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I hate to break you this but, men and women are not the same. They are not equal and can never be equal. If you are a radical leftist you might not like the blog post but have the courage to read the post hopefully by the end of this post, you would welcome new ideas and look the world with new perspective. Let me start by saying men and women are different. They are biologically different. They are physically, emotionally and mentally different. Women got xx set of chromosomes and men got XY set of chromosomes. Generally, men are physically more stronger than women. During the conversation men give more importance to reasons than emotions. I’m not saying that emotions are not important. They are. We must strive for emotional relationships with people who are associated with us. It doesn’t matter whether you are a man or a woman. Generally speaking men have hard time in forming good emotional relationships with others than women do. Since we have different personalities, men and women play a different role based on their personalities. A man’s role is to protect, provide and lead his family with his humble actions. Woman’s role is to be compassionate, caring, support her man’s goals and inspires him to achieve his potential. Woman’s role is to cherish her feminine qualities to bring love into the family. I don’t know but, in the west we have forgotten the roles of men and women. I’m in the full support of women’s freedom. They must be given the support emotionally and financially to make them aware about their role as a female. We are doing something else. The leftist politicians are creating an atmosphere where they are encouraging women to be more arrogant and compete with fellow men. We are encouraging radical feminism movement and trying to destroy young women lives by forcing them to hate men. That’s unacceptable. It’s shameful to see that, young people can’t tell the difference between a man and a woman. That’s a shame! A man can be physically strong but, women are mentally and emotionally stronger than men. We need to have stability in the world and without caring and compassionate women it’s impossible to do that. With young men they need to be responsible and instead of looking for just pleasure they need to find meaning. Meaning of life is found in taking care of their humble responsibilities, lift and inspire others. A woman brings stability in man’s life and a man brings meaning in woman’s world. A man brings reasons to a woman’s life whereas, a woman fills man’s life with emotions. A man protects his woman from physical threats and a woman brings compassion in his life. Man and woman complete one another. They complement

whatever took place yesterday, it just happened. I can’t change it and you can’t change it either. Humans are weird creatures cause, we have the ability to think. We are emotional creatures. Emotions/feelings impact us. Even though deep inside us, we know that, yesterday is gone. Nothing can be done about past, we still somehow and someway wanna to keep holding to our past. I know that, having complete control over the emotions are meaningless. If we just restrict our emotions, we are not really human beings anymore. Most of us don’t wanna to give up on past. Ask an Olympian how does it feel to lose in a race of 100 m. He would definitely say to you that, I wish if I had gone for a solid start. After working so hard for 4 years and still you can’t finish in top 3 is a pretty much heartbreaking for any athlete. As an athlete, you have to start again. You have to prepare for another 4 years and you still don’t know about the results. Your bad past breaks you into pieces. It puts so much burden onto your life that, sometimes, it’s just impossible to lift the pressure. I can’t even say to you that, stop thinking about the past. It’s practically impossible to come out of past. It’s impossible to come out of the wonderful memories that you made with your loved ones! When most of us see the things are not going right in our present, you just give up and start living in yesterday. It’s like an addiction that gives us some kind of pleasure for short period and then, suddenly we find ourselves in a hell of pain and suffering. I’m not saying that, you shouldn’t think about past. I’m not even saying to you that, don’t regret of your actions in past. I can’t stop you. Who am I to stop you? You are a human being. You got a freedom of choice. It’s your choice to stay in past or in present. We know the consequences of living too much in past. We deprive ourselves of our present opportunities and happiness. If in any way, I wanna to convince you then, I would like you to do one thing. Just one thing and only you can do it cause, you have a soul of free mind and that is, every time when your past makes call to you, you have to say- yesterday is gone. I just got present. Do not make your life unnecessarily hard. Just don’t do it! Yesterday is gone!

