Author: sekhrikush11

Does life really stop flowing whether you are delighted or not? Does it really care about how much money you have in the bank account or how much authority you hold over others? No. Life just goes on. We often say to ourselves that, we wish, the happiness never ends and the days of trouble stays far away from our lives but, does life really care about your opinion or my opinion? No. It doesn’t. Life is like a river. The river knows that, it has to keep flowing regardless of anything comes in between its way and finally surrender itself to the Ocean. The same is true with the life too. Regardless of the trouble or the happiness we face in our lives, it just continues to flow until life finds itself again with the Universe! So, the question is this, what we can learn from the flow of life? I believe that, one major thing we can take out of life is not to get overly excited when happiness arrives at the door or not to get too much depressed when the life brings some problems. Most of us including me take things for granted but, life really shows that, we have to take good care of those who truly love us with honest intentions and not to hate the ones who bring unnecessary pain and suffering in our lives but, to keep moving forward with good spirit. I’m not sure about how you deal with the good times and the bad times but, one phrase I often ponder and it goes like this- ‘This too shall pass’ so, what’s the point of living with unnecessary ego and hatred? We need to ask ourselves that, where has it taken us? The only answer that is coming to my mind is that, No where! All I know that, it will continue to bring good days and bad days. All we can do is to not to take anything for granted. We need to keep loving those who love us the most and being grateful to those who tried to make our lives full of trouble but, ultimately opened our eyes and lifted our spirits to the new heights! At the end, I would say to you that, life goes on whether you care about it or not but, you choose to take good care of it for those who love!

I believe that, most of the men have forgotten their responsibilities/duties. They have forgotten their roles. We need to restore the faith in traditional masculinity. We need to know why young men hate traditional masculine traits? This blog post is all about bringing glory to all the courageous men who have sacrificed their lives, their careers for their loved ones. The foremost duty of every man is to have faith in God. The primary duty of every man on this living planet to restore his faith in God and bring Glory to Him. Every man is created in the image of God. If we try to remove the essence of supreme power out of our lives then it leads to chaos. Any sensible man knows that his job is to bring order and keep chaoses at minimum level. Without trusting God, it’s not possible. A man’s job is to lead a family under the guidance of Lord. The second duty of a man is take care of his responsibilities. It is to take maximum load of responsibilities on his shoulder and fulfill them with accountability. A man’s job is to protect, provide and lead his family. As a man, you have to justify your existence on this planet to build and create for common good. Any man who fails to provide for his family, any man who fails to protect the interests of his loved ones has not understood the real meaning of masculinity. When a man focus on providing meaningful things to the world then, the whole society prospers. When the society prospers, the nation prospers. The 3rd duty of a man is to seek truth and stay humble in his actions. Feelings come and go. Only one things is gonna stay here and that is truth. A man should not be afraid of seeking truth. Sweet lies only bring resentment. Truth brings freedom. A man has to true to himself and his loved ones. He should not be afraid of making tough talks to people to seek right meaningful things in his life. He needs to stay humble and gentle with his actions. He needs to be kind to his fellow men. Many people think that arrogance brings strength and power. No. It doesn’t. It only brings misery. A wise man stays humble with his actions. He lifts his fellow men to reach a common goal. A humbled man is a courageous man. Pride doesn’t make you courageous. It makes you arrogant so, if any man who seeks pride and he falls from the heights of success. A man who seeks responsibilities in his life gets power every time. I believe that, all the men should know what are their duties as a man and honour their responsibilities with all the strength and courage.

