Author: sekhrikush11

If you weren’t happy or satisfied with the year 2022 now is the time to bounce back.I have said it in many blogs that, there’s nothing you can change in the past. Whatever took place in past, it just happened. We can all take lessons mostly tough lessons and make sure whatever experience we gained from the mistakes, we can apply that experience to make a better life. ‘Bounce back’ is the new mantra for all of those who are desperate to bring good change in their lifestyles. I’m not talking about if you belong to right wing or left wing but, I’m trying to have conversation with your innocent souls. Most of us talk inequality in terms of everything especially when it comes to money and opportunities. We blame that, patriarchy is responsible for inequality but, I believe that we should blame our mind set. For some people who think that, redistribution of wealth leads solution of inequality then, I just wanna to say to those it’s not gonna happen. Even if you redistribute the entire wealth in equal amounts to every single one on this planet, it will go back to the same hands, the very next day who have more skills, more connections. What we really need to work on is our mindset. People who focus on building, creating and adding value to the world bring common good. With their positive attitude, society goes toward great direction of success, happiness and prosperity. Some of you might be going through hardships in your life. I have full empathy with you but, just think for a second, simply just blaming everything on your outside circumstances is doing more harm to you than good. We might not have control on the external factors but, we do have control of our mind, our thoughts. So bounce back not for others but for your own good. I’m not denying about, it’s gonna be smooth for you. You will face many challenges as soon as you decide to make dramatic changes in your life but, one thing I would say to you that, just hang in there. You are gonna fail many times but, don’t take it as a judgement, grab the enough courage to learn from it and go for another try! Keep trying until you start making steady change in your life. Come back hard. Do your homework diligently and let the world hear you roaring with confidence and humility. Keep faith! Bounce back hard!

Yes, you read it right, focus on few things is the need of the hour right now. Our problem is that, we wanna to take everything under our control. You look at your workplace, some people try to micromanage everything and when things don’t go as per the plan guess what? Chaos take place. With chaos everything falls apart. In this blog post, I would try to give more and more emphasis on focusing on few things. I have said it many times while blogging our mind is restless cause, there’s too much of information to process. There are too many thoughts come and go in our mind. One simple thing. I would like you to do when ever you feel like you are overwhelmed, you need to breathe in breathe out until you feel good. 2nd thing I would like you to do if you are  having anxiety issues, before you go to bed write a positive thing in your journal or write about why you had a very good day in-spite of hardships during the day. Remember, anxiety issues won’t disappear in a day. It takes time. Every good thing takes time and you need to have patience and leave everything on the universe. There’s nothing more I’d like to say. Do these 2 things with consistency. Consistency is the key. It leads to improvement in life. Focus on consistent efforts in making tremendous improvements in your life. There’s are many problems we face to live our lives like financial, relationship, drugs and health. Instead of focusing on all of the problems together why don’t we start with health problems first and many of you might be thinking why we need to deal with health issues first why not money problems? The simple reason is because Health is wealth and it’s more important than making or losing money. So, why don’t make efforts to workout or go for walk for 15 minutes for 5 times in a week. With physical exercise, you will experience positive thoughts and optimistic thoughts leads to good actions. When you are active, you can focus more at work. You will be productive and effective in your work team. You will have better chances of making more money. Another benefit of focusing on health is that, people will find you more active and attractive. People will make genuine efforts in knowing you. By just focusing on basic workout you could tackle so many of your financial and relationship problems. I would suggest you again, focus on one thing at a time and make sure it makes tremendous progress in your life and not just in your life but in all of those lives which are associated with you. Focus on few is the key!

Dear men, build yourself to lift others Have most of the men forgotten why they were born? If they have then, they need to wake up and remind themselves about, they were created to protect and provide for their families. They were born to lead their families and give them steady direction. The whole purpose of this blog post is to bring lost young men back to their lives. As a society, we need to understand no parents want their son to be weak. No girlfriend/wife wants her man to be fragile. It’s disgrace in today’s society in which we are teaching our young kids to forget about their purpose and live an aimless life. When a man lives a purpose-less life he seeks for instant gratification( drugs and porn). He might get pleasure for couple of seconds but, he drains his entire energy to build himself. Stress seems so common in men these days. Everyone faces the heat of stress. For a man they need to know the importance of stress. They need to embrace stress as long as it’s helping them to make tremendous improvements in their lives. Just to get lost in playing video games, watching animes, binge eating and drinking and jerking off to the screen to avoid stress is doing more harm than good to our young men. Just saying life is not fair and acting like victim in front of world are the last 2 things the young men need these days. There’s so much at stake right now. The governments these days are putting brave men behind the bars for speaking against unnecessary covid restrictions. Netflix is in process of promoting all kinds of movies that target traditional masculinity. Social media platforms are waging a war against men and promoting radical feminism. Any man who tries to inspire aimless men regarding their lifestyle is get banned on social media instantly. If our only purpose is to widen the gap between 2 genders by turning them against each other to save this planet then, I’m in no way to support this agenda of matrix. In order for this world to run smoothly, men need to embrace stress. They need to remember the fundamental purpose of traditional masculinity. They need to carry the burden of their humble and noble responsibilities. There should be complete harmony between 2 genders to promote peace, prosperity and happiness in the world. I will say a million times we need more responsible men and more caring women. Period. Dear men, build yourself to lift others

