Author: sekhrikush11

Asking is tough. It is very hard. The one reason that comes to my mind is  of availability of too much of information in this world. we assume that everybody knows about everything. In this blog I will do my best to show that, why asking is crucial and how it could shape us for better. So, let’s get started Great individuals are crazy people. They think abnormal and act abnormal. When it comes to rules, they do follow the rules but, they are masters of finding legal ways to break the rules and achieve something meaningful. They become great builders, creators to keep this world  moving forward. It’s hard to question the status quo because, the fundamental belief is that, we are so used to follow the old systems. The genes to blindly follow  the society get passed from one generation to another until, a great individual steps up and challenges the old broken system to make it better for millions. Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and you shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you ( Matthew 7:7) even though I am not a christian but, I deeply believe in this verse from the Bible. I give you my personal example: I didn’t wanna to study at my home town. I don’t know from where the idea of Canada came to my mind and I asked my mom and dad that, I just wanted to go to Canada. It did take a lot of persuasion and a lot of hard-work, Unimaginable efforts of my Mom and Dad and Grace of God that made it happen. Even for my permanent residency I asked God to bless me with the strength and the courage to have my permanent status in Canada. Guess what… Everything I desired and asked for became reality. Most of us don’t know how to ask and we ask for those things that we don’t need. Most of us stay confuse and not precise when it comes to asking. For instance, instead of asking for I don’t wanna to gain weight, we should go for “I am looking for my ideal body size”. Ask for all those things that would help you to build and create something meaningful. You look at the world around you… from where did Apple, Google and Amazon started. They all got started from the ideas  that were born in garages and the individuals who started them had a fundamental belief in modern technology by asking their inner selves how could they change this world for good. We should constantly ask ourselves what I am here good for? How can I justify my existence on this planet? When you ask… your mind will start searching for the answers but it takes time and let nature do it’s job. Do ask questions to make things good not worse. Ask for meaningful relationships,  overall health.Build create and add value to this world I do believe that, people who have courage to ask are very dangerous people and they have hunger and passion in their eyes to do a lots of crazy good things.

 You read it right. There could be hundreds of ways to attract happiness but, I will always go for thinking good. Thinking positive. In this blog post we will try to understand about, why it is crucial for all of us to think good and attract happiness! Have you ever heard about the law of attraction? If not, no worries! It’s all good. In simple language it means that, whatever you think.. you attract the same. The Law of attraction is an invisible force that impacts each one of us regardless of our status in the society. In reality, we tend to focus more and more on our problems. We focus too much on things like fear, anxiety and resentment. Guess what, when our main focus is on the negative side, negative things start to take place. I do understand the point that, our main purpose of life is to survive and it’s critical to think about what actions we should take if, we encounter any dangerous situation. Now here is the problem – when we just think 24/7 about the problems and make ourselves busy in making contingency plans all the time, we make no progress. The key to have a prosperous and joyful life is to think more about positivity,Constructive Thinking happiness and love than crying out loud with complains and bitterness. You might have thousands of reasons to show your resentment and laziness towards your life but, for heaven’s sake find one damn stupid reason to build your life together. The first step towards prosperity is to have friendship with law of attraction. The best thing that you can do is to feed your soul with positive thoughts. Learn the game of law of attraction. I gave you my personal example of permanent Residency of Canada – made a tough decision of moving from Ontario to Nova Scotia got the job but, did not like the atmosphere there. I had to leave the job, found another job… almost hopeless but, every night before I used to go to the bed, I would write down my goal of permanent residency.Consistency is the key I had put my shit together, worked hard by keeping in mind the law of attraction. Financial, personal, health and relationship problems go away with this wonderful law of nature but, it takes time and efforts. I leave you here cause I am going out for a walk!

There is so much happening in this world. We are overburdened with tons of information. Life has become very much chaotic and it’s hard to determine which thing we should put on the top of our list? People are struggling with stress, anxiety and resentment than ever before. It seems that, most of us have forgotten the primary purpose of our lives. In this blog post, I would try to focus on those things that would help you to build and create life. We need to understand that, building, creating and adding value take time. It takes a lot of time. Not just time but, it takes a lot of efforts and patience to create something! Sadly, our patience levels are keep declining day by day. We are not building our lives on core values like patience, honesty, trust, discipline, hard work and faith. We are focusing too much things that gives us instant gratification. Fun is necessary but, we need to ask ourselves this- at what cost? If we keep ignoring the fundamentals then, how could we run this world? How could we operate our daily lives? If you look at the magnificent house on your street, it wasn’t constructed in a day but, it was constructed every day. The house wasn’t built by one person but, by the group of people who came for the achievement of common goal . Building something takes every day, it takes every week, month and every year. One can rely on motivation for so much but, to do real things in real life, it takes real efforts. Nothing can replace Miraculous power of efforts in a right direction. Right efforts brings happiness and prosperity.Constructive Thinking I always believe in that, work like everyone/ everything is dependent upon you and pray like everyone/ everything is dependent on God. One thing that I have learned after reading the book ‘The Secret’ I realized that, we focus on all those things that we don’t want instead of focusing on the things that we want for us for our community. I leave you with this – focus more and more on positive energy.focus on the fundamentals of life It might be very hard at first. You might not see the benefits at first but, let me assure you that, there is real fortune if you are consistent with the habit of what you desire. Universe will make it a reality for you.