You read it right! You are not alone! I have no idea what has happened to the western world? More and more people are resentful and not happy with their lives. More and more young people believe that, they have no intentions of living their lives. I believe that, covid was a fake pandemic. The real Pandemic we are facing is of loneliness. Through my blog post, I want to assure you that, you are not alone! First thing you need to do is to restore your faith in God. And when I say restore your faith in God, I actually mean it. You need to be grateful to Him for the life he has given you and show unwavering faith in Him cause, He is the one who is going to make your life better than yesterday. You have to keep doing it everyday. Every-time you wake up in the morning, you need to thank God. Every night before you go to bed you need to thank God and pray for strength and resilience. Who the heck says that, you are alone? You are not alone. Your inner voice is with you. Your strength and courage to make life better is with you. People who truly love you in-spite of pain and suffering are with you. I truly believe that, as long as you seek truth, stay humble with your actions and revere God you can never be alone! The things that are really making us depressed are- being toxic with people, being irresponsible in life, drinking and smoking unnecessarily, removing essence of God from life, believing in stupid things like men can be women and women can be men. Remember this, you are an awesome person created in the image of God. Your job is to bring glory to your lord through your humble acts. As long as you are on God’s side you are not alone. In-fact you are never alone! Remember that!

  We are so much occupied with ourselves. We live a very hectic lifestyle. Sometimes, we stress on little things and try to make everything perfect. In the moment of making things perfect, we lose our touch with reality. We lose our touch with our loved ones. This blog post’s motto is to take all of you away from busy life and to bring smile on your faces! Life is not plain and simple. No doubt, pain and suffering define our civilization. It is only half the truth. The full truth is that, even though life can be unbearably hard but, there’s always hope of light. The hope of light of positivity starts with you and only with you. You have the ability to decide how to respond to the particular situation. You are the one to decide how to deal with the people who are associated with you. You can decide whether to deal with your problems with some courage or not. You have the ultimate ability to define your life. In life we gain and lose all the time. Gaining and losing is true with money. It is true with respect and it is also true with people. Human beings are incredible creatures. What makes us incredible is because we have the ability to think. We have the ability to impact others with our actions. Your impact of actions play a tremendous part in someone’s life. Be a kind of person who has the genuine intentions of bringing smile on the face of your loved ones. Be a kind of person who doesn’t do anything unnecessarily stupid to bring harm on others. If others have done something wrong with you, it doesn’t mean that, you have the right to destroy the lives of others too! Remember you have the ability to think in a sensible manner. Be that person. Have faith in your destiny and good will come back to you for sure! At the end, only thing matters in your life whether you are surrounded by your loved ones while you are taking your last breath. It’s not the money. It’s not the power. Be the reason of smile on someone’s face. Bring smile on the face of your loves ones!

Each one of us looking to stay happy. No one likes to go through pain and suffering. Unnecessary pain and suffering is even worse! This blog post is about meaning is foremost thing to have happiness in life. Happiness is not about to have just a smily face 24/7. It is much deeper than that. It is about having a great physical, mental, emotional, financial and spiritual well-being. I believe that, happiness only strives when you seek truth. It only takes place when you are genuinely concerned about taking responsibilities in your life and making it better not just for yourself but, for all of the people around you! We have a wrong perception about happiness. We think that, it is all about driving your car recklessly. It’s about drinking and partying every other weekend. We think that, it’s about gambling hard earned money in casinos. I genuinely believe that, it is about building yourself a better person. Doing right things. It’s about working hard and honouring God. No one talks about real happiness anymore now. Our politicians say that, real happiness is about how you feel and your feelings are way more important than the truth. Feelings can change over time. Only one thing is going to stay forever is the truth. We need great people who have the courage to tell people especially the younger generation that, it’s better to have life in order and who knows that when you have life in order, you might stumble upon happiness someday. Everyone is caring about their feelings and maybe, we see a lot of resentment and depression in west because, young people are clueless! There are few people who are standing up and talking about real issues that leads to happiness like Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, Elon Musk, Andrew Tate. I’m saying to you again that, meaning of life is deeply embedded in taking care of yourself with a positive mindset. Don’t give in when the time is tough. You need to dig deeper and find yourself. Stick to the meaning of life and be happy!