Instead of making any excuse why don’t you accept you have failed and start again with an experience? Starting again is tough. It’s frustrating, it’s time consuming and sometimes it’s expensive. If you ask me, it is worth it and the only reasoning I got is that as long as it helps in bringing positive change in your life. There’s a difference between failure and quitting. Failure doesn’t necessarily suggest that all the doors are closed in front of you but, quitting something that you were working on for a quite while definitely means you have no intention to make efforts to find new doors. Failure doesn’t lead to resentment whereas, quitting definitely leads to it. I know how hard it feels to start over again but, it’s even harder to stay at the same place. Money can stop coming but, time never stops. For instance, making plans to quit bad habits take time and failure is inevitable not just one time but many times. There will be countless moments of frustration and resentment during the phase but, quitting to improve your life definitely leads to regrets during latter stages of life. There’s no shame of starting something again for a good cause. If anyone says to you it’s hard to start again then, remember what made you to commence again. Knowing your reason to restart helps your brain and mind to work together. It leads to more clarity and clarity leads to less restlessness. I know for someone of you might be having difficult time in your relationships, finances and at work. What you need to do right know is to breathe in and breathe out. Go out for a walk alone and start again. I’m sorry if you are looking for some quick fix cause, I don’t have anything for short period of time but, all I can say to you is to leave everything on the universe and you focus on making efforts with genuine intentions. Stop lying to yourself if your life is going upside down. You need to accept one thing- you made some failed attempts to rectify but, the efforts didn’t pay off well so, you have no other option else to start again. You can also view this one as life is not always fair and it will never be so, hard advice is to put your shit together whatever is left then, start again Remember: There’s no shame in starting once again! So start now!

If there’s anything that is dominating us day and night is our own doubts. One of the reason why we have so many doubts is because, we got too much of information about everything. With the use of internet, doubts about everything have increased by manyfold and it’s hard to keep track of them now! Let me come to the point, there are many ways to release stress and going out for a walk alone is a very effective way to have clarity of mind. Thousands of things come and go in our minds and to be honest not all of them are useful enough. Since, all of us live a very hectic life and If you add more days, our minds face burden of tens of thousands of useless information and create doubts. In order to release the load we really make no efforts. We often spend so much time to make things complex. We think that, every complex problem requires complex solution. If the solution is not complicated enough we are not impressed enough. If you are reading this, this thing should make you sad and force you to look for fundamentals to remove stress and doubts. From Abraham Lincoln to the founder of Apple Steve Jobs had given so much stress on their daily walking to think clearly and divinely to bring positive change in the society. I was listening to a podcast couple of years ago on spirituality and the speaker was giving importance to walking 5 to 10 minutes every day and the impact he had on his life. He became more patient, he started paying more attention to his surroundings and started to write his experiences in his journal. The bottom line is this- he found peace and happiness in his life and actually felt less burden over the course of time period. I don’t know if you have experienced it or not but, when I walk alone I hear angels whisper into my ears. They talk about what I need to improve in my life. They help me to make better decisions. I sometimes refer those angels to my inner voice. So far walking 4-5 times in a week is helping me work on thoughts. Good thoughts leads to good action. Good action leads to positive improvement in the life and in lives of people around me. I urge everyone in order to reduce burden of useless thoughts walk at-least 4 to 5 times in a week and make tremendous impact in your life.

