you Got Energy

You read it right. You have the energy. You got the potential and you have the ability to turn your dreams into actions. There’s no point to be aimless. There’s no point of losing any hope. If you are hopeless and nihilistic then, I’m talking to you and this blog post is for you. Imagine what we could have achieved if we had made best your use of our energy into building & creating things instead of complaining and whining. Imagine, what could have been accomplished if we just had changed the direction of our energy from toxic to good. I have no hesitation to say that Energy is God. The whole universe is full of energy. It’s result can not be seen but can be felt. Your doubts will always try to convince you that, there’s nothing anything like energy. Your evil inside you will force you to make bad use of the energy that is flowing inside of you and maybe, that’s why, doubts don’t help us to connect with the source. Lack of energy doesn’t help in creating better things for future. Being aimless as long as you are on this planet is the worst thing you can do. You can always start with your health. Instead of wasting the beauty of life into reckless things like drug addictions and porn why can’t you grab the enough courage to accumulate the energy and use it for common good. We all can do that! We all are free to make our minds . Most of us make promises, but very few keep their commitments. I’m not saying that, you need to make crazy like promises/commitments. All I am saying that, you need to be aware of the potential that is flowing within you. By becoming conscious of your actions (good or bad) you become better little by little everyday.we have the ability to think, create and build so why don’t we out one step forward to bring good to the world? Energy is everything. Most of us are wasting it or not utilizing it properly by indulging in toxic habits like drug addictions, reckless sex and blaming everything on the others. We need to understand the importance of our potential. We need to change the flow. Remember, energetic man is always charming. He’s always cool. Everyone likes to be around him. Be that guy and attract others with your positive energy.

What do kids need right now

Let me talk to you straight, if someone is talking about right of freedom and speech, He or she shouldn’t not be considered as extremist. If some one talks about our kids need to know that, the history is based on truth rather than on feeling, there’s no way we should buyout that person who’s on the right side – on the side of truth. I don’t wanna to talk about who’s right or who’s on the left side of the debate, All I know that, I’m on kids side. We should not tolerate anyone who’s trying to make our kids weak and ashamed of themselves whether it’s our governments, leftists or social media influencers. We should stand up for right. Have you ever noticed that, ever since, kids have gotten closer and closer to social media especially, to tiktok life of little folks have become much harder than ever before. Teenagers are taking huge amounts of stress in their lives. They are increasingly dependent on antidepressants, anxiety pills. With the indoctrination of CRT (critical Race Theory) Radical sex theories early on in our kids life in schools, it is making their situation bad to worse. Parents send their loving kids to schools with an expectation to see their kids work, create, build beautiful things in present for better tomorrow. It’s not easy to break to my readers that, the opposite is happening in schools. Kids are coming back to their parents and saying things like, I’m not sure whether I’m a boy or disclosing their parents that, I wanna to be trans. If concerned parents try to take stand up for their children and make schools accountable for what they are teaching social media, globalists, leftists pretend those worried parents as the enemy of their kids. I wonder why most of the parents have given up and don’t say anything to their kids when irrational thoughts come up to their minds. I have said it so many times instead of telling our children that, feeling are way more important than the truth why don’t we just focus on telling our kids that, in order to have reliable future, the best thing they can do is to seek truth. It is to take care of their humble and noble responsibilities towards their lives. They seriously need to come out of trap created by radical left wing people. The only thing the kids need to take away from this blog post is to abandon woke culture. They need to move beyond woke culture. They need to invest in improving their relationships with their parents by getting closer to God, sacrificing their toxic habits for better future. We need to make sure that we need to prepare our kids to protect, preserve and defend the western civilization.

What’s in my destiny?