This world is a complex one but a beautiful one. In order to make sure that world keeps on functioning and stay beautiful we need competent and responsible people. We need people who believe in ethical and moral actions to bring good to the universe. In this blog post, we would try to understand about why we need competent & responsible people. We need to know that, who are competent people? Competent people are one who focus their energy into something productive and creative. A competent person is someone who turns his idea into actions and has solution oriented mindset. It’s so easy to write things like competence is the key to make sure that, world keeps afloat most of the time. The real test of competence comes when life gets real hard and when there’s darkness! In order to be a responsible person, you have to go through challenges. You have to go through temporary pain. Who knows that, you might have to face some failures to get better in your life but, that’s what life is all about. A competent person knows that, all he needs to be consistent with his actions and someday his efforts are gonna pay him great success. As I said earlier, this world is a complex world. It got a complex social hierarchy system. Everyone is the part of hierarchy system. This hierarchy system rewards those who have the ability to learn, unlearn and relearn the new ideas and turn those ideas into action. With competence, comes responsibilities and with responsibilities comes great power. No doubt, we had some people who exploited their power in the name of greed but, does it mean that we should not become competent? I would like to remind you that, the world had great leaders like Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King Jr. Mahatma Gandhi and Mother Teresa, who put their competence first and sacrificed themselves to bring good to the world. We need great leaders, politicians, civilians who have solution oriented mindset and improve lives of all of those around them. The world is in desperate need of competent men and women than ever before. It’s so sad to say that some leaders in the west are trying to put end of competence and bringing a system of equality and only God knows how much money they are spending in the name of equality. The world is in need of competence rather than equality. You need best universities, best hospitals, responsible civilians, competent doctors, lawyers, engineers. You name it! You can not turn ordinary people into great in the name of equality. Don’t get me wrong we need all the resources to make someone skilled but, most importantly we need learning mindset and sad to say that, everyone doesn’t have learning mindset. The world needs competent & Responsible people!

Human beings are social creatures. Don’t tell me that, life is short. Average life expectancy in the western world is little over 70 years and 7 decades is a long time on this living planet. Ever since, we are born on this planet, we are always dependent upon someone. An infant is dependent upon his parents. When the person grows little bit older and start having some senses, he starts depending on his family and friends. I don’t know about you but, one of the most useless advice we get from social media is that, become a person who doesn’t need to be dependent on someone. Honest to you, that’s the most rubbish advice you can ever get from someone. One thing you need to know there’s no shame when you need help of someone in your life. The basic purpose of having a family and friends is to get help when you are in a problem. You definitely need someone with you when you are going through tough times. It makes it easy. When I’m talking about friends what I’m trying to say that, you need to stay away from toxic people whose only purpose is to get high as hell on weekends. You definitely not need those friends who have trashy relationships with their families. They have to be at least some degree of responsible in their own lives. I know that, you don’t have the choice to decide your parents but, we are fortunate enough to decide who can be our friends. Why not to make good choices in that respect and instead of just looking for short term pleasure, why not we think for the long term when it comes to forming friendships. I’m not saying that, you need to go out and pick anyone out of the streets and make him your friend nor I’m saying that, you need to have hundreds of thousands of friends but have some decent friends who are competent and responsible enough to push you towards daily improvements in your life. You definitely don’t deserve to have friends whose only purpose is to bring senseless drama in your life. Don’t need drama man… You need friends not drama queens in your life.

Your mind and soul have freedom of choice. It’s a wonderful gift. It’s gift by the creator and we need to take care of it with all the courage and strength of our heart. Just like electricity gives light to the whole world, the same goes with your mind and souls. Your mind and soul generate positive energy and that’s what makes you keep going. It’s a different story when we poison our hearts with doubts, fears and greed but, the true nature of our souls is to remain free and connect it with the universe. Believe me or not but, our inner voice got the ultimate strength and the courage to fight evilness. You know why? Cause our souls are pure. Even if we do something bad or commit a crime we instantly regret or feel guilty about it after doing it even though if we try to hide the fact or the truth but, at the end truth always win. One thing you really need to take away from this blog post is that, you got a solution oriented mind. Even if you have thousands of problems but, if you decide and only you can decide to focus on solutions then, your mind works with free will and force your brain to think about solutions of a particular problem and soon you will start seeing some light. When your mind is desperate to find something it will find it. Our minds have the ability to go beyond the comprehension. Do not ever underestimate the power of will of your mind and soul. There’s a story of eunuch in the book named ‘Richest Man in the Babylon’ who fought with all his strength and courage walked in the desert for days without water to run away from his current life when he was almost about to give up he reminded himself that, he got a will of free mind and make every possible efforts to reach the nearest village to start a new life and pay his debts and go back to his home village. The story is worth reading. When I feel low sometimes I go back to read the story. Our minds can’t think clearly when we are in aggression. I’m not saying that, you need to control your aggression but, we need to channelize our temper by connecting with higher power. We can do that, if we focus our mind on the spiritual needs and be grateful before we go to bed. So, it’s in our hand how we make our mind and soul more courageous When you are faced with adversity remember you got free will and you need to strengthen your will with courage and faith in the universe!

