. When you got 3 options, it’s simple to decide in comparison with having hundreds of thousands of choices to decide from. When we have difficulty in deciding something, we suffer in our life tragically. When 9 out of 10 people feel lazy to take desired action, the whole society suffers because there’s no one to lead. There’s no one to give a right direction to the society. When you put your focus on everything, you go no where. The same shit is taking place with our youngsters. Inability to focus on something meaningful, makes you internally weak. For instance, you want to read a non-fiction book on personal development and did a research on the internet and you found out that, there’s are hundreds of thousands of books available. When you have so many of options then, your mind starts to wander around and comes up with excuses like, there’s are so many options to look at and it’s gonna take a lot of time to pick one best book on personal development. We work our best when there’s a shortage of resources. We show great level of care and creativity when there’s scarcity. It’s deeply embedded into our DNA. Now going back to the example of picking up a personal development book, I would’ve picked up any book on that subject matter. It’s better to decide something than just keep evaluating every option available to you. As you pick something, as you move one step forward, you will just keep making your way. The biggest problem of our times is not the lack of information but the lack of will to decide something. So, pick something meaningful and stick to it!

Actually, it took me a lot of time to come up with the title for this blog- post. I wanted to write something about is there any way to heal the self (soul)? I thought a lot about it. I thought about how technology is making massive improvements every single day. People got electronic devices. The life seems so comfortable but, is it really? If it is then, why there’s so much of confusion, anxiety and depression in our people? we need to find out Prayers got miraculous power to heal the soul As we make our lives more and more comfortable, we become fragile. Even the slightest issue start giving us big headaches. I have witnessed that, as more and more we talk about comfortableness in our lives in the form of unprecedented technology, electronic gadgets, cheap dopamine, frozen food & meaningless relationships we tend to apart away from the very nature that created us. Anything we do, that is contradictory to our true selves we degrade in our values like (honesty, freedom, self-control, justice & seeking truth) People are lifting heavy burden of their damaged souls. Millions of dollars are spent every day on cheap dopamine, meaningless relationships and foods full of chemicals. Even after spending so much of money why the hell we are still full of resentful, anxious and depressed? Why? There could be hundreds of reasons but, one reason for sure is that, we are not listening to our inner-self anymore. It feels like everyone of us are in race of life and in this race of life we’re ready to lose everything including to ignore the needs of our souls. We need to reconnect with our souls. We need to maintain a healthy relationship with our souls but, how? If it’s not cheap dopamine then what? I strongly believe that, praying to the creator is the best way to heal yourself. Each one of us is suffering from some kind of addictions (alcohol, smoking, porn, cheating) it’s hard to control an addiction. It takes many years to get rid of bad habits. After trying every possible way to curb toxic habits most of the people are still unsuccessful. They are hopeless. They are depressed and ready to commit suicide. That’s not a good idea! That’s horrible thing to think. You are not coward. People who genuinely like to make efforts, always pick up the courage to start again. That’s a true spirit. In order to fuel true spirit we need to pray to God/universe to take help us to eradicate bad habits. Anytime you feel the urge to commit something bad the best thing you can do is to PRAY. If you are worried pray. Anxious? Pray. Achieved something? Be grateful. You need to rewire your brain and make sure to have praying as a integral part of your daily routine. Pray to almighty to give you the strength and the courage to improve your life. Prayers got miraculous power to heal the soul

Our job is to provide value We got a wrong perception about money. Money is not about how many hours you are getting in a week but, it’s all about what values you are bringing on the table. In order to attain true sense of freedom, we need to provide value. We need to add great value in all those things that we are working on. The question arises how can we provide value? I don’t like keeping things complex. The simple answer to this question is take more responsibilities in your life. We’re living in a culture where we have got more rights than responsibilities. Rights are good to have. It provides sense of security to the individuals but, living inside the bubble of security & safety would actually make you a weak person. In order to grow, we need to embrace challenges. We need to take heavy burden of responsibilities. Young people are desperate to find meaning in their lives. The propaganda of the governments, corporate greed, weird rules to live in a society & gender politics are simply ruining the innocent lives of our people. There are few things you can do to add value to your life & others- 1.Acts of kindness (more actions &less words) 2.Value real things (seek truth, wisdom, self-control, freedom & honesty) 3.Be friends with those who talk more about personal development, finance, productive relationships) 4.Have faith in God and thank Him for the life you have because of Him When it comes to work life, most of us hate our jobs and it’s true we all doing our jobs to keep up to the bills. It doesn’t matter if you are working in a restaurant or at the gas station, you need to be grateful at least, you have a job. At-least you have a well defined routine that compel you every morning to wake up. If, you have a complaining attitude, all I can say be grateful to the CreatorPut God First and take more responsibilities at your job. Even if you have thousands of reasons to hate your current job, for heaven’s sake, find one good reason why you still like your current job. Keep your head down & work diligently. The bottom line is this- you need to be good with people even those you don’t like. As you change your whining attitude, we will feel different about your job. It will take some time. Well, remember this, good things take time sometimes, a lot of time. There’s One quote that, I really like from Tonny Robbins- The secret of living is giving. Let this motto define your way of living. Take responsibilities and make your life better!

