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Holidays have just begun. What a great time we all have to make best out of it. We can gain so much during this break. As families have come together, I only hope for happiness and peace. You can have all the money and power in the world but, what’s the point if you are still lonely and resentful? During the final stages of life one only thinks about his loved ones. No body thinks about oh! I should have made more money. I lost the opportunity to gain political power. All of these things take the back seat. The only thing that runs in the man’s mind at least, he should’ve spent more time with his loved ones. He should’ve cared for his family and friends. The only way we can leave great legacy behind us when we value qualities like kindness, courage, love and truth. At the end no one is gonna remember about how much you were making when you were alive. So, why there’s need to regret when we all know that by practicing good we can really find peace and happiness in our lives. What’s the point of stressing too much about future? What’s the point of becoming too much anxious about tomorrow? You look at the animals…do they seem like worried about their future and guess what they still eat, they still sleep and they know that, if they stay in harmony with nature it will be all fine. There’s so much we can learn from wild animals. The more we focused on our present the more we will find peace with the nature and holidays provide us time to be fully engaged with our loved ones. If we make genuine efforts then, we can negotiate peace in every relationship of our lives. I always believe in one thing that is, when 2 brains work together in peace and harmony they always find solutions. Make sure that, when you are with your family don’t bring up your work life. Please don’t try to mix 2 things up. It is same as you are mixing oil and water together. Try to spend quality time with your loved ones by working out your differences. At the end I would like to say that, May these holidays fill you with colour of love. May you find peace, prosperity and happiness in your life. Enjoy holidays

in a world where people wear dual faces you need to be authentic. In a world where most of us are materialistic you need to be an exception. In a world where most of us break our promises you need to be a man of your word. Let’s study about this topic in detail. We are living in a 21st century. It is a century of science, innovation and technology. Human beings have made tremendous changes in the world with their creativity skills. We have achieved unimaginable things and with all the inventions, we have made significant achievements in entire human civilization. No doubt, we have done so much, but still we are not completely satisfied. We haven’t deeply experienced peace and prosperity. We wanna to know why is that? One of the primary reason is that, we don’t fulfill our promises. It’s not just about fulfilling the promises, it’s about why do we make irrational commitments in the moment and feel bad about it when we break it? I deeply believe that since human beings are social animals and when we interact with others, they form opinions about us. We are sensible human beings and we wanna to impress others. We wanna to have good relationships with our family, partners, business colleagues. One easy way to have a good impressions on others is that we over promise them but, in our in our actions we under deliver. When we over promise and deep inside we know that it’s not PRACTICALLY possible then guess what? We just lose our credibility. Losing your credibility not just in the eyes of others but in your own eyes feels like someone just raped you so brutally. So, we need to think about something to come out of this never ending cycle deceiving ourselves. One practical thing we need to do is to set our boundaries in our daily lives. You need to know that, you can’t be everything. The sooner you will get this, the better it would be for you and for all of those who are around you. It’s better for you to be honest with yourself cause it will give you ultimate peace from your restless activities. 2nd thing you need to do is to write down your emotions/your feelings in a journal. If you do it for a week, it will help you know yourself little bit better and you will know what kinds of emotions triggers you to over promise someone 3rd thing you need to do is to live in harmony with the nature that is, to be grateful for what you have in your life. I’m sure that, if you do these 3 things consistently, it will help you to calm down your emotions and when any situation takes place in real life where you feel the urge to make over-commitments you will think twice. Just in case you overpromise something, make a genuine effort to over deliver it not with your words but with your actions. Be a man of your word (commitments)

