Stick to the meaning of life and be happy!

Each one of us looking to stay happy. No one likes to go through pain and suffering. Unnecessary pain and suffering is even worse! This blog post is about meaning is foremost thing to have happiness in life. Happiness is not about to have just a smily face 24/7. It is much deeper than that. It is about having a great physical, mental, emotional, financial and spiritual well-being. I believe that, happiness only strives when you seek truth. It only takes place when you are genuinely concerned about taking responsibilities in your life and making it better not just for yourself but, for all of the people around you! We have a wrong perception about happiness. We think that, it is all about driving your car recklessly. It’s about drinking and partying every other weekend. We think that, it’s about gambling hard earned money in casinos. I genuinely believe that, it is about building yourself a better person. Doing right things. It’s about working hard and honouring God. No one talks about real happiness anymore now. Our politicians say that, real happiness is about how you feel and your feelings are way more important than the truth. Feelings can change over time. Only one thing is going to stay forever is the truth. We need great people who have the courage to tell people especially the younger generation that, it’s better to have life in order and who knows that when you have life in order, you might stumble upon happiness someday. Everyone is caring about their feelings and maybe, we see a lot of resentment and depression in west because, young people are clueless! There are few people who are standing up and talking about real issues that leads to happiness like Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, Elon Musk, Andrew Tate. I’m saying to you again that, meaning of life is deeply embedded in taking care of yourself with a positive mindset. Don’t give in when the time is tough. You need to dig deeper and find yourself. Stick to the meaning of life and be happy!

Read yourself not people

   How many times we try to read the minds of others? How many times we try to make assumptions about others and how many times we have expectations from others? It’s just unbelievable. It is sometimes impossible to think how much of energy and efforts we waste on others and often times we got no time for ourselves. This blog post is all about you. It is all about you know the good side and the dark side. One task you need to do everyday is to read yourself. It is your responsibility to read your thoughts, your emotions. You need to know what really triggers you before anyone else does. You need to dig deeper in yourself to find the monster and conquer it with all the strength and courage of your soul. Just like you are reading a book page by page, chapter by chapter, the same thing you need to do with yourself. You need to read about yourself step by step. Day by day. When you dig deeper in yourself, you will come across your dark side. Just like a good reader, you don’t wanna to run away from your bad side. You need to win it like a master. You need to face it. For instance, If you like hurting people then, you need to admit it yes I do it and you need to ask yourself why? You need to think about future. What kind of future you would have if you continue to deceit people? You need to think about long run. Same goes with your addictions/toxic habits. First you need to become self-aware only then, you can do something about it. You don’t have to act like a guy who only interested in reading the good part of the book. Sometimes life can be tragic hell and you have to go through storms. Sometimes, there are some rainy days in life but, it doesn’t mean that it is going to be like this forever. Believe me as long as you stay true to yourself, seek truth and have unwavering faith in God you will win and you will get through storms. The only thing is that, you can’t escape the darkness. You need to make darkness your friend. When you come across your good and bad side, you will be unstoppable. You will act naturally. You don’t have to make fake smiles. Remember good things take time. You need to have aggressive patience. So, Read yourself not people.

Fountain of love

There’s a fountain of love flowing deep inside of you. Most of us are blindly following hatred towards others! There’s so much of negativity around you! You have to be different and dig deeper to find fountain of love inside of you! Have you guys ever wondered why we get tired, depressed and frustrated easily cause, most of us think that, the world is cruel and in order to face challenges we need to be cruel too! Negative emotions/energy only brings destruction. The world has already witnessed what can hatred do… why we are trying to repeat the same mistake again? God has given us freedom of choice. We are free to decide whether to be a good human beings or the evil ones. Some people are too desperate to earn name, fame and money. They don’t think in a sensible manner and they look for some kind of shortcuts. In order to cut some corners, they target sensible people. They humiliate them. They torture them. You don’t have to be one of them. God has given you the brain. God has given you the senses to think so, do some thinking and bring some good out of you. The number one problem we are facing is that, we wanna to get credit for good things we do to people? Why? Instead of getting credit from others, we can give credit to God. We have to be thankful to the universe for all the good things we are doing in order to make life slightly better than yesterday. Everyone has to reap what they sowed years ago. So, let’s discover the fountain of love that is flowing inside your heart. Let’s bring some joy and happiness into lives of others without seeking credit. We can all do it. We just need some little bit of courage and some desire. In the times of crisis, always remember, you need to dig deeper to find love and you need to share the love with yourself, with God and with your loved ones! Dig deeper to find fountain of love!