   How many times we try to read the minds of others? How many times we try to make assumptions about others and how many times we have expectations from others? It’s just unbelievable. It is sometimes impossible to think how much of energy and efforts we waste on others and often times we got no time for ourselves. This blog post is all about you. It is all about you know the good side and the dark side. One task you need to do everyday is to read yourself. It is your responsibility to read your thoughts, your emotions. You need to know what really triggers you before anyone else does. You need to dig deeper in yourself to find the monster and conquer it with all the strength and courage of your soul. Just like you are reading a book page by page, chapter by chapter, the same thing you need to do with yourself. You need to read about yourself step by step. Day by day. When you dig deeper in yourself, you will come across your dark side. Just like a good reader, you don’t wanna to run away from your bad side. You need to win it like a master. You need to face it. For instance, If you like hurting people then, you need to admit it yes I do it and you need to ask yourself why? You need to think about future. What kind of future you would have if you continue to deceit people? You need to think about long run. Same goes with your addictions/toxic habits. First you need to become self-aware only then, you can do something about it. You don’t have to act like a guy who only interested in reading the good part of the book. Sometimes life can be tragic hell and you have to go through storms. Sometimes, there are some rainy days in life but, it doesn’t mean that it is going to be like this forever. Believe me as long as you stay true to yourself, seek truth and have unwavering faith in God you will win and you will get through storms. The only thing is that, you can’t escape the darkness. You need to make darkness your friend. When you come across your good and bad side, you will be unstoppable. You will act naturally. You don’t have to make fake smiles. Remember good things take time. You need to have aggressive patience. So, Read yourself not people.

There’s a fountain of love flowing deep inside of you. Most of us are blindly following hatred towards others! There’s so much of negativity around you! You have to be different and dig deeper to find fountain of love inside of you! Have you guys ever wondered why we get tired, depressed and frustrated easily cause, most of us think that, the world is cruel and in order to face challenges we need to be cruel too! Negative emotions/energy only brings destruction. The world has already witnessed what can hatred do… why we are trying to repeat the same mistake again? God has given us freedom of choice. We are free to decide whether to be a good human beings or the evil ones. Some people are too desperate to earn name, fame and money. They don’t think in a sensible manner and they look for some kind of shortcuts. In order to cut some corners, they target sensible people. They humiliate them. They torture them. You don’t have to be one of them. God has given you the brain. God has given you the senses to think so, do some thinking and bring some good out of you. The number one problem we are facing is that, we wanna to get credit for good things we do to people? Why? Instead of getting credit from others, we can give credit to God. We have to be thankful to the universe for all the good things we are doing in order to make life slightly better than yesterday. Everyone has to reap what they sowed years ago. So, let’s discover the fountain of love that is flowing inside your heart. Let’s bring some joy and happiness into lives of others without seeking credit. We can all do it. We just need some little bit of courage and some desire. In the times of crisis, always remember, you need to dig deeper to find love and you need to share the love with yourself, with God and with your loved ones! Dig deeper to find fountain of love!

Yes, you read it right! You are not a machine. You are not a non- living thing. You are a divine human being created in the image of God. You need to remember that! From the very moment, we wake up in the morning, we just turn overselves from human beings to machines. We just become too much busy into our daily routines and sometimes feels we are even less than animals. The problem we are facing right now is that, any action we are engaging in we are not giving our best. In other words we are lacking some kind of self-awareness! For example, when we are stressed out, we go for binge eating or watch Netflix for countless hours and when we are done with binge eating and watching, somewhere in the heart we feel guilt. We regret ourselves for eating too much or watching too much tv.. At the time of eating, we hardly had any self awareness about our action (eating) once, we were done with eating, we suddenly realized about the consequences of having eaten too much of food. It’s like machine, when you switch on it works and when you switch off and then it doesn’t. One thing we really need to do is whatever actions we engage in, we genuinely need to become self aware of that particular action. It is not like you are blindly doing something. It is about your eyes are opened. It is the idea of knowing what you are working on. Machines are assigned with tasks. We need to remind ourselves that, we are the inventor of machines. We are above machines. A criminal’s brain works like a machine. During the process of killing someone he doesn’t think about his actions. He is not self aware. He just blindly completes his task. Once, he spends some time in the jail, he really thinks why did he do it? What did he get after doing it. He then starts thinking about his family. He suddenly becomes self aware after engaging in terrible action. We can learn so much from this small example. Anything you do or any action you engage in please just don’t it blindly like a machine. Do it with some awareness! Self awareness leads to inner happiness and love. Remember you are a human being. You have the ability to think and act. You are divine cause, you are the beauty of the Creator. Praise your Creator for creating you cause, you are bigger than a machine!

