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  Your mind is one of the most crucial gift ever given to you by the creator! Your physical body can be damaged, wounded or killed. What about your mind though? Mind is formless/shapeless. It has no limits. In this blog post my whole purpose is to teach you that, never let your mind to go weak. Human mind is one of the most curious thing to study about. Why is that curious? Cause, you will never get bored to know your mind. Just like sky has no limits and just like no one can measure how much water an ocean can hold, the same thing goes with human mind. Mind works 24/7. Even you are working, you’re still thinking about something. If you are sleeping you will still be thinking and dreaming about something! Anything we do or say it all starts with a single thought. Our thoughts have an incredible amount of power to help us to do something either meaningful or non- meaningful. Believe me or not, we all are lost in our thoughts. It’s difficult to control mind. The moment you lose your attention, you lose your mind. Just like it’s hard to control winds the same thing is with our mind! I believe that, we all are working wrong with our minds. We all like to take control of it! I’m so tired when I hear that, we need to put our minds inside a cage like total control. I genuinely believe that, we need to come up with better excuses! If you are focusing on something negative then, how the hell you are going to control your mind from thinking negative? I believe that, we need to show a direction to our minds. A direction either in terms of positivity or in negativity. Rest we should leave everything on the mind to do. Some people focus more on positivity, where as, most of us focus more on negativity than positivity. I know it’s hard when you are going through some shit in life and it’s hard to get the focused right but, whining and complaining everyday 365 days in a year is not helping your mind to change its direction. If you are showing your mind a path of negativity then, you are at the fault! Your mind is like an infant. If you ask your mind to go and get lost in dense fog, your mind will follow that! You are the master of your mind. Your mind has to be your slave! Even if, 9 things are going wrong in your life and you are on the verge of losing everything then, find the 10th thing and do it right! Aim for good focus! Think about all the praises you are getting from your family members, colleagues. If you are thinking your family members are not very appreciative then, you need to do kind acts in your life and don’t ever ask for a return favour! A kind act will help your mind to change its course from being negative to positive! One positive thought might not sound enough to you but, believe in consistency. Thinking of a positive thing during your day set you for the next day. If you just keep adding days then, one leads to 2, 2 leads to seven days and 7 positive things in a week leads to 30 positive things in a month and pretty soon you just keep adding months and then, start working on adding years! Only thing you need to take away from this blog post is that, you are the one who shows a direction to your mind and then, your mind follow that direction without asking you a question. Whatever direction you show to your mind, make sure your mind brings back happiness, prosperity and above all meaning to your life!

A man has to protect and provide for his family! Dear men, You are on a mission. You got humble and forthright goal in front of you to take care of not just yourself in a careful manner but, to protect and provide for your family. It’s very depressing to say that, men these days are wandering aimlessly on social media and becoming more and more depressed. With the help of my blogs my goal is clear crystal is to help men to take control of their lives and start giving steady direction to the entire mankind. The world is facing crises of responsible men. How the hell we reached here? It doesn’t happen in a day. All I know that, it started with when we brain wash for young men. Social media played a very significant role to make young men suffer incredibly. With all that senseless & baseless garbage on social media platform to teach young men about it’s okay for men to be weak, it’s okay for men to be confused about their biology status… let me put it straight it’s not okay! Men are meant to be tough. They are built to take maximum load of responsibilities on their shoulders to make sure that world doesn’t come to apart. Dear men, there’s huge difference between men and female (physically, mentally and emotionally). I don’t care what the society says but my thinking is very clear you can’t become female if you are male and vice versa. Even if you decided to go for expensive treatment, you can’t defy your nature. You can’t mess up with your biology. Men have to come out of the trap created by government that run on corporate money. They need to come out of stupid social media content that has no give and take relationship with the vision of being a man. They need to stop watching main stream media that is working tirelessly 24/7 to make men overly emotional. My fellow men, you have gotten a great gift from the creator to make best use of your semen. Instead of losing your mind in porn addiction, drugs abuse you need to harness your semen for higher goals, for the common good of the world. You need to focus all your energy into building, creating and adding value to the world.Men are made to glorify God, not celebrities. Men are made to seek truth, serve others with justice. Don’t have doubts. Start building your life by working out, Give importance to reading, writing, saving money and investing it. It’s so hard for me to see that, our men are working from pay-check to pay-check, begging government for the money, living a life of complaining and whining. Enough is enough. You are here on this planet to justify your existence by following the path of righteousness. Open the book of history. Take inspiration from great men. Read philosophy. Read about great rulers, inventors. Sharpen your mind by reading about ancient history. Those men did something for humanity. Their blood is flowing in your veins. Follow them. There’s are couple of things you really need to put straight to your head, mind and soul Worship God only. (Read spiritual books) Take responsibility towards your life and make it better Retain your semen and serve mankind Quit complaining and whining Men, life is tough. You need to show some toughness, some endurance, some determination to make progress in your life! You got more than a job. Protect and provide for your family