You are not a machine!

Yes, you read it right! You are not a machine. You are not a non- living thing. You are a divine human being created in the image of God. You need to remember that! From the very moment, we wake up in the morning, we just turn overselves from human beings to machines. We just become too much busy into our daily routines and sometimes feels we are even less than animals. The problem we are facing right now is that, any action we are engaging in we are not giving our best. In other words we are lacking some kind of self-awareness! For example, when we are stressed out, we go for binge eating or watch Netflix for countless hours and when we are done with binge eating and watching, somewhere in the heart we feel guilt. We regret ourselves for eating too much or watching too much tv.. At the time of eating, we hardly had any self awareness about our action (eating) once, we were done with eating, we suddenly realized about the consequences of having eaten too much of food. It’s like machine, when you switch on it works and when you switch off and then it doesn’t. One thing we really need to do is whatever actions we engage in, we genuinely need to become self aware of that particular action. It is not like you are blindly doing something. It is about your eyes are opened. It is the idea of knowing what you are working on. Machines are assigned with tasks. We need to remind ourselves that, we are the inventor of machines. We are above machines. A criminal’s brain works like a machine. During the process of killing someone he doesn’t think about his actions. He is not self aware. He just blindly completes his task. Once, he spends some time in the jail, he really thinks why did he do it? What did he get after doing it. He then starts thinking about his family. He suddenly becomes self aware after engaging in terrible action. We can learn so much from this small example. Anything you do or any action you engage in please just don’t it blindly like a machine. Do it with some awareness! Self awareness leads to inner happiness and love. Remember you are a human being. You have the ability to think and act. You are divine cause, you are the beauty of the Creator. Praise your Creator for creating you cause, you are bigger than a machine!

Flow like river!

Our lives are like a flow of water. It never stops. It is always governed by the laws of nature. Anyone who has ever tried to stop the flow of his life has failed terribly. There’s so much we can learn from the flow of river. When we are in the times of difficulties, we often think that, this is going to be the end of life. We often think about, why us? What did we do wrong? One thing we need to understand about life is that, good things and bad things are part of life and that what helps the life to keep going. The first life lesson we can take away from the flow of the river is that, when it comes to problems, we don’t have to stop. We just need to make efforts and we just need to go with the flow. 2nd life lesson we can take from the river is that, at the end of its journey, river connects with the ocean. The river has a destiny to re unite with the ocean. You don’t have to use any map to the river to find the ocean. Same with us, we have the ultimate journey on this planet. We are here to justify our existence. We are here to give glory to the Lord. We are here to connect our souls with ONE! We don’t need any map for that. We just need to become self aware. 3rd thing we really need to learn from the flow of water is that, how to be humble. Humility is one of the most noble characteristics a man can have in his life. The water of the river flows so eloquently without any pride and arrogance. The river knows its ultimate fate of meeting up with the ocean. The river submits itself completely to the ocean. The same thing we need to do. We need to surrender over-selves to the Supreme. We need to accept the rules of the universe/nature and live with humility as much as possible. Especially, in the world of pride and arrogance, we need to have peace, love and prosperity. The way to achieve meaning in life is to be humble. We need to know that, everything in this world is temporary. The money, the power, the relationships are not permanent so why we have egos? Why so much arrogance? Why not just go with the flow! So, there’s so much to learn from the flow of water. The persistence, resilience, focus and humility. The river is a great life teacher. It says it all without saying any words So, flow like river!