Future is attractive cause, it makes us curious. It’s unpredictable. Tens of billions of dollars are being spent on making wild guesses about tomorrow. If you can’t think about any example let me give you some- money invested in stock markets, real estate, future of our kids after high school graduation, relationship plannings, making home budgets and many more. It’s all about what’s next in our destiny. Future always keeps us wondering. There’s no human being on the planet who doesn’t think about future. Everyone does and everyone should. The reason why we are born is not to sit on our asses and do nothing but, to work, build and create for better tomorrow. The biggest mystery is this, we don’t know what future is holding for us? We all are trying to make sure that, whatever we are doing in present whether good or bad, we just hope that, it should bring us better future. We all got some wild expectations/hopes for our future. For a drug addict, he hopes to curb his toxic habits. A businessman hopes for better growth for his business venture. For a father, better future for his entire family. I some times wonder if ‘hope’ was listed as a stock on NYSE, I would have made a lot of money. You know why? We all hope for better tomorrow. We all bid for better future. We all hope for better circumstances. Destiny, just doesn’t magically appear by itself. We need to work for it. We need to connect the dots of our past to the present and with present, we can make predictions about future. Whatever you did in your past, whether good or bad, you will do the same thing in the present and soon your present will become past cause, time never stops for anyone! By realizing your past mistakes and being aware about your present by having harmony with your actions might bring good/productive results into your life. I believe that, there’s no future. There’s only present. Every present moment is turning into your past with the flow of time. So, if just have present at our disposal, why don’t we make a peace deal with it? Instead of living a restless life by continuously thinking about future why can’t we make harmony with our current actions. I truly believe that, a better destiny is possible for all of us if we just focus on today- right now! It’s hard, but it’s worth trying. What’s next in your destiny- only your present!

Woke Culture in the west

Western civilization is based on fundamental principle of freedom of speech and expression. It’s not based on censorship. Over the past few years, we are faced with challenge of woke culture. In this blog post, we need to talk about this problem and how it is eroding our freedom to express our views. When I was in India, I never heard about the word ‘woke’ but, coming to Canada, this word is on everyone’s minds. The fundamental meaning of being woke was to be conscious about strengths and weaknesses about the individuals irrespective to their skin colour, race and their ethnicity. The purpose was of wokeism was to empower people to take part in the economy by focusing on building, creating and adding value to the world but, unfortunately, the woke movement has been highjacked by the radical left wing people. Radical leftists or ultra wokees are provoking people by saying, there’s no agency in the world. They are making people to believe that, patriarchy is responsible for their miseries. They have a very weird solution to end this patriarchy system by just doing violent protests. It is to do complain and whim about the traditional structure of the the world. Radical left wing people don’t tell people that, patriarchy is based on competence, not power. They are trying to brainwash young people by transforming them into the victims of patriarchy. This woke culture is doing more harm than good to our kids. The fundamental problem with the woke culture is that, feelings of the people are more important than the truth. Governments, social media, streaming platforms like Netflix and globalists are trying to persuade people about, they should care more about their feelings than the truth. When more and more people run way from the truth guess what? It will lead to creation of weak people and with weak people, you can’t win anything. Don’t worry, there’s a solution of every problem. Woke culture also has a solution. We just need to think beyond the woke culture especially, in schools. Kids need to focus on building and creating better future. I’m sure that, better way to build a future is not to complain but, to work and to take care of humble responsibilities. That’s the only solution.

Servant leadership part-2

In the first part of the servant leadership we talked about what is servant leadership and the guiding principles that we need to master it. We had also talked about in order for some one aspires to be Servant leader, he needs to be humble and set boundaries and face challenges. In this blog post I would like to talk about, why the world needs servant leadership and what our kids could learn from it. This world is a beautiful one. The entire universe is created by the Creator. He has sent us on this planet to bring peace, prosperity and happiness into the world. I would like to ask my readers, in order to bring prosperity into this world what would you like your leader to do? I’m sure that, it can’t be complaining and whining. You want your leader to work, build and create all of those things that leads to peace and common good. Servant leadership is not about serving the desires of those who want the world to suffer cause of their evil actions. It is about enlightening the world in the face of darkness with truth, just actions and a hope for better tomorrow. For servant leadership it’s not what we take from others but, what we bring on the table. We should always make sure that, no matter what action we are doing, we can always think about servant leadership in our mind. for instance, after done making food in the kitchen, we can clean up our mess so that, we make things better for next person to use the kitchen. We can always inspire others with small acts of kindness. Little things at the end adds up. Small creative things add beauty to the life. It makes your life beautiful cause you are the one doing act of kindness but, it also motivates the other person to look at the world with new perspective. You can have all the power and money in the world but, you can still be worried. You might not sleep good cause, you might be thinking about, what would happen if all of my power is gone? Restless nights are not good. They only attracts misery and bitterness. With your mind focused on Servant leader at least, would allow you to go to bed peacefully cause, you will only be thinking about doing good acts. I can only imagine that, what impact servant leadership subject would have on our kids if we start teaching them early on in their lives. The benefits are countless. I believe that, instead of teaching our kids about radical racism theories, gender identity and sexism, we should give our focus on servant leadership. We should teach our kids about it is their job to build, create and make things that benefit the entire human civilization and without servant leadership you can’t make this world a better place. We all are here to serve each others needs. Let’s focus on servant leadership and live happily.

