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Everything you do or you have done in your life has its own beauty. It’s not just about good works of your past and your present but, also the mistakes you made in your life. Every inch of your life span defines beauty. We just need to realize and open our eyes to appreciate our lives. One thing is for sure, good times are beautiful but, what about dark times? They are part of our lives too. It’s our job to convert bad times into good times. It’s our job to convert sadness into meaning and happiness. Any sensible man on this planet knows that, there’s a lot to learn from the mistakes. When you genuinely realize that, toxic habits that are gripping you and destroying the potential of your life and you suddenly become aware about it. You decide that, enough is enough and I have decided to the best of my ability to surrender myself to the universe and keep my head down, work for right things in my life and pretty soon, you will understand that, your life is beautiful. Everything defines beauty when you start believing that, all you can make efforts to do right and humble things in your life and leave everything on the universe. Believe me or not, the universe works in a miraculous manners to deliver you the results but, it will only work in your favour if you connect everything to the universe. The end truth is this- good attracts good and bad attracts bad. Even though your life is not 100% align with your dreams, that’s fine. I would like you to still believe in the universe. I would like you to believe in the idea of everything is happening to you is beautiful even the evil things have tremendous power to teach us life lessons. You are a wonderful source of energy not only just limited to yourself but to the others associated with you. You have the potential to make beautiful things happen to you so, dig deeper in your innermost self and make it happen!

Why should I worry about my future if I got only today to see? Why should I be worried about my past when I know that, I  can’t change it by any ways? I git only present to live. All I just need strength for today. We only get anxiety and depression when we over stress about future. Human beings are above other animals because, we have the ability to think advance. We have the capability to build future even though the future is highly uncertain. I’m in not any position to say to you that, don’t think about future. It’s just practically impossible to do it. What we can do instead of worrying too about the future is to ask for the strength and courage for today! Most of us living in the future. We got no harmony with our present circumstances. It’s an endless game of illusion. For most of us present seems so tough that, it’s almost hard to find any interest in it and when present seems in shambles what else we got? Probably thinking too much about future. When things don’t go right, we don’t wanna to have any more troubles….we seek comfort in everything from food to our work life. There’s only expectations in future. In order to meet those expectations, we need to make efforts in present, in order to make efforts in present we need to live in present. We just can’t forsake our present for future. In order to make best efforts for better tomorrow we need to take our present seriously and ask for strength from the universe otherwise, we are doing no justice to ourselves… We need to surrender our worries to the universe and I’m sure that, somehow and someway, the nature is going to find out the ways to bring peace, joy and happiness in our lives. If we keep holding the things and keep having wild expectations about tomorrow without asking for strength and courage in present then, I’m sure we are just wasting our lives. I would say to you that, even when you see the present seems in darkness, you still ask for courage and strength for today and keep doing it and keep making efforts genuinely and make progress in life! There’s no future without present so, pray for strength!

You might need a doctor, if you suffer physical injuries but, there’s no better healer than time for mental and emotional stress. With time everything heals. Sometimes time just asks you to have aggression patience. Not many people have patience. We give in some times but time never gives up! It never stops. Its flow is constant. If you look back at your past, some of us made poor choices. We had made some bad decisions and with bad decisions, we are still facing the consequences. Some of us hate our lives because, we did some horrible deeds. With persistent flow of time, we are still punishing ourselves. We got 2 choices in our lives. Number one, we still continue to punish ourselves with every flow of time. 2nd option we have- to accept our past the way it is and with time allow ourselves to heal naturally. The first option is an easy way out to escape the life. The 2nd option is a hard one cause, you accept that, life is not fair. The only way we can make our lives meaningful if we allow the time to use its magic of healing. Healing takes time so does everything. We have to accept that, we are not powerful than time. We can’t sop it from running. Time has seen everything from bloodiest wars in the history to the unbelievable miracles in the past but, it stills never stops. It doesn’t take the side of good or bad. It always stays neutral witnessing all the events of the world. We have to accept that, we are not wiser than time. We don’t have aggressive patience like time does. One thing we can all take is that, even though life gets hard, we can still decide to keep going and keep growing just like time. So, the best thing we can all do is to leave everything on time. Let the time decide our fate. It’s time to find peace with time instead of punishing ourselves. With time everything heals!