I don’t know if you know this- your writer is an old school guy. When nothing goes right, when I see all the doors in front of me are closed down, I just simply pray to the creator of the universe to give me more strength. In this blog post, I would like to connect with my readers spiritually. We all have one common source. We are all created by God. We are his work. We are sent on this Earth to glorify God. We all are here to give utmost importance to our spiritual well-being. It’s not cool to say that, I don’t believe in God and I don’t know who I am? You simply can’t deny your existence. There’s nothing to be embarrassed or afraid of about your inner voice is connected with God. Your soul is connected with God. I have said it many times and I will say it again, making connection with God through a prayer has miraculous power even, scientists, globalists could not calculate its value/importance. The sooner you realize this, the better it would be for you. Another thing I often hear is that, if the universe is created by God then, why we are tempted to do mistakes or why do we do evil things in our lives? Well, it’s a tough question to answer. We are living in a broken world and evilness is created by satin so that, he can create doubts about Creator in our minds but, with prayers and focusing on our main mission to do common good in the world, we can come out of doubts and get the mercy of our Creator. It’s not a simple task. It’s massively hard. Pain and suffering kills our strength and endurance whereas, prayers build our trust and faith and gives back the endurance that we need to fight evilness in our lives. We need to focus on our kids. The reason why I’m saying that, cause it’s very easy to plant anything in kids minds. The leftwing people are polluting the minds of our innocent kids by giving emphasis on ‘God is dead’ we need to teach right thing to our kids. Parents need to make sure that, before kids go to bed they should teach kids how to pray and how to connect with God. The leftists always focus on the word ‘victim’. You know why? Cause they are the one who wanna to cultivate seeds of doubts in our minds. They wanna to represent themselves as the victim of evilness and make you believe that, God is just a myth. You don’t need to come into their trap. You as a civilian need to open your eyes and believe with full conviction that, no matter how hard is my life I’m sure God is with me and always with me! When nothing goes right, Pray!

Have you ever noticed that, in modern world, we are giving more emphasis on ‘I’ rather than on ‘we’. You look at the politicians and especially, some top celebrities around the globe give more importance to their own performances and take all the credit. The word ‘humble’ is considered for a weak person whereas, word ‘pride’ makes us ruthless, more appealing to others. This is a disease that is spreading like wildfire. Let me be frank here, some Instagram models, some popular you tubers/tiktokers , radical feminists and radical leftists are driving our innocent kids into hell by making them to believe the notion that, you can achieve anything in the world without taking help of any one and once, you achieve your goals you just have to give the credit to yourself. You don’t have to be grateful to God for giving you the wisdom, you don’t need to give thanks to your family and friends. Right now, some you might not agree with me what I’m saying but, 10-15 years from now you will realize what I was trying to convey at that time and I mean it. Some of you might be feeling the overwhelming presence of pride in the west. One simple thing that, I truly believe in is this: in order to build anything in the world you have to make efforts(hard-work) you might need the help of the experts and little bit of luck. So, it’s not just you doing all things. for instance, you are driving a car it’s not just you doing all the thing. You need to give some credit to your car as it’s helping you to reach from point A to point B. It’s a common trend in our world. We are giving more and more importance to be Independent. Well, someone’s independence is better than someone who is dependent and inter-dependence is better than being independent. As, interdependence will make your partner feel valued. If a CEO of a certain company is taking all the credit of increasing the net worth of his shareholders guess what? He might be gaining in money but, over the next 10 years, his people lose their attraction towards the company. The company will be doomed to go bankrupt and it’s just a matter of time. If you don’t believe me then, go look how many companies being destroyed in the heat of pride(arrogance) not just the companies but the individuals and the rulers. We don’t wanna to make our kids, young people victims of pride. You might take advantage of being arrogant for short period but, at the end it’s your loss. Being humble won’t make you weak but sure, if you are full of pride it will make you malevolent over time. It’s imperative for us to learn the language of love and kindness. I’m not saying that, if you choose to be humble doesn’t mean that, people will be kind to you. Sometimes, they will step over your head and give you hard time. What we need to know that hard times are inevitable. All we can be humble and face the hard time with great endurance. Radical leftists wanna to destroy the fundamentals of life by encouraging people to be full of pride. Well, pride of what? We came here with nothing and going with nothing. One thing we can all do is that, as long as we are here we can be humble not in words but also, in our actions. In that sense, we can take all the blessings of our people. There’s real beauty in being noble. Any non sensical views like ‘no one cares about you’ ‘no one is there to help you’, you have to do it all by yourself’ seem so pathetic way to encourage or to motivate our kids. Our kids are tired of listening to this advice. At the end, arrogance always kills humbleness always saves.

We all got blessings in our lives inspite all the pain and suffering. Most of us take our blessings for granted but, we do forget about, it is the blessings from the Creator of this universe that is inspiring us and in future it will keep inspiring us to live our lives in spirit. the bottom line is this: We all are blessed When we wake up in the morning, we are blessed because we get another day to make our lives little bit better than yesterday. The smile on our loved ones is a sign of blessing. Your bank account is in surplus is a blessing. You are working on your goals is a blessing. Everywhere you see, you will only find blessing only if you stay in harmony with your own nature and decide to stay in spirit. Believe it or not, but I strongly believe that, we all come from one source. The name of the source is spirit of God. We all are created by Him. Our souls constantly think about connecting with the spirit and that’s why you will find each time you engage in a vicious activity or filled with toxic thoughts, you will experience that, your inner voice will continue to say to you ‘don’t be a fool, don’t do this’ and when you do something bad there’s instant feeling of regret. There’s instant feeling of guilt. When we do something bad to others, we keep moving away from our source. The sad truth is we have removed the essence of GOD from our lives and ever since we are running away from the source we have become more anxious, more depressed, more resentful and more restless. In order to find peace in our lives once again, we need to stay connected with our source. We need to bring back God in our lives again to find meaning and prosperity. You can have all the money and power in the world then, why you are still restless? Then why are you still not deeply satisfied? The reason is that external forces can’t make you happy. By just running like a mad dog to get external things won’t give you joy. I’m not not saying that you just need to sit down on your ass and do nothing. What I’m trying to emphasize on we don’t need to forget that from where we have come from… we need to make some efforts to get deeper and deeper into knowing ourselves by undertaking inner journey. The more we listen to our souls the more blessed we become. The real message we need to take away from this blog post is this: we need to reconnect with our spiritual well being again. We need to reconnect with our spirit again to bring back order in our lives and less chaos. So, when you wake up and when you go back to sleep and in between keep saying to yourself I’m blessed in inspite of pain and suffering.