Have you ever thought that, when we wake up in the morning, we are always in a hurry! It seems like we are in a race. We need to ask ourselves about what we really do for creativity? Back to my example, when we wake up we are always in a rush of doing something. For parents, they need to wake up their kids and get them ready for school. For an employed person he’s in different race to get ready for the work, worried about what would happen if he didn’t catch his bus/train on time. For students, they are worried about their classes. You look at politicians/ leaders worried about their politics to woo and maintain the trust of their voters. All I’m saying that we are in a never ending race! Life is a serious business for most of the people on this planet. Everyday We are fighting for money, food, attention & energy resources etc. I mean we are fighting for the survival. We are working our asses off just to stay in the race. Think about this, we are all tired. Our souls are restless & hopeless. Sadly, we are living in a pandemic of lack of creativity. It is our work that define us. We don’t have any other identity that could define our lives. The primary question we should all ask before we go to the bed is that, what we do for creativity/fun? Some of you might say that well, we like to party with our friends, We like to play games on ps4 or we like to be on our phones scrolling up and down on our social media. That’s not fun. You need to ask your inner voice what is it feels like when you waste your time in drinking or binge watching and eating? The real creativity lies in knowing your self. The real creativity lies in doing something without feeling any burden. The bottom line is this- do something for the enjoyment of your soul. Why can’t we find half an hour in a day and have fun in our lives. For instance, engaging in dancing, singing, writing , drawing funny sketches, going out for a walk or playing with the kids at the park. You can come up with anything but, make sure you enjoy it while you doing it and also, when you are done doing that particular activity. So, pick up something. Do it consistently for a week and write down your observation in your journal. I’m sure you will have some positivity while being creative in your life. It is fair to say that, you need to take some rest from your busy life and enjoy the moment cause, you only have one life! Do something for creativity!

Life is one of the most precious gift you have from the creator. Why people are sick and tired of their lives? Why we hear from people about they can’t take it anymore? There are endless questions that are in front of us. It doesn’t make any sense if we just run away cowardly from the basic questions. In this blog, I would like to put my perspective regarding what life can offer us? Look, there are 2 things in front of us. Number one is the beautiful life itself and 2nd thing is the fear of life. The choice is ours. Do we pick our life and accept whatever it brings in for us or do we just have doubts in our minds and hide under the blankets and do nothing? In life, we appreciate happiness and joy and we also face challenges. Just like a coin has 2 sides, life has 2 sides (good and bad) both of them complement each other. It’s absurd to think that all I wanna to have happiness in my life and nothing else.  Those who say to you that, life is just like a fairytale well, let me break your heart and say to you on your face that life is beautiful when you value it with sacrifices in your present for better tomorrow. Any other thinking leads to resentment and bitterness and no wonder we are sadly witnessing it in every part of the world. The situation in the west is even more worse. By just narrating only one part of the story to our kids regarding life is not helping us at all. It’s so sad to see that, our education system, mainstream media, social media and our governments constantly running a narrative which is promoting woke culture and indoctrinating our kids with the ideology of it’s okay to be weak. It’s okay to be depressed and life is full of misery and we should all blame for our problems on capitalism. The bottom line of this blog post is that, life makes more sense to us when we undertake noble and humble responsibilities to make this world a better place. With responsibilities, comes challenges and with challenges, we become wise and appreciate the beauty of life by solving the problems to bring heaven back on the Earth. So, take baby steps. Appreciate whatever your have in your life and leave everything on your fate without worrying about the results rather than focus on the efforts. If you make genuine efforts by cleaning up some mess from your life, little by little, step by step, I’m sure you will start enjoying your life. Don’t run away from your life!