We need to head towards the right direction. Let me ask you this when you are coming back to your house from a drive of 3 long hours in a dense fog would you like to get lost or would you follow the directions that leads towards your house? Now imagine how much time we waste, when we head towards the wrong direction in our lives. It’s a matter worth writing. So, let me give it a try… I’m not saying that, we need to be right all the times. We need to know that, we are a part of a broken world. There’s a presence of good and evil in our lives and that’s a human nature to commit sins (lie, deceive & dishonesty) I wanna to make one thing very clear that, we can’t be right all the times because time changes, intentions change, behaviour changes. I mean there are hundreds of things change. There’s always something new to learn. There’s no shame to accept it when you are in a wrong direction of your life. At least, you have the courage to accept your flaws. There’s always a come back from the path of evilness as long as you recognize the strength & courage of your soul. Some people in the jails realize that, they took the lives of many innocent people in the heat of aggression. They try to repent their heinous acts against humanity and come back home to make positive changes in their lives but, also for their families for keeping peace in the community. So, if some vicious criminals transform themselves into better person then, why can’t we? I know that, some of you might not like to see your faces in the mirror cause you hate yourself. You might say to me hey Kush, I got all the valid reasons why do I hate myself but, I will say to you that, you would get lost in the dense fog if you don’t care. At least, think about your family members eagerly waiting for you to come back home. If, you don’t care about your family at least, take care of your inner voice. You can’t do anything against your own nature/will. So, make efforts to follow right path in your life. There’s no doubt that, the right direction leads to happiness & prosperity. But, before taking right direction it’s okay to put step in wrong direction. Get some experience. Get the taste of evilness. If there’s any strength in your conscience, it will force you to go to right direction. Don’t feel helpless. Let the virtues like honesty, just, free will, kindness, truth and humility enlighten your path Don’t get lost in fog

People are wrong when they say that, life has no rules, no principles, no laws. So many people especially, the young ones are living in a bubble when their famous superstar say to them in life there’s no boundaries. That’s all crap. Life got a basic structure, guiding principles/rules/laws when followed lead to peace & prosperity. This blog post is for all of those who are looking to form an organized structure to give a steady direction in their lives. I genuinely believe that, there are some guiding principles that we must follow to live our lives. Now the question arises what are those guiding principles? Very simple answer: seeking truth, Acting just and fair, revering God, be content and live a life of modesty and simplicity. These principles are very simple to write down on a paper but, if you ask me about following them well, that’s pretty hard. But, it’s worth it. Anytime I do a mistake, these guiding principles direct me to follow the path of righteousness. We need to keep one thing in mind that, we are not smarter than the one who created us. We are not smarter than the one who brought up us into the universe. Yes, I’m talking about the God/higher power. We make mistakes. We don’t follow the guiding principles all the time that’s all fine. But, one thing we need to do constantly is that, we need to get up and re connect ourselves again to the laws of life to keep moving forward in a steady direction. I was reading a book named Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. There’s so many great thing about the book but, one thing Really caught my attention was that, what should be the behaviour of human beings when there’s chaos in life? So, I would like to share the paragraph from the book “Suppose that men kill thee, cut thee in pieces, curse thee. What then can these things do to prevent thy mind from remaining pure, wise, sober, just? For instance, if a man should stand by a limpid pure spring, and curse it, the spring never ceases sending up potable water; and if he should cast clay into it or filth, it will speedily disperse them and wash them out, and will not be at all polluted. How then shalt thou possess a perpetual fountain [and not a mere well]? By forming thyself hourly to freedom conjoined with contentment, simplicity, and modesty.” I said to myself that’s it! That’s what I was looking for. One should be like ever running fountain any problem arises, one should go back to the basic principles that govern life. No matter how many times you go and visit your principles but, it’s important to make mind to seek help from them! I know that, the world is a cruel place. You got all kinds of addictions. I hear you. I even know that, you have done everything in your control to eradicate toxic things/ addictions out of your life but, some how you are stuck. You are helpless but, you need to say this in your mind that, you are like a perpetual fountain. Bad things can hamper your physical body but, there’s no way it can damage the strength and courage of your soul. Make a list of guiding principles right now that will guide your life. It’s a good way of living. You can have peace of mind with that! I have already mine on the wall. You do the same thing. Anytime you feel the urge to do something stupid go back to the list and read it aloud. I’m sure your guiding principles won’t let you fail. May God be with you!