We are humans. We have emotions and we got feelings about bunch of things and people. We are never going to eliminate feelings/emotions out of our lives. It’s just not possible. Sadly, what we are doing now is to erode the essence of truth from our lives and frankly feelings are overpowering the truth and it’s happening everywhere especially at much faster pace in the west! We are witnessing the consequences of this. We are running away from the fundamentals of life like, instead of seeking truth we are hiding it. For instance, life gets hard and sometimes unbelievably terrible for others. Instead of justifying the existence on the planet and face the reality we hide the things under the carpet and often times we hide the truth in different layers of lies and feelings. Feelings are crucial and that’s why they help us to understand the pain and suffering of life but, giving control to the feelings is the worst thing we are doing and it’s foolish thing we are doing to our kids in school. The job of everyone in a kid’s life is to help him to build, create and work on betterment for the future. Sadly, we are doing the opposite in schools and colleges. Sometimes, a teenage boy can be overwhelmed with the feminine characteristics but, it doesn’t mean that he has to change his gender and turn into a female. If we have the feelings about certain things especially the gender then, it’s just our feelings but, not our reality. It’s not the truth. If someones says to a young boy that, you should listen to your feelings and if your feelings say to you that, you just displayed some feminine traits in your personality couple of hours ago so, now you should act like a girl. Talk like a girl. Behave and dress up like a girl but. That’s not the truth. The truth is this- a man is a man and a woman is a woman. Every fibre of the body of a guy represents masculine traits. Masculine characteristics are deeply embedded in his DNA. The same thing is with the body of a woman too. Every fibre of the body of a woman represents her feminine qualities. Her feminine features overwhelm her masculine traits but, she still has some masculine traits too, hidden beneath her famine characteristics. we shouldn’t over look the truth that, a man can never be a woman and a woman can never be a man. Both are not equal. Both complement each other. I will say to you that, more importance is given to the truth and yes facing truth is hard sometimes but, it will set you free in long run Truth doesn’t care about your feelings

                  I am a slow walker but I never walk backwards Abraham Lincoln Everything is changing with time. Everything is changing with technology but, one thing will never change is the principles of slow progress! The most important thing in life is to move forward consistently with humble actions and keep improving the lives of others. I believe that, our attention span has reduced considerably. Most of us are looking for instant gratification. Anxiety levels and depression are all times high, thanks to unnecessary covid restrictions. The idea of making slow progress is losing its grip. We need to ask ourselves that, where have we gone wrong and how can we come out of the mess? I don’t know about you but, I like the idea of making slow progress at least, my struggle will remind me to be humble with others when the time is tough. 2 years ago, I didn’t like the idea of writing. I didn’t care about reading and forget about working out even for 15 minutes. Now I look back I can say that, I made the right decision in my life and I don’t focus on the results. I rather focus on the consistent efforts with the intention of making slow but, a genuine progress! I would like you to to do one thing- instead of fighting with your toxic habits why can’t we accept it and surrender ourselves in order to make a peace deal? You would have to spend less energy and less efforts to make a progress. Do it for a week. Just accept that, you have flaws and you have made some bad choices and accept it without adding any ‘if’ or ‘but’. Believe me if you do this, results will be astonishing and you will be making so much of progress and in-fact you will be obsessed with the idea of making progress. Slow progress demands sacrifices in present. People who are afraid of making sacrifices in present will suffer in future. Slow progress is asking you to make consistent humble actions to improve your life and inspire others as well. It requires aggressive patience and grace of God Start believing in slow progress