One step at a time!

  Life is not a 100 m race. Average life expectancy in America is 78 years. If someone says life is too short then, he is not 100% right. If you pay attention clearly, 78 years are too long. This blog is about all you need to take one step at a time to deal with your life. I believe that, it is more fulfilling approach than focusing on too many things at a same time! You know that, I’m not in a favour of multi-tasking. Ever since, we have given importance to this approach in our lives, people have become more anxious and resentful. Everyone is focusing on one thing and that is multitasking, multitasking and more multitasking. There’s so much goes around us and we can’t just divide our attention equally on 10 different things. It’s better to do no task at all. We have so much to do in a life. The things that we wanna to accomplish are countless. One thing I wanna to say that, if we try to achieve things in a haphazardly manner then, each one of us is gonna die in regrets. In order to have less depression and less anxiety we need to continually remind ourselves that, life is all about one step at a time. We need to keep saying this thing to our minds day and night so that, we just focus on what we are doing in present. Life is a long game when we play the game with some kind of self awareness. Most of us operate like a machine. The moment we wake up in the morning, we start behaving like robots. I believe that, there’s a button in our system. When someone pushes the button, we become angry. When some one praises us, we switch back to politeness and love. All I’m saying that, we are not machine. We are human beings. We are conscious beings. Self awareness is way deeper than acting like robots. My message is loud and clear. Anything you wanna to achieve, you need to take one step at a time whether it’s your health, money or your relationship. One step at a time and act with some level of consciousness.

Pray about your future!

What ever happened in your past, it happened. The truth is that, you can’t go in your past and change it. You got present and thinking about your mistakes that you did in your past is also not helping you in any shape and form. In present you need to pray about your better future! We all think about the past all the times. We are human beings. Most of us have done terrible deeds in our past and we regret about it in our present. We do the same mistakes and regret again. In this case, we are not just losing our present but, we are also becoming more and more resentful about our future. If you have realized that, overthinking about your past is going to bring any new hopes in your present and in your future then, I’m sure about you don’t care about your self awareness. You need to know that, You are a conscious human being. You still have some hope for your future. There’s still light in your life. You are still better than others who are still regretting about their past mistakes and losing great hopes for future. There’s a great hope for the future when we become aware about the fact that, past is like a learning lessons. We can use all of the learning lessons of our past and when we apply those tough lessons in our present, we can hope for better future. I say to you, when you go to bed always thank God and pray for strength and resilience. You have already destroyed your past. You are already worried in your present but, for God’s sake pray to God for your better future. Your life line is dependent on it. Not only yours but your loved ones too! Always pray for better future!

Take care of your well-being

Take care of yourself. You need to take care of your body, mind and soul. There’s a fountain of love flowing deep inside you. The only way you can experience that fountain, when you take care of your well-being! For your body, you need to look good. You need to look healthy. I know that, in north America, governments, leftists and globalists have made us to celebrate obesity. You don’t wanna to end up in nursing home in your fifties and you don’t want 2 people in the nursing home to take care of you. You don’t want some one to lift you and move you everyday. I’m not sure about you but, I won’t definitely like that. I’m not saying that, you have to completely stay away from the fast food. You have to follow a healthy diet as much as you can. Your body is not a prison. Try to make food at home. Give yourself a challenge for a month and make sure to make 3-4 times in a week. I wonder why the anxiety levels are increasing in our society? Cause, we don’t take the necessary care of our body. When we don’t take good care of our home(body) we run to big pharma companies and spend money on antidepressants. We might feel good for a while but guess what? We are just harming our body by not focusing on home-made food and not engaging in physical activities. The message is loud and clear, take care of your beautiful home! For your mind, you just need to treat your mind good. That’s it. You have to stop thinking about garbage. You need to stop doing all of those things that are polluting your mind. I have said so many times that, you need to pick something positive. You need to keep saying a positive phrase to yourself everyday. Repeat a positive thought thousand times in a day. Do it every day. I really don’t care if you get sick and tired of repeating the same optimistic thought during the day but, do it! When you are feeling good, think about something good. When you are feeling low think about your ideal self. Your mind has a tremendous power to transform your life so, transform your life for good. Take care of your soul. Your soul is an incredible gift from the Creator. It is your soul that is connected to the Universe. Respect your inner voice. Respect your soul. I have said it enough, ever since, we have removed the presence of God from our lives, we have become more resentful and nihilistic. Ever since, we have lost our faith in the God, we have done more harm to ourselves than good. Make a peace deal with your past. Before you go the bed, read the holy scriptures and be grateful inspite of all the troubles you have in your life. Stop cursing God for the problems you have instead, Pray for strength. Pray for peace. Pray for Love! Your soul is in desperate need of your love. Stop cursing yourself and treat your soul good. Your body, mind and soul are 3 pillars of your home. They are interconnected. Take care of them. Take care of your well-being.