Aggression is such a powerful emotion that’s so hard to express in words. We all have our days when we don’t feel the best. There are some days when we just toss things up in the air, smash things against the wall, cursing goes all day long and thoughts like killing someone come across our mindset. Trust me I have gone through all of this. We all hear about, we need to control our aggression and I l would like to say you that, you don’t need to control your temper! I would like you think how many times your loved ones have told you that, your behaviour is like crazy shit and you need to control it. Take a minute and get back to me. Done thinking? Let me guess the number. It’s countless times when people around you ask you to control your aggression. Let me say that, it’s one of the most bullshit advice you can get from others. Guess what? We listen and for some days we control our aggression and then what? Same blast. No change. We feel shit about ourselves. Is there a better way? The better way to deal with aggression is not by controlling it but, channelizing it. When you try to control something you are basically trying to suppress it. It might give you some positive results for short period but then what? A repressed thing will come harder at you with great force by breaking all the barriers that you formed sometime ago. Any repressed aggression will shake you like an earthquake. It will ruin you like tsunami. It will shatter you into pieces like tornado. Nobody likes when our temper has full control over us. Our temper is like a fire inside us that keeps us going. It’s like an energy to make us doing things in our daily routine. Now imagine if someone asks you to put water and stop that fire that is keeping you going. If you are a wise person you would say no. The only thing you can do is giving a new direction to your aggression. It is to channel it into something productive, something creative. I know that, it so easy to say than do because when you are angry you just don’t realize yourself and lose all your control. You say the things that you don’t wanna to say. You do the things that you don’t wanna to do. When you are done with your aggression you feel ashamed about it. You feel guilty about it. Come on we can all be better than that. What I would like you to do whenever you feel like you are frustrated, you need to realize it. You need to become aware of it. You need to be conscious about the fire that is burning inside you. The moment you realize it, the moment you become aware of your aggression you will find peace. When I say we need to channelize our aggression what I’m trying to say is that instead of focusing on external factors why don’t we let the energy to flow inside instead of making it flow outside? We can use aggression to know ourselves better. We can use it to become more aware about our bodies. We can use it to become more intellectual and spiritual. We have the ability to connect this wonderful energy to the universe (soul) . The universe is not outside but it’s inside us. You might not be hundred percent successful in giving a positive direction to your temper but, you can try. There’s nothing wrong in trying. One thing is sure you will know yourself better.