What makes one successful? I don’t know how many times I encounter this question and if you are looking for a perfect answer, I don’t have any but, definitely it’s not talent. Talent can only make you so far on its own. There should be something magical thing that helps you to become successful. If you are thinking about luck is what makes you successful then, I would say to you that, you can be lucky once or twice but, getting lucky all the times without consistent good actions make no sense. So, instead of chasing your luck, why not make persistent good efforts in-spite of the fact that, life is not fair all the times and it’s full of challenges and to embrace those challenges with courage, you have higher chances of becoming successful. When I talk about success, it’s not only financially but an overall improvement in life in terms of physical, mental, spiritual and emotional needs of the person. If someone says that, money doesn’t make sense to become a successful then, it’s all wrong. You just don’t wanna to live from paycheck to paycheck and always fearing that, you are going to lose the roof over your head some day. The same thing is with the physical, emotional and spiritual needs of the body. You just can’t focus only on the finances and come to the conclusion that, since, you are not living from paycheck to paycheck you are successful. You need to address the needs of your life. For good mental health we can spend time with books. We can spend time with mentors. We can listen to the psychological podcasts. For emotional needs we can spend time with our loved ones and be humble in our actions to our neighbours. For spiritual needs of the soul, we can read the scriptures before we go to bed. Pray to God for everything. Be grateful to our loved ones. There’s so much we can do to bring healthy success in our lives and help others to be the same. Even if the day is going bad, we just have to be consistent in fulfilling the overall needs of the life to make tremendous improvements. In chasing success we will encounter many failures. It’s fine but for God’s sake grab the courage to get up and be consistent in your efforts to find meaning and happiness. So, the success is not the absence of failure, but the absence of giving up.

Once you found yourself in darkness, it scares you. It makes you furious and your eyes are desperate to see light once again. You are desperate about hope and courage. For some people is the end of their lives but, for others, it’s a matter of stepping up and bring meaning once again in their lives. When I say what’s next, it means when we mess up with our lives, instead of playing the game of blaming we need to think that, if I continue with the negative behaviour in present, it might affect my future in a drastic way. So, we have choices to make. Some tough choices to make like what’s next? Should I continue with my negative attitude or should I make some core changes and if I stick to some good changes, I might do well in my life and have some sort of satisfaction. No one is perfect. Everyone got their flaws. If you hurt someone in your life and you genuinely realized that, I messed up then, your inner voice will compel you to improve your mistake. You can genuinely try and make peace deal with your loved ones. You can do your best to resolve the issues but, don’t be nihilistic when you are taking care of the chaos of your life. Sometimes you have to leave things on time and with time wounds heal. All you can just try with good intentions and leave everything on the universe. When things are not going according to the plan, instead of thinking negative in terms of what’s going to happen? We need to stay positive. I know that, when an adversity takes place, it’s impossible to think positive at that time. I get it but, being just negative the whole process is also not doing any good. Probably it’s providing more damage to your inner voice than you can possibly think of. Negative things do come in my mind and I’m sure it comes in your mind too but, turning negativity into positivity is a big challenge for everyone. As long as we believe in fundamentals of life like seeking truth, revering God and humble in our actions we can turn any problem into some meaning. So, I wanna to ask you this- if you are in a problem, if you think that your life is a hell and there’s nothing else then, I would like you to look around you. Look up into the sky and pray with all the strength and courage of your soul. Pray for good. When you are not in doubts only one thing happens and that is the ‘next phase’ of your life just gets better. So, what’s next? Meaning or suffering. I hope that, you go for meaning. Humbleness or evilness? I hope you go for  humbleness. Truth or lies? i want you to seek truth. What’s next? Make your choice!

I need you more than any one else in my life. I need you God. My faith in you is just getting stronger and stronger. My faith in you is getting better and better. I’m grateful for everything you have done in my life. I am writing this blog post more for me than for anyone else. I don’t know