I believe that, women have played a crucial role in providing stability to the world. They have played and are playing tremendous role in helping their men to reach the max potential. Over the years, the roles of women have changed drastically & dramatically due to rise of unprecedented feminism movement in the west. let’s talk about why The world needs caring & compassionate women  The traditional role of a woman is to bear kids to her man, help/support her man in his goals and take care of household duties. The modern role of women due to feminism movement is now to focus more & more on their careers & individual needs. The fundamental role of a feminism movement was to make physically & mentally abused women to raise their voices against evil actions because of toxic masculinity. The role was to educate women about their rights and roles in the basic hierarchy system. The role of a feminism movement was to make women independent so that, complete harmony could be established in the world. Sadly, people in the power hijacked the true spirit of feminism movement. Now, At its pathological core, feminism is a resentment driven ideology that encourages ingratitude, arrogance and individualism at the expense of the collective good, shunning virtues like modesty, sacrifice, duty and appreciation. It is a destroyer of grace, a theft of femininity. Radical feminists posting abusive things about hard working men who are working their tails off to bring food on table is absolutely disgusting. Their senseless tiktok videos about ‘Future is female’ is a complete act of disgrace. One thing really fears me is that, the evil impact of feminism is destroying the wonderful future of our young women. There’s no doubt that, why use of drugs, smoking & drinking are so common among girls now! Here’s my take, women need to focus on their careers but, not at the expense of ignoring their role in the family and community. They need to be aware of their rights and responsibilities to establish harmony with their men instead of competing against them. The role of a woman is to raise kids with good values instead of turning her kids to hate all men. At the end, I have to say this radical feminism movement have made women confused about their identities more than ever before. It has made women mentally unstable. We have seen ‘single moms’ culture is becoming very trendy in North America. We are also witnessing the unprecedented rise of women who hate having kids. Time to wake up ladies and embrace feminine values!

In order to build anything, it needs strong foundation. It needs a reliable foundation that can provide you complete assurance about everything is just fine. Building a reliable character is one of them. Building a good character takes a lot of time. It takes incredible amount of patience. It’s not just a work of couple of days but, all I would like to say that, it’s built daily. It takes consistency. I believe that we take the word ‘character’ very lightly. Most of us like to talk about it cause, it makes us ‘cool’. There’re are couple of things we need to do to build a solid foundation of a good character 1.Don’t make any exciting promises that appear to be difficult to do 2.Make sure to be kind in your acts not just with your words 3.Read, write and do some physical workout to build overall health 4.Seek truth and don’t comfort yourself with sweet lies 5.Walk with confidence and make solid eye contact with some smile on your face. I believe that, the more we put our focus on building ourselves, the better it would be for us. Working on critical thinking &working on real life problems related to finances, relationships and health would definitely lead some sort of growth in character. All we need to start from somewhere and have the momentum to keep moving forward. Staying away as much as from the propaganda of mainstream media, big corporations, governments is a self-care. Just like a home is not built in a day, the same principle is applied to character also. Just like building a home requires people to come together and work with harmony, the same thing works well for a good character formation. You need constant guidance from people who’re older and wiser than you are. ‘Character’ is not just the word that you can consume it like a bag of potato chips. It’s the essence of life that has the miracle power to define you as a person. A person with good character doesn’t need to work too hard to make things happen instead, universe steps in and make things happen for him. Look, you can gain so much if, just completely focus on building a good character. People will listen to you. They will start respecting you. They will start talking about growth, development, money, health and strong relationships to you. Man, there’re ocean of opportunities and sky is the only limit when you have a rock solid values. Let’s each one of us start caring for our lives. Let’s bring some realness in our lives in the form of good character. Let’s just work together in peace and harmony for consistent efforts for great values, great character and good fortune!

I believe that, most of us aimlessly focusing on happiness rather than focusing on to find the meaning of life! There’s no doubt that, there are thousands of posts on social media about happiness and most of us think about it and say that’s it! That’s what I am looking for! One word answer: Happiness! In this blog post we will focus on the meaning of life! Everyone one has to find meaning in their lives. Some people are lucky enough to find it early in their lives whereas, others just keep looking for it throughout their lives. One simple thing we all can do to find meaning in life is to be a good person. Now we need to understand the definition of being a good person. A person who’s rational, kind(not nice). A good person believes in courage to take actions to make his life better and all of those who are associated with him. I believe that, we don’t have to be perfect to be good. Little acts of kindness without asking for a favour in return is a humble characteristic of a good person. I think that, society is teaching us all wrong about happiness. We are too much focused on happiness on surface level. we have forgotten to dig deep enough to find a fountain of goodness within us ever ready to flow if we just keep digging. People often say that when they drink & smoke, they find peace for a while. Well, that’s true alcohol and smoking help you to forget about the pain for a day and then what? We need to look for a concrete solution. The solution lies in finding meaning of life and that is becoming a good person. A genuine good person who promote common good by exercising self control, justice, honesty and kindness! Another problem with chasing happiness is that, it comes and goes. For instance, if I was in a happy mood and Later on I found there’s too much of paper work on my work desk that needs my immediate attention, would I be happy? No! But if I change my paradigm from happiness to meaning I might find my paper work productive & meaningful. I might find my happiness along the path as long as I am focusing on the task. If, you are in the journey of finding meaning of your life and if you encounter happiness along the way, welcome that happiness in your life with open arms. Just focusing on happiness is baseless. I believe that, it’s worthless cause, happiness is temporary whereas meaningful life has strong foundation. A foundation that can give you a right direction to your life. I’ll say one more time meaning of life is deeply embedded in taking care of your humble responsibilities in your life. If, you find happiness while stepping forward on the path of meaning consider yourself to be fortunate!