Having regret in your mind about the things that you could have done or said to improve your life but, you decided not to do/say them made you resentful, depressed and anxious over the years is the worst thing that you can ever do to yourself. In this blog post we will find out how Having regrets are more painful than facing death
First thing you need to understand that, its okay to have regrets in your life. Guilt can arise from anything. I am giving you few cases like, your relationship is not working, financial distress, low marks in the assignments, problems at workplace. You name it.
You should always keep your regrets in check so that, your guilt don’t start controlling you.if anytime, you start feeling low at that time, you need to say to yourself let it go’. I know that it’s going to be tough, it’s going to be hard but, have the courage and do it.
There are reasons why you need to do it.
First, you have to take care of yourself not only just for you but, think about your loved ones. Do it for them. Do not let the idea of shame to overpower you.
2nd, you are aiming creature, if you only think about your mistakes/ regrets guess what, you will be responsible for kicking yourself into vicious cycle of pain and suffering and if you do that, how you will justify your existence on this living planet so, stand up for good. You are way more stronger than you think!
There are couple of things I do make sure that I am not the slave of my regrets.
Write it down as clearly as you can- you may like it or not, writing does help in releasing stress. It helps in consistency in your thoughts. A man whose thoughts are consistent and articulated wins everything in life. Get the taste of consistency by writing your regrets as clearly and precisely you can.
Take small action everyday- I can talk about motivation, hope and faith all the time but, it won’t make any-sense to you and me if you don’t take action. For instance, your relationship is not working and you have regret about it. There are couple of things you can do about it. You can pick up a book on relationship, you can watch a you tube video to improve your relationship. You can talk to your partner and let him/her know about your priorities. You can go to dating expert and tell your problem may be, expert come up with some answers to your questions.Courage will make your life a Blessing
Having regret is more painful than facing death when nothing is working out, just be grateful for what you have. You need to be grateful in spite of your pain and suffering. Be grateful to the creator of the universe, your loved ones, your work, your car, your home, food. It could be anything and let the universe work for you in a miraculous way.
There is nothing more painful than having regrets while you are on your death bed and you feel like victim but,there is nothing you can do about it because you are helpless!
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