If there is anyone who knows us best, it  is our inner voice. Anything we do or say there is always a voice deep inside us that guide us what’s morally right for us and how we should conduct ourselves to the outside world. In this blog post, My only aim is to make aware every one about our inner guide. Our conscience is deeply connected to the universe. There is a direct relationship between the conscience and the universe. The more we are aware about our moral guide the more closer we feel connected toward the universe. The more we feel connected towards the  universe the more we enrich our lives and lives of all those who are associated with us. Our conscience never say to us that, if bad things are happening to us, we need to do the same thing. It’s even true for vicious criminals. The only thing is that, some people do not make efforts to recognize it. The sad truth is that when we don’t listen to our inner voice, we suffer. We complain and become nihilistic. Just like time never takes break from its job, our conscience constantly keep knocking at our door and keep reminding us about picking up of noble and humble responsibilities to make our lives less suffering! One thing is for sure- your loved one could lie to you. You could lie to them. You could deceive your family and friends but, how could someone cheat their sense of obligation? We can make our lives comfy by relying on technology. We can even devastate the entire world with nukes but, there is no way that, we can turn our face away from our sense of obligation ( inner- voice). There is nothing more heroic than anything when, someone actually listens to his inner voice and follow the path of fulfilling his purpose in his life. In our mind we can fit as many as filters to see what’s good for short term. Hope leads to FaithWe might have some motives to accomplish things that give us status in the community but, our guide is free of motives like greed, ego and lust. All it wanna to have connection with the higher self and the universe! It is free from malevolence. Have courage to listen to your inner voice. Even if you try to suppress it, it will only get louder and louder. My sense of duty persistently saying to me that, pick up your responsibilities to justify your existence and help millions to find their purpose of life.

In this 21st century, there is great need to have our eyes fixed on basic elements of life. In this blog post, we will try to understand about what are the core elements of life? Why we should focus on them? How can we improve our lives by simply aiming on simple elements of life?So, let’s get started! and focus on the fundamentals of life. What are the fundamentals of life: in order to operate our daily lives, we need basic elements to aim for. All great people, have aimed for crucial fundamentals to improve and to lead others. I am talking about consistent discipline, hard- work & Faith. J know that, we have become so busy in our lives that we give less and less importance to learn about them. I am also not in the favor that, we should be serious all the time be hard souls and give no importance to sense of humor. One way to understand the importance of Faith, hard-work and consistent discipline is that, you could build the tallest building in the world and focus only on to make the building to look beautiful and ignore the concrete foundation of the giant structure , I am sure that, the building would collapse to rubble in case of Earthquake. Sadly, in today’s culture we give more and more importance to materialistic things. There is nothing wrong in that but, we need to ask ourselves at what cost we will keep ignoring the core values of our lives? Why we need to aim on fundamentals of life: The bottom line is this: we got life and we have challenges everyday. If we ignore the value of Faith, consistent discipline and hard-work our life will become like a tragic hell! We can all complain about our lives to our family and friends. We can blame our loved ones for every bad outcome but, for how long? Ultimately we have to rescue ourselves by taking the responsibilities to make it better. In order to do that, we need to the path of realness. Take more & more courage to build concrete foundation of your life!Courage will make your life a Blessing Make your life better by focusing on the core elements of life: we discussed about the primary elements of our lives. It’s not a mystery to anyone that Great leaders have always focused on the core values of their lives to attract greatness in their lives. Their relationship with money, health, physical fitness, emotional intelligence and people get better with time. They don’t have to rely on outside motivation. All they have to focus on key elements of their lives to attract charisma & success! The benefits of Having faith, consistent discipline and Hard – work are endless.Consistency is the key It’s just a matter of time of when we will start realizing their importance and make tremendous positive impact not in just our lives but, also on others!