Everyone talks about happiness. But, no one really would like to know what really brings real happiness? Happiness is not about having 2 weeks off from work. It’s not about binge watching & eating. Well, temporarily you can find happiness in those things but, afterwards then what? Coming back to the same daily routine and becoming more anxious and depressed. This is not the story of one person. I mean literally, that’s the story of millions of people in the globe. So, I decided to write a blog on it and here I’m with my views. We need to closely pay attention to the daily routine apart from our working routine. A very basic idea of daily routine is what time you wake up? What time do you take lunch/dinner/supper. How much tv you watch and how much time do you spend with your loved ones? It’s not just that, it’s also about how much time you give it to yourself for your personal growth & development. Most of us need to face the hard truth that, once we get out of school we hardly spend our time with books and writing. We have become increasingly busy in our work life. Most of us don’t even have 15 minutes out of 24 hours to take care the physical health of our body. We spend like hundreds of thousands of dollars to go seminars to find the meaning of life. I’m putting one thing straight up there’s no secret recipe for finding meaning in life. Meaning of life is deeply embedded in how well you take care of yourself while enjoying your daily life. That’s it! Make a list of things that you do in your daily routine either you are working or not starting from the time you wake till the time you go to the bed. Make a list of all evil things that is making you unproductive. You will be amazed to find out the results. One clear cut difference between the most effective and lazy ones is that, people who really pay close attention to their daily routine are less anxious, less resentful and bitter. The goal is not to do something special in your daily routine. The goal is to make your mundane life extraordinary by focusing on doing good social acts. I can only imagine if we start taking our lives seriously then, there’s nobody dare to act like hinderance to our mission. Our mission is to become good. Be good and carry out our humble acts for the common good. So, find joy in your daily routine!

Words have powerful energy to convey things. It can be both positive and negative. It’s kinda hard to keep track of all different thoughts about life that come to our mind. Probably, tens of thousands of thoughts come to our mind. One good indicator of you being a charming/ positive person is that how closely you pay attention to your thoughts. In this blog post that’s what exactly what I’m gonna talk about. In every blog, I try to talk about the problems the world is facing right now! I’m still figuring out what makes people resentful and depressed over the course of their lives! Couple of reasons that come to my mind were relying more and more on instant gratification, cheap dopamine, not seeking truth and listening to the senseless & baseless ideologies of both radical left wing and right wing. After coming up with those reasons, I wasn’t really satisfied. I started thinking about there must be something more to this. It must be about what we internally say to ourselves. You can change your opinions according to your external situations but the mind knows all and whatever you say to your mind affects your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well being! I know that, most of you are going through hell. Maybe, some of you are thinking that, it’s better to die than to live. Wait a sec, now think about this, maybe, whatever is happening to you right now might make you a better person in future. Being positive is hard because it requires a lot of energy, efforts and creativity. Whereas, negativity is everywhere. Negative things are everywhere. Negative people are everywhere. You actually make less efforts to become resentful. Whereas, good thoughts/things always take time and in long run transform you into a better person. I have said one thing many times in my blogs that, it doesn’t matter how many negative thoughts come to your mind during the day but, make sure when you hit the bed , be grateful inspite of your problems. It is very crucial for you to start and end your day with positive thoughts and learn to balance your thoughts during the day (focus on more positive than negative). Write down negative thoughts and feeling. It will help you to reduce your anxiety and stress. I know it’s hard to start your day with some positivity. Soon, one positive thought leads to 2. 2 leads to 4 and 4 leads to many! So, put one thing straight to your head… you need to be positive with your thoughts and treat yourself little bit better