What is path of Righteousness and why we are drifting away from the path of righteousness? We need to find out the answers about where we are going wrong and what could be done about it? Let’s find out in this new blog post. The path of righteousness is a humble path of moral and ethical values. The world is built on the values of truth, justice, love, faith, endurance and kindness. Anytime we try to disrupt this systematic order, we endure pain and suffering. There’s no doubt about the fact that, we don’t like to take the road which is less traveled cause, we have too many doubts. We think about what would happen if we fail? These are some valid questions that dominate us day and night and maybe, that’s why we hesitate to be consistent when it comes to put one step forward on the path of righteousness. There’s a presence of evil in this world. We are made in a such a way that we are temped to commit bad things. Don’t ask me why? It’s built up in our nature. All I can say that we are living in a broken world. Our lives are dominated by fears, anxiety, greed and lust. if we commit sins it doesn’t mean that, we can’t do anything good in our lives or in the lives of our loved ones. We already know that, how much bad we can do in this world. Our History is full of blood baths and horrific wars. Only thing we need to figure out how much good we can bring in this world by following the path of truth. It’s very interesting to find out. I wanna to ask you this- who doesn’t wanna to fill their lives with happiness, prosperity and peace? Aren’t we too much tired of living a low standard of living where deceit, nihilism, resentment and anxiety control our emotions? The path of evilness is very easy cause, you will find most of the people travelling on that road. Even if you gain something by doing bad things to others don’t you know that, at the end, people will find out and you will find no one around you to give you comfort while you are in your death bed? So, path of righteousness is a tough path but leads to love and peace. In a world of nihilism, peace and love are way more better to live a life. In order to keep this world moving forward, it’s is imperative to follow a tough path. We gotta do so much in this world so that, no evil thing become too strong to break this beautiful place apart. It is only possible if return back to our fundamentals. It’s only possible if we appreciate real things. Real things take time but add value everyday to your life and there’s no better living other than putting one step forward on the path of righteousness. The path of righteousness is a gateway to the ultimate freedom. It is a gateway to happiness, prosperity and peace. There’s no shortcuts!

I wonder why most of us don’t like waking up in the morning? Why most of us have given all our hopes on getting better every day? Where’s the consistency gone when it comes to improving our lives? These are some tough questions we don’t ask ourselves anymore and I wonder why? In this blog post my goal is to help my readers in some way to understand the concept of getting better. Marcus Aurelius was one of the most powerful man on the planet. He was the commander in chief of Roman empire. He had every thing in the world. Most powerful army, Money, influence on the world leaders and comfort. You name it. That guy had everything. He could simply stay in the bed all day and enjoy his comfort but, he didn’t do that. He knew that, every morning he needed to wake up and throw his blankets away and get back to his work. He knew that, being leader of one of the largest empire is not an easy task. Every day he needed to make decisions some minors and some majors regarding his troops, economy, meeting political leaders. In order to make all those decisions he knew that, he needed to get better everyday. The world’s most powerful person on the Earth saying to himself that, he needs to improve himself every day. No joke. He mentioned about this in his book named ‘Meditations’ if person like him who was so mighty reminding himself about how important is to improve his game to be at the top then, we really need to ask what we are doing in our lives to make it better? When I say we need to make our lives better I don’t mean that, we need to buy a new phone or we need to buy a new car. What I really mean by making your life better is to dig deeper in your life to make genuine connection with your inner voice. Get deeper into knowing yourself by going for reading, writing, painting whatever suits you. Do everything that gives you a meaningful satisfaction in your life. Set boundaries in your life because you can’t be everything in your life. Everyday we make mistakes. We all are human beings. Most of us make the same mistakes again and again and it becomes part of our lives. It could be anything. All of us are engaged in terrible addictions. Most of us are slaves to our terrible habits whereas few people understand the importance of what would happen if they focus more on improving their lives by seeking truth, genuinely being kind to others in their actions and listen to their conscience by acknowledging their flaws. If we have a learning attitude towards life then, we see our problems as challenges and one reason why human beings are born on this planet is to solve complex problems. At the end, I wanna to say one of the effective way to fight addictions is to work constructively and consistently on your negative side and turn it into a good side. If Marcus Aurelius (Roman Emperor) gets off his bed to get things done to lead his people forward then why can’t we? No more excuses only action now!