The world is suffering from traditional masculinity crisis. Men are becoming increasingly weak especially in the west. Radical feminism movement is on the rise. Divorces are all time high. Family values are going down hill. These are the crucial issues the world is facing. In schools and universities, students are being taught to discard traditional masculinity. If you ask radical leftists, they will say all the bad things about traditional masculinity. They will say masculinity is responsible for domestic violence, rapes, murders. Why our students are taught about traditional masculinity means protecting, providing and leading the families towards right direction. It has no give and take relationship with any kind of violence in the world. Have you ever noticed that, radical feminists and leftists always show themselves the victim of patriarchy system. Some experiments are taking place in the west to replace the patriarchal system with matriarchy system. They might gain for short period but, at the end, patriarchy will dominate the matriarchy system. The reason for this is that, in the history anywhere in the world where matriarchy system tried to dominate the world, patriarchy system has overcome the system with the sheer competence because, patriarchy system is not based on power. It is based upon competence/skills/experience that’s why, history is very much dominated by competent men. It is wrong to teach our kids that all men are looking to grab power. It’s wrong to teach the girls that, they don’t need men in their lives. Well, if that’s what you call women empowerment then, I don’t wanna to be part of this. Radical feminists have forgotten that, most of the people who are homeless are men, most of people who commit suicide are men. Most of the the people who are plumbers, electricians, construction workers etc. are men. If we just keep cursing men then, I’m sure that, the world will come apart. We need responsible men in the world from falling it apart. Feminists needs to understand this and educate girls in a right way. Men need to know especially, the young ones to take care of their responsibilities and build value in their lives instead of glueing their eyes on netflix and playing video games. Men are built to glorify God. They are built to provide and protect for their loved ones by taking care of their lives. The world is in a terrible need of men who put their purpose to serve others well and give a good fight to radical left wing ideology and woke culture that is completely brainwashing millions of people and turning them against traditional masculinity. Make sure, you should never be the part of woke culture and keep working on yourself not just for your own sake but, for all of those who care about you.

Why I’m restless? That’s the question that keeps popping in my mind and in the minds of many people. Day and night we are in a never ending race to impress the world. The race take place the moment you wake up in the morning and you get some break, the moment you close down your eyes but, the race never ends! This race is like you are never satisfied with anything. It’s always more and more. We are never satisfied with our efforts and never content with the result. Even if we are satisfied with the results, one part of our mind always keep on saying to us that- oh! You could have done little bit better. The result of this kind of thinking leads to more resentment and more craving for perfection. I don’t know about you but, I hate the word ‘perfection’. Even if you have the best car in the world, you will see more attractive cars than yours on the roads. It’s all work of our mind. Never sleeps and never let us to take some rest. If you are thinking that, we should simply do nothing in our lives then, you didn’t get the essence of this blog. We need to focus on word ‘content’. The scriptures talk about it. Ancient philosophies talk about it and even in-fact some modern philosophies have given more emphasis on word ‘CONTENT’ than any other word. So far I know that, being content with the things in life doesn’t mean that, you shouldn’t improve the things or you shouldn’t chase materialistic things but, with being content means materialistic things don’t dominate your mind and soul. If something/someone wanna to leave you then, you don’t become nihilistic in your life with the hole created by it. I know that, it’s very easy to say this but, every easy thing is hard to follow because you do mistakes and then, you do more mistakes but, you never lose your focus on the main thing and the most prominent thing is to reject the idea of getting into restless race to search for happiness by focusing on external factors. One noble & humble thing we can all do is to stop punishing our souls and make some genuine efforts to listen to it. Our souls won’t say the direct things that it needs but, I’m sure that, it leaves us some subtle clues what it wants and we need to make efforts to connect the dots. One sure thing we can do is to undertake journey within ourselves to know our personalities (good and bad) little bit better. Don’t be restless and punish your soul!