Fall in love with yourself is tough. Do you know that, what else is hard? Hating yourself. If you constantly do negative self talks then, it will have negative impact on your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well being. Love got no boundaries. I wonder why we consistently hate ourselves? Cause, most of the time we don’t appreciate the efforts we are making in our lives and in others who are associated with us. So, in this blog- post I would like to make you fall in love with yourself once again. Let me give a try:) What does fall in yourself every day mean to you? We don’t ask questions like these to our inner-selves anymore. We are so much busy in our lives. Sometimes it’s even beyond my thoughts. Watching hundreds of motivational videos might make your mind positive for couple of days and then what? Nothing! Same boring life with no meaning and purpose. I would say to you again and again… you need to fall in love with yourself by taking care of your responsibilities towards your life. Whatever you say to yourself everyday by just performing daily tasks of your life is what shapes your personality. The more positive & loving attitude you have towards your mundane lifestyle, the more happier you would feel about yourself. We have a wrong perception about love. We think that, love has to be special. Love has to be an extraordinary. Love has to be out of box. That’s all baseless. I believe that, love is like a regular fuel that helps you to keep going in your life. In the journey of our lives, we need to refuel the love at various stops and that’s completely fine. Love by its own is nothing. It is only you that can bring life to the word ‘Love’ Just like we keep track of all our financial resources, the same way we need to keep track of how much love & compassion we are showing on others and how much we are getting back. The rule of thumb is that the more love you shower in others the more will come back to you from the universe. I don’t know the reason but, the universe works in a miraculous manner. Even if you are tired, frustrated and bitter. You still need to show love. No excuses! When you start feeling good about others you will feel good about yourself. You will realize this, the moment you hit the bed. At the end, focus on 2 key things 1. Show your love for others even if you don’t like it. At the end you will feel good about yourself. 2. Take care of your life seriously. Strive to be good person. Repeat these steps daily and fall in love with yourself daily.

Past is a stubborn thing. You can’t change it no matter what. It doesn’t matter how powerful you are or how much money you got in your bank account. There’s no way you can impress the past events. So, what should we all do? Should we just sit back & whining about the past or put our shit together by acknowledging the truth that, we have to bear the burden of life & make it to the end courageously by whatever resources are available at our disposal. Let us not make our lives unnecessarily terrible!. Why we are making our lives unnecessarily terrible? Already there’s enough problems in the world and we are adding more and more mess to the world. Most of us hate our lives many reasons like health, financial and relationship problems. Instead of taking the responsibility to clean up some mess, we have become increasingly impatient & resentful. We are indulging in senseless political fights that brings no good hope for the coming future. Seriously, what’s the point of living if you know that, there’re certain things that are not going right. Instead, of taking job on your shoulders to make the things less painful, you simply decide to shut your damn eyes! Is this a viable solution? If you say that, you don’t give a shit about anyone then, that’s too bad very sad! It’s so easy to say that, I don’t care but, you need to think about all of those who would like to see you become a good person. If you still don’t care then, how can you face voice inside of you? Your inner voice is urging you to stop playing the game of victim, open your damn eyes and pick up something meaningful and noble. At some point you have to face your inner voice. You can’t run away from it. When you start cleaning mess out of your room step by step, there’s more room for you to make things beautiful. It’s not just a matter of your life think about how much positivity you can spread in the lives of others who are around you. This is a good goal to start with. My message is loud and clear Don’t make your life unnecessarily terrible!