At the end, pain and suffering is worth it. If we all go with the attitude of best is yet to come then, we can see all our present problems as challenges and we can build a solution oriented mindset. In this blog post, my only mission is to help my readers to have a positive mindset to make progress step by step. No wonder how much of energy we utilize in thinking about future. You can’t change the past and I can’t change the past. I have experienced only thing that we get out of past is resentment and bitterness. The gateway to better future is only found in present. The wise ones take lessons from their past mistakes and make best use of their resources in present for building concrete future whereas, fools live only in past and lose so much in present. ‘The best is yet to come’ is only possible if we undertake noble aim in our lives. It is only possible if adopt qualities like serve people with kindness, seeking truth, revering Gods and be humble in our actions and with people. Sure, when you pursue good things it does take a lot of time but, at the end is worth it. The struggle is worth it. There’s so much of traffic on the path of evilness. The evil is very tempting. It is because, the reward is instant but, at the end the initial reward turns into poison. For the path of righteousness there’s lots of pain and suffering at first but, as long as we have the patience and endurance, the end reward is way more sweeter than your imagination. Even if you are facing criticism from the world but in your heart if you know that, you are standing for the right thing then, just keep your head down and fight, fight and fight. Turn your hope into action and go forth into the world and take stand for moral and ethical values. So, put your faith in God and believe in yourself. Trust your kind actions because, the best is yet to come!

Time never stops. It never rests. The clock is always ticking. How can we make best use of time is always a big question that runs in our minds 24/7. In this blog post I’m here to remind you the importance of time. Everyone of us got 24 hours in a day and how we use those 24 hours really make a huge difference in our lives. The big question is this how do we use our time? Do we mostly consume our time or do we use it productively to get ahead in our lives? With so much of information to process these days, it’s sometimes hard to find time. I believe that, because of too much is going around us, we have reduced our attention span. We can not deny that fact that, everyone wanna to get to the top of their fields but, only few have the mighty courage to make it happen. We call them successful people. We envy their lives but, often times we forget that, they made the best use of their time. They used it productively. I’m not saying that , in order to use time efficiently you need to stay awake all night and keep working 24*7 that’s not a right strategy. The right strategy is that find 2-3 hours in a day and make best use of it. Instead of using your time for entertainment at first, we can get the important shit done for the day first. Let me give you an example how wise people use their time and how common people use their time- A wise man always picks important/self improvement things first (reading book, writing, working out, making important calls for his business purposes and so on) and then, moves on to consume his time by looking for entertainment ( scrolling up and down on social media) whereas, any other person would say to himself that, since there’s too much to be done during the day so, why not to watch some tv? Why not to go on tik-tok and keep watching endless funny videos. By the time he’s done watching guess what, he is left with very little time and always do the important stuff/self improvement things in rush or delays it to the next day or complain about lack of time. The problem is not lack of time. It is lack of willpower to distinguish between consumption of time and making investment with time. Any person who is responsible enough puts his goals first because he knows that, people who are associated with him are dependent upon him. For him using his time productively comes first instead of just wasting it. A responsible man never forgets that, clock is ticking. So, let’s use our time on this planet to get all those things done first that could truly help the mankind. Let’s focus our energy on common good by engaging in self improvement. Let’s increase our attention span by reducing our time on social media. The choice is yours. No amount of money can give you an extra hour in a day. Remember always clock is ticking.