I’m building everyday

You are building your life every day. You are working on your life every day as long as you are alive. If you are not sure where are you and what you need to do then, only one thing you need to know is to build yourself stronger everyday. Imagine you are building a house and you want your house not to get demolished by Earthquake then, you give utmost importance to the foundation of the house. You need to work the same way when it comes to your life. You didn’t get your life easily. Your ancestors sacrificed. Your parents have great hopes for you. There’s so much to do. I mean literally so much to do in your life starting from your finances to your health. By just slacking or making excuses don’t you think that, you are not doing anything better? You need to get your health right. You need to get your finances right. You need to get your relationship back on track. You need to revere God, seek truth and humble with your actions. You just can’t ignore the very fundamentals of your life by just munching bags of chips while playing video games. You need to build yourself stronger to inspire others. My only mission for this blogging website is to improve myself and to help others with my humble responsibilities. Young men and women are desperate to improve their lives. They are tired of those people who want them to play a victim role. Young people want to bring order back into their lives by doing something meaningful. The meaning of life is found in helping others to get better. Meaning of life is found in love when you shower your blessings on to others with No malevolence, no resentment and no hatred. You build yourself better when you bring back God in your life. Glorifying God, honouring your parents and helping others help you build a good life. Who doesn’t want to have a good life. Having a good life is not hard. It is simple. We just need to build our lives on values. It is as that simple. My final message to you in this blogpost is this- you have a better life. Your can even make it more better by just focusing on building values without expecting anything in return. Everyday! Build your life with love.

Convince yourself

I see a lot of dissatisfaction among people especially the young ones. They are not happy. They are depressed about their lives. They need so little encouragement from others to do something in their lives. It’s totally unbelievable. Most of the youngsters are very much convinced that, they live a shitty life. This is a huge problem the world is facing. There’s a Chinese proverb that says, “A journey of thousand miles starts with single step’’. The first step we all can do is to convince ourselves that, we have a great life. We can even make it more better if we stop doing the stupid things that are making out lives miserable. You probably have to sit down and really need to pen down all the things that you are doing on a daily basis that are making your life full of resentment. When you are looking for the change, you sometimes really need to dig deeper into darkness to look for the light. Sometimes, you really need to Convince Yourself that You have done the best in Your life. I don’t want you to have any regret in your life when you are peacefully waiting for the death. When you make a peace deal with yourself everyday, soon you will see miracles start taking place in your life. The more compassionate you feel towards others the more you will start loving your life and you will start appreciating the flaws of your life. The moment you stop making your life perfect, The moment you give importance to seeking truth, revering God from that moment onwards, you will start appreciating your life. The first step is always hard. It is always start with tough decision. The only decision I’m asking you to make is to convince yourself that, you have a good life and you can work towards to make it even more better only if you are willing to put some work in. Anything you do or say in your life requires work. Bad things requires work so is the good things. The rewards for the bad things are instant but the punishment is forever. The reward for being humble with your actions is eternal. The first thing you really need to do to yourself is to treat yourself better. Stop cursing at yourself. Discover a fountain of love within you! Convince yourself to be better!