I know that, we are living in a skeptical world. Doubts play a major role in our lives now. It’s hard to decide anything without having any kinds of doubts in the mind we aren’t just skeptical about things but, we are skeptical about even those from whom we get most of the help. We are having doubts about our family. We are suspicious about the ways they help us in any form/manner. The basic thing is that, we have lost the solid foundation of trust. There might be many reasons why we have stopped trusting our families like deceiving, lack of communication and our egos. One of the reason we don’t often talk about is this, we don’t trust ourselves so how we are supposed to have faith on others? When we don’t trust ourselves, when we don’t put the faith into action then it’s easy for mind to go and fill itself with doubts and more doubts. Instead of blaming others all the times why don’t we put our first step and start building honest relationships with ourselves? When I say we need to be true to ourselves, it means we don’t need to hide or cover up our flaws. Instead of hiding our vulnerabilities, first thing we all need to do is to accept ourselves just the way we are. We need to write down our flaws and seek help from our loved ones. For instance, someone might be having problems with his finances, some one might be having health related problems. First thing we all need to do is to establish honest relationships with ourselves. We don’t need to hide our flaws behind the curtains even though people judge us. 2nd thing we need to do is to work little bit better each day. We definitely need to have consistency. With consistent good actions, we can start trusting ourselves again. When we have a fountain of trust flowing within our hearts, we start caring about our loved ones and start shunning toxic people in our lives. We need to follow 2 simple steps Do not hide your flaws. Accept them. Improve yourself with consistency. When we follow the above steps, we regain our true selves. I know that, we would fail many times but, we just need to try and at the end, we will find peace within ourselves. our loved ones  genuine care about us. They don’t wanna to see us fail. They are immensely happy when we share happy news with them and they offer solutions when we are in a problem. Everyone thinks that US dollar is the currency of the world but, it is the trust. It’s the trust that helps you to build network of people who can support your life goals. We need to focus back on the foundation of life again. In order to have relationship with anyone, we need to give importance to trust first instead of meaningless sex. The bottom line of this blog post is this- your loved ones (family) care about you. They don’t wanna to see you  failing  in your life. They are doing their best to bring stability in your life. Be grateful to them. Love them with all the strength and courage of your soul. They deserve the best. Go get a life with your loved ones! Your loved ones (family) care for you

Actions have tremendous force behind them. Someone rightly said that, actions speak louder than the words. Words have no importance of its own. Action is where all the drama of a life takes place. Your actions not only impacts you but, all of those who are closely associated with you. If you think that, there are billions of people on the planet Earth and how my actions gonna impact others? I’m sorry to break to you this- in today’s world, information travels faster than the light. Anything you say or do would have short term and long term consequences. It’s hard to evaluate the influence of your actions on your loved ones. I don’t think so you can measure its impact on a given a scale. Toxic actions not only ruin your life but, also your loved ones too. I believe that, you might recover the money by going for a new business venture but, going through emotional setback is sometimes very hard to recover from maybe, that’s why, any bad deed makes you wonder should I trust someone anymore? Everyone has done bad things in their lives and we will continue to make some bad choices and our choices will have some affect on others. Here’s a big deal when we engage in actions we need to be more self aware about its results. We might not be able to accurately predict the future of our current actions but, sure enough if we think and become conscious of our own actions we might be able to connect the dots of our present with future. Most of us engage in actions blindly cause, we don’t think what we are doing? We are simply performing an act like a machine is producing something. We are better than machines. We got brain. We have the ability to think deep so, why not just sit back and care about our loved ones for all the actions we are taking in our lives. We all are aware about what our bad actions could bring to the world. We don’t wanna to repeat the same past. We can learn from the history and become truly grateful for each other and for what we have. History is a good example. Let’s make this world a better place with your moral and ethical actions.

With your eyes fixed at your work, I don’t believe so, there’s anything in the world would stop you. With your mind and brain working together, you will always find peace and prosperity. In this blog post, let’s find out the real meaning why we need to focus at our work? When I talk about work, I don’t really mean 9-5 regular job. What I truly meant by work is how we deal with responsibilities/duties to improve our lives. Life has so much to offer. It has so much of potential. We just need to dig deeper in ourselves to find out the fountain of water flowing within ourselves. We need to work consistently on that. The greatest work we all can manage to is to shun our toxic habits for better future. Our future is connected with our present. More importantly, our tomorrow is deeply impacted by what actions or work we undertake in present. If we find problems in connecting the dots of our future to present then, sure we are doing something wrong. We must not be disciplined enough to take care of our humble responsibilities. It’s not an easy thing to say but, reflecting truth in writing is one of the most difficult thing to do. In life, everything will not be perfectly fine. There are some days where you need to make little bit extra efforts to bring back order into your life. I think maybe, that’s why we were created by God to provide some meaning and embrace imperfections in life. When I say, your eyes need to be fixed at job, I don’t mean that, you need to be serious in your life. Life is not a serious business but a creative business. You need to be creative to find joy in your life rather than seeking pleasure. Joy can be found in spending time with your family and friends who actually push you towards excellence. Joy can be found when you genuinely make efforts to do well in your life and your actions bring positive results in someone’s else life too! There’s a lot of work needed to be done and I hope that, you will work on that work to find joy, prosperity and peace!