Kids are the future. Stronger kids means more concrete future. If we nurture kids in a right & careful manner then, there are some good hopes for the future. Sadly, kids are increasingly becoming more and more confused about their biological identities especially, in North America. We need to come up with some kind of solution otherwise, things will soon go downhill and would be difficult to control. Let’s start with schools. The education system is pathetic. Instead of teaching kids fundamental values like building, creating and preserving. Schools are teaching kids that, there’s no difference between men and women (biologically). They(schools) are teaching kids that, it’s okay to be gay. It’s okay to be trans, bisexual. Introducing radical sex and racism theories in the curriculum we are doing more harm than good to our kids. Instead of teaching our kids that, life isn’t always going to be easy, we are doing our best keep our kids away from the life lessons that they can learn from history. We are making direct attack on our historical events. We are molding the brutal realities of history to please our kids. Indirectly in this way we are saying to our kids that, it’s okay to be weak, cry all the time and blame everything on capitalism and it’s okay to play the role of victims on social media to gain sympathy and empathy. I wonder, why our kids/teens are so confused about making decisions of their lives. In schools no one talks about meaning of life can only be found in taking humble responsibilities on your shoulders. Hardly, anyone talks about how imperative is to make sacrifices in present for a better tomorrow. Another thing I’m against is that, why we are saying to kids that, it’s okay to remove the essence of God from their lives. It’s not. God is the creator of creating this magnificent universe. Instead of looking at God for his guidance we are encouraging our kids to look at celebrities, instagram models . Instead of putting faith in God, we have no more morning assemblies in schools anymore. No more communication to the higher power. This is so wrong with our school system and we are defending it by saying things like people need to become more and liberals but, at what expense? Ignoring the presence of fundamentals? Ignoring the essence of God? If these things make you a free person then have fun but, eventually, you will find no mental, emotional and spiritual peace. We need to come up with a solution. Parents need to step up and cut the bullshit right off. They need to have open communication with their kids no matter what. They need to encourage their kids to stand for right things instead of falling for the trap created by the governments run on corporate money. We need strong values like justice, kindness, honesty, truth and humility. Making our kids physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually strong is a noble mission. We all need to play a part. Don’t be confused and weak

Nobody is perfect. We should all come out of dissolution of perfection. The reason why we are here is to justify our existence by making our lives less painful and resentful. I thought a lot about what’s the most effective way to deal with the problems and I came to the conclusion that, writing is one of the most effective way of living and solving the problems. Who doesn’t wanna to have clarity in his life? If you don’t have the clarity where you are? And where are you going? then, you would just drift around in the middle of ocean and sadly, you would end up nowhere! Now, the question is this: how to have clarity? Our brain is a thinking machine. Thinking requires a lot of creativity. A lot of energy. When a tremendous amount of energy is just consumed for thinking process then, brain starts to wander around. We felt like lost. The result is terrible. We become anxious and desperate to make things work out for us. When you have a problem in your life like addictions, relationships and finances, you need to pick up pen and paper and write it down as clearly as you can. When you write it down, now you know what you are really talking about and let the brain and hands do their job. Your brain automatically starts thinking about the solutions of your stated problem on a piece of paper and your hands start writing about the solutions. The goal of your writing is to release as much as mental pressure. You don’t have to look for the perfect answer. You just need a solution and one solution can lead to many solutions. You just need to move step by step. This is the secret recipe to remove unnecessary stress! I wonder why our kids are so anxious and depressed. We have forgotten the basics. We need to teach our kids at home/school that, they need to write. They need to put their thoughts on paper. We need to establish a proper coordination between ours hands and brain. Right at the moment we are putting too much stress on our brains and taking less and less work from our hands. When you start to pen down your feelings, it really helps you down to articulate your speech and thoughts. It helps you to formulate your arguments. Less confusion. You don’t seem stupid and foolish in front of people. Make a habit of writing for 5 minutes a day and I mean every day. Gradually increase it to 10-15 minutes according to your needs. Take a challenge for 30 days and see what positive change take place in your life. All you need to start from somewhere. Your motto should be Write down your thoughts, write down your destiny.