In order for the society to be strong or in order to lead the society in a steady direction, you need to encourage family culture. Great family values are the basic foundation of any healthy society. We need to keep and encourage family values in our kids to have better tomorrow. So, I decided to write a blog on family culture. Just like building a house requires a concrete foundation the same thing goes for having great societies. I genuinely believe that, people who give their attention to their families are less anxious, less resentful and less nihilistic. I believe that, there are certain things we can learn if we give importance to family culture. 1. You care more about others than yourself: I don’t have to give too much emphasis on this. It’s pretty much self-explanatory. The head of the family (generally male) protects and provides for the family. Mother takes care of the house and kids. Kids play with each other and drive each other crazy. I believe that, this is a wonderful description of any great family. Both parents take think and care about their kids. They do their best to give them great future! 2.When feeling low, talk to your family: I know that, it is sometimes hard to express your depressed thoughts to anyone because, we are too scared about what others will say about it. There’s something even more painful than keep storing negative thoughts in your mind and that is explosion of resentful thoughts like a volcano. If you feel that, something is bothering you, you need to talk to your loved ones in a positive manner. You take advice from your mom & dad because, they have more life experiences than you got. I’m sure that, if your intentions are pure, there’s always a way to fight with malevolence. All you need to have courage. Courage comes easily when you have focus on strong family values. 3. More fun with your siblings: i have been living in Canada for more than 5 years by myself. . I believe that, family is blessing. what I really miss is the fun that I used to have with my siblings. Driving them crazy. I miss the smile & I miss the laughter. Having fun really helps you to become stress free. I strongly encourage you that, if you got siblings make sure to drive them crazy. Have fun and laugh together a lot. 4. You learn discipline: when you stay with your family, you are assigned house chores. I know that, no one likes to do them but, it really shapes you. Your mom assigns you to clean your room, washroom. Making sure things are well organized. Your dad on the other hand asks you to help him to build/create something for the home. Sometimes asks you to bring something from the market. Doing All the small things helps you to become disciplined in your life. It’s way more better than reading hundreds of books on discipline. 5. Great values put spiritual needs first: if there’s a problem in the family, the whole family comes together to solve the problem. They come together and pray to the creator to give their family enough strength and courage to deal with the challenges. Kids are generally encouraged to pray to God before they go to sleep. I believe that, being grateful is one of the most important thing you can learn or embrace. At the end, I would like to say that, if you don’t have really good relationships with your family. The best thing you can do is to fix them now! If you have your reasons why you hate your family, have the courage to think about one great reason why you like your family and why it is so important for you in your life? Strong families create better society!

The beauty of life can be felt in darkness Nobody likes darkness especially when you feel like your life has no profound meaning & purpose. I believe that, having too much of light can blind you too. If there was no bad in the world then, there’s no way we would be appreciating any good in this world. Darkness and light complement each other. In this blog post we need change our perspective about darkness to bring beauty, prosperity and happiness in our lives. Why we have made darkness a very scary thing in our lives? I know that, when you face any major problem in your life, it seems like there’s no way out there! Our whole world comes to apart! Fear about failure starts to dominate us completely. I truly believe that, when we experience certain difficulties in our lives, we radiate negative energy and negativity is completely associated with darkness but, it is only true on the surface area. As we dig deeper, we can really find the true meaning of darkness in our lives. It really awakens us up from our sleep and forces us to take back control of our lives by adopting meaningful responsibilities. Anything we do seems scary to us at first for instance, if someone wanna to learn how to swim, water seems really scary. Water seems like a picture of darkness but, when we open the eyes of our mind only then, we can see things beyond the surface level. When it comes to swimming we need to overcome the fear of water by jumping into the pool and pretty soon after making countless efforts someday, we just learn how to swim and we make water our best friend. The same thing applies in our lives too! When we see every problem beyond the face level, we actually dig deeper and seek out truth. Let me tell you that, a person who avoids darkness in his life at all cost lives a very boring life, cause he got no excitement. He got no experience in how to deal with anxiety and resentment. For excitement you need to embrace darkness in your life. You need to learn how to make best use of it to make your life better and bring back order. If you are looking to do something good it is crucial to acknowledge evilness in life. Just like a tree has its roots embedded into the the Earth’s crust to help the tree to grow, spread its branches and bear fruit. The same principle we need to apply in our lives. In order for us to grow, in order for us to touch the sky we need to start from the lowest level of our lives. We need to make darkness as our friend. We need to go deeper in the darkness to seek out truth, search out for light. I believe that, this is how we find peace, prosperity and above all true meaning of life