Servant leadership part-1

There are many books written on Servant leadership. This blog is all about what I have understood about servant leadership so far. The basic meaning of servant leadership is putting the needs of others above yours. I know that, there’s more to learn about it like basic aspects, principles and values. I’m sure that, with sense of unpredictability in the world, we can really push over selves in the direction of servant leadership to make this world beautiful once again! As I said earlier, the basic meaning of servant leadership is to put others before you put yourself first. When I read bible, every single night before, I go to bed, it gives me perfect example of how Jesus Christ selflessly sacrificed himself on the cross for all of us. I believe that, there is no other profound example of servant leadership than that. I also know that, we can’t be all Jesus but, we try to be humble. Servant leadership doesn’t mean that you need to make unimaginable efforts to fulfill the greedy needs of the people but, what it really means is to work, build and create concrete structure in the society that leads to common good. The structure of living has to be based on humility, seeking truth, revering God, acting kind and serving others with justice. I know that, it’s a hard way to step into it but, with genuine intentions to bring good and fight evil with the guiding principles can lead society towards peace, prosperity and happiness. It’s not that hard to see that, our society is running away from the principles of servant leadership and we are increasingly obsessed with our own identities every single day. Our leaders make every possible effort to censor their critics. Pandemic of covid 19 is a perfect example when some politicians tried to suppress covid 19 protests but, if the protests were taking place somewhere else, they would explode and say it’s an attack on freedom of speech and democracy. This is called hypocrisy. Anyone who aspire to become  a leader, needs to stand firm and listen to his critics more than anybody else. He needs to face the challenges and instead of forcing protesters to shut down. I didn’t know anything about servant leadership when I was in school. One day, I was at public library in kitchener, Ontatio, I stumbled across the title servant leadership and I decided to pick up. I believe that, more more should be taught on it and Jesus Christ who mastered it in every school to fight with on going mental health crisis especially in the west.

Bounce back

If you weren’t happy or satisfied with the year 2022 now is the time to bounce back.I have said it in many blogs that, there’s nothing you can change in the past. Whatever took place in past, it just happened. We can all take lessons mostly tough lessons and make sure whatever experience we gained from the mistakes, we can apply that experience to make a better life. ‘Bounce back’ is the new mantra for all of those who are desperate to bring good change in their lifestyles. I’m not talking about if you belong to right wing or left wing but, I’m trying to have conversation with your innocent souls. Most of us talk inequality in terms of everything especially when it comes to money and opportunities. We blame that, patriarchy is responsible for inequality but, I believe that we should blame our mind set. For some people who think that, redistribution of wealth leads solution of inequality then, I just wanna to say to those it’s not gonna happen. Even if you redistribute the entire wealth in equal amounts to every single one on this planet, it will go back to the same hands, the very next day who have more skills, more connections. What we really need to work on is our mindset. People who focus on building, creating and adding value to the world bring common good. With their positive attitude, society goes toward great direction of success, happiness and prosperity. Some of you might be going through hardships in your life. I have full empathy with you but, just think for a second, simply just blaming everything on your outside circumstances is doing more harm to you than good. We might not have control on the external factors but, we do have control of our mind, our thoughts. So bounce back not for others but for your own good. I’m not denying about, it’s gonna be smooth for you. You will face many challenges as soon as you decide to make dramatic changes in your life but, one thing I would say to you that, just hang in there. You are gonna fail many times but, don’t take it as a judgement, grab the enough courage to learn from it and go for another try! Keep trying until you start making steady change in your life. Come back hard. Do your homework diligently and let the world hear you roaring with confidence and humility. Keep faith! Bounce back hard!