We take a huge pride when it comes to reaching our goals without seeking any one’s help. I think that we are teaching our kids that don’t ask help of anyone when, you are in trouble.  Thanks to social media, we think that, looking for help from someone to max out our potential is a sign of weakness. In this blog post I will do my best to convey the message of don’t be afraid of asking help to fulfill your meaningful responsibilities. If you look at the human civilization we are programmed to help each other. When a child is born, He is completely dependent on others. When a child grows up, he depends upon his school and work to make his own identity and when he grows older he again depends up on others. Another life situation is that, when we witness an accident on a highway people do come out of their cars to help the injured ones & pickup their phones to call 911 to save lives! One thing I deeply believe that, the purpose of life can only be fulfilled if we make genuine efforts to help people to reach their goals. One thing we need to keep in our mind deceit, malevolence and nihilism always devalue the meaning our lives. A person who has a goal of deceiving others to complete his mission might have advantage for a short period of time but soon people come to know the evil intentions of that individual and guess what… everyone leaves that evil person. One should not assume that we should rely on others all the time to make a decision. The goal of this blog post is to ensure that, people who take personal responsibility to reach their goals should never be embarrassed of seeking help of their loved ones when, things go out of their reach! It needs courage to seek help from others. It takes tremendous efforts to help people to justify their existences. People with low values and mentality always resist the assistance of others. Most of us think that, if we seek help from others, they will control us. People will walk over us. When people have this cheap ass thinking guess what? They suffer in the hands of others. Great people who are looking to improve in their lives have mentors.Set priorities to thrive in the world! They have friends who talk more about goals than gossips. When ever they are taking a road trip they listen to personal development courses. Bottom line is this: Don’t be afraid of seeking help! I wouldn’t have reached to Canada without getting help from my family. I wouldn’t have got the permanent Residency without the help of my employer & I wouldn’t have made this website without talking to my friend about my writing ambitions.Consistency is the key I do get the point that, young generation want to become independent. In order to become independent, take more responsibilities and help people. Don’t be afraid of seeking help when you are physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually exhausted. So, don’t be ashamed when you seek help. Remember that, it takes courage to seek help.

One quick way to become responsible and to thrive in this chaotic world is to understand the fundamentals of setting priorities. Men, who know how to set the priorities in their daily lives win everything and when they win, they set high standards for others. In this blog post, we will understand about the importance of  Setting priorities to thrive in the world! Why setting priorities are crucial for you– I have said it a million times that as a human being we got purpose and we need to justify our existence on this living planet. No priorities simply means that, we got nothing to aim at. When we got nothing to aim at, we simply just wander around aimlessly and fall into a vicious cycle of pain and suffering. Always make efforts to focus on all those things that make you strong, kind, responsible & valuable. For instance, giving priority to personal development books over video games. Giving priority to physical activity over watching some crap on TV. How to set priorities: most people think it’s difficult to set priorities. It’s a game that we all play and very few people get it. How to set priorities: as we have learned setting priorities are very important to conduct daily business of our lives. One thing we all struggle with how can we set priorities? The simple answer lies in having a schedule and if we follow the schedule properly and consistently, we can get the things done. We need to divide 24 hours into smaller chunks & focus as much as on those things that increase our productivity. For students: divide your day into 5 important segments- 1. School. 2. Homework. 3. Physical exercise for 15-20 minutes a day. 4. Reading for 30 minutes a day for personal development. Spending time with your loved ones For working class people: Focus on your job. Take as many as responsibilities for the job and follow the rule 80/20 focus on 20% of the things that brings 80% of the result for the job that you are doing. Working out, reading a book for 30 minutes, meditate for 5 minutes and do not forget to spend time with your loved ones! I genuinely believe that if we divide our time into 5 activities as mentioned below then, we can make tremendous improvements in our lives. Money creation ( full time/part time job) Active ( physical exercise/ outdoors) Creative ( writing, new language, cooking) Thinking ( Reading, meditation, writing) Connection (Creator, Family& friends) It’s okay if you can’t eliminate all of the distractions but, one thing we can aim for is to reduce distractions/ toxic habits as much as we can to reach our potential. Believe me, it’s going to be hard but, it is worth it. We should all shoot for it.

In this blog post I would like to talk about Why improving yourself matters? and how making small efforts to incremental changes impact the world in a positive manner. So, let’s get started.Let me come straight to the point what happens when we don’t improve with time: we all know that things change rapidly with time, technology changes, new scientific inventions take place, people change & life style changes. Basically everything changes from top to bottom. When we fail to acknowledge the things or when we close our eyes to make necessary adjustments with time, world moves apart from us. When we finally open our eyes, we regret our present circumstances and blame everything on others. One important measure to know whether you are improving or not is that, how much time you are spending on your past. If majority of your thoughts in a day are related to your past circumstances and whining about it then, I am sorry you need to make changes immediately and start by writing about your past on a paper as clearly as you can and let it go even though, it seems impossible! I give you my personal experience: I didn’t have good time during my high school even though, I was very much focused on getting good grades but, my social life was horrible. I was bullied very badly in high school by my friends and I started to just concentrate on my assignments and exams which was an absurd thing even, during my early years in Canada I was mentally and emotionally exhausted by the number of toxic people I was engaging with. one day I made a decision to make positive improvements. I told myself enough is enough! I decided to write, read books on personal development. I started to exercise. I came up with a plan to focus only on efforts rather than on the results! If I still stumble with my past, I just simply remind myself ‘let it go’.How Faith can do Miracles for you I believe that more than half the world’s population lives in the past. People who blame everything on past miss the humble opportunities to perform well in their present. Basically, they play the role of victims. You might have a little bit of advantage of playing this role in short term but, you will always lose your long term future by over stretching this role. Think about what really matters to you and why and write it down & think if you give 2-3 years to that particular mission where would you see yourself in future? Keep asking this, until you find your answer. Remember do not fall into vicious cycle of past situations just let it go. That’s the best thing you can do to yourself!