Our lives are like a flow of water. It never stops. It is always governed by the laws of nature. Anyone who has ever tried to stop the flow of his life has failed terribly. There’s so much we can learn from the flow of river. When we are in the times of difficulties, we often think that, this is going to be the end of life. We often think about, why us? What did we do wrong? One thing we need to understand about life is that, good things and bad things are part of life and that what helps the life to keep going. The first life lesson we can take away from the flow of the river is that, when it comes to problems, we don’t have to stop. We just need to make efforts and we just need to go with the flow. 2nd life lesson we can take from the river is that, at the end of its journey, river connects with the ocean. The river has a destiny to re unite with the ocean. You don’t have to use any map to the river to find the ocean. Same with us, we have the ultimate journey on this planet. We are here to justify our existence. We are here to give glory to the Lord. We are here to connect our souls with ONE! We don’t need any map for that. We just need to become self aware. 3rd thing we really need to learn from the flow of water is that, how to be humble. Humility is one of the most noble characteristics a man can have in his life. The water of the river flows so eloquently without any pride and arrogance. The river knows its ultimate fate of meeting up with the ocean. The river submits itself completely to the ocean. The same thing we need to do. We need to surrender over-selves to the Supreme. We need to accept the rules of the universe/nature and live with humility as much as possible. Especially, in the world of pride and arrogance, we need to have peace, love and prosperity. The way to achieve meaning in life is to be humble. We need to know that, everything in this world is temporary. The money, the power, the relationships are not permanent so why we have egos? Why so much arrogance? Why not just go with the flow! So, there’s so much to learn from the flow of water. The persistence, resilience, focus and humility. The river is a great life teacher. It says it all without saying any words So, flow like river!

  Life is not a 100 m race. Average life expectancy in America is 78 years. If someone says life is too short then, he is not 100% right. If you pay attention clearly, 78 years are too long. This blog is about all you need to take one step at a time to deal with your life. I believe that, it is more fulfilling approach than focusing on too many things at a same time! You know that, I’m not in a favour of multi-tasking. Ever since, we have given importance to this approach in our lives, people have become more anxious and resentful. Everyone is focusing on one thing and that is multitasking, multitasking and more multitasking. There’s so much goes around us and we can’t just divide our attention equally on 10 different things. It’s better to do no task at all. We have so much to do in a life. The things that we wanna to accomplish are countless. One thing I wanna to say that, if we try to achieve things in a haphazardly manner then, each one of us is gonna die in regrets. In order to have less depression and less anxiety we need to continually remind ourselves that, life is all about one step at a time. We need to keep saying this thing to our minds day and night so that, we just focus on what we are doing in present. Life is a long game when we play the game with some kind of self awareness. Most of us operate like a machine. The moment we wake up in the morning, we start behaving like robots. I believe that, there’s a button in our system. When someone pushes the button, we become angry. When some one praises us, we switch back to politeness and love. All I’m saying that, we are not machine. We are human beings. We are conscious beings. Self awareness is way deeper than acting like robots. My message is loud and clear. Anything you wanna to achieve, you need to take one step at a time whether it’s your health, money or your relationship. One step at a time and act with some level of consciousness.