Focus on few things

Yes, you read it right, focus on few things is the need of the hour right now. Our problem is that, we wanna to take everything under our control. You look at your workplace, some people try to micromanage everything and when things don’t go as per the plan guess what? Chaos take place. With chaos everything falls apart. In this blog post, I would try to give more and more emphasis on focusing on few things. I have said it many times while blogging our mind is restless cause, there’s too much of information to process. There are too many thoughts come and go in our mind. One simple thing. I would like you to do when ever you feel like you are overwhelmed, you need to breathe in breathe out until you feel good. 2nd thing I would like you to do if you are  having anxiety issues, before you go to bed write a positive thing in your journal or write about why you had a very good day in-spite of hardships during the day. Remember, anxiety issues won’t disappear in a day. It takes time. Every good thing takes time and you need to have patience and leave everything on the universe. There’s nothing more I’d like to say. Do these 2 things with consistency. Consistency is the key. It leads to improvement in life. Focus on consistent efforts in making tremendous improvements in your life. There’s are many problems we face to live our lives like financial, relationship, drugs and health. Instead of focusing on all of the problems together why don’t we start with health problems first and many of you might be thinking why we need to deal with health issues first why not money problems? The simple reason is because Health is wealth and it’s more important than making or losing money. So, why don’t make efforts to workout or go for walk for 15 minutes for 5 times in a week. With physical exercise, you will experience positive thoughts and optimistic thoughts leads to good actions. When you are active, you can focus more at work. You will be productive and effective in your work team. You will have better chances of making more money. Another benefit of focusing on health is that, people will find you more active and attractive. People will make genuine efforts in knowing you. By just focusing on basic workout you could tackle so many of your financial and relationship problems. I would suggest you again, focus on one thing at a time and make sure it makes tremendous progress in your life and not just in your life but in all of those lives which are associated with you. Focus on few is the key!

Dear men, build yourself to lift others

Dear men, build yourself to lift others Have most of the men forgotten why they were born? If they have then, they need to wake up and remind themselves about, they were created to protect and provide for their families. They were born to lead their families and give them steady direction. The whole purpose of this blog post is to bring lost young men back to their lives. As a society, we need to understand no parents want their son to be weak. No girlfriend/wife wants her man to be fragile. It’s disgrace in today’s society in which we are teaching our young kids to forget about their purpose and live an aimless life. When a man lives a purpose-less life he seeks for instant gratification( drugs and porn). He might get pleasure for couple of seconds but, he drains his entire energy to build himself. Stress seems so common in men these days. Everyone faces the heat of stress. For a man they need to know the importance of stress. They need to embrace stress as long as it’s helping them to make tremendous improvements in their lives. Just to get lost in playing video games, watching animes, binge eating and drinking and jerking off to the screen to avoid stress is doing more harm than good to our young men. Just saying life is not fair and acting like victim in front of world are the last 2 things the young men need these days. There’s so much at stake right now. The governments these days are putting brave men behind the bars for speaking against unnecessary covid restrictions. Netflix is in process of promoting all kinds of movies that target traditional masculinity. Social media platforms are waging a war against men and promoting radical feminism. Any man who tries to inspire aimless men regarding their lifestyle is get banned on social media instantly. If our only purpose is to widen the gap between 2 genders by turning them against each other to save this planet then, I’m in no way to support this agenda of matrix. In order for this world to run smoothly, men need to embrace stress. They need to remember the fundamental purpose of traditional masculinity. They need to carry the burden of their humble and noble responsibilities. There should be complete harmony between 2 genders to promote peace, prosperity and happiness in the world. I will say a million times we need more responsible men and more caring women. Period. Dear men, build yourself to lift others

Start again

Instead of making any excuse why don’t you accept you have failed and start again with an experience? Starting again is tough. It’s frustrating, it’s time consuming and sometimes it’s expensive. If you ask me, it is worth it and the only reasoning I got is that as long as it helps in bringing positive change in your life. There’s a difference between failure and quitting. Failure doesn’t necessarily suggest that all the doors are closed in front of you but, quitting something that you were working on for a quite while definitely means you have no intention to make efforts to find new doors. Failure doesn’t lead to resentment whereas, quitting definitely leads to it. I know how hard it feels to start over again but, it’s even harder to stay at the same place. Money can stop coming but, time never stops. For instance, making plans to quit bad habits take time and failure is inevitable not just one time but many times. There will be countless moments of frustration and resentment during the phase but, quitting to improve your life definitely leads to regrets during latter stages of life. There’s no shame of starting something again for a good cause. If anyone says to you it’s hard to start again then, remember what made you to commence again. Knowing your reason to restart helps your brain and mind to work together. It leads to more clarity and clarity leads to less restlessness. I know for someone of you might be having difficult time in your relationships, finances and at work. What you need to do right know is to breathe in and breathe out. Go out for a walk alone and start again. I’m sorry if you are looking for some quick fix cause, I don’t have anything for short period of time but, all I can say to you is to leave everything on the universe and you focus on making efforts with genuine intentions. Stop lying to yourself if your life is going upside down. You need to accept one thing- you made some failed attempts to rectify but, the efforts didn’t pay off well so, you have no other option else to start again. You can also view this one as life is not always fair and it will never be so, hard advice is to put your shit together whatever is left then, start again Remember: There’s no shame in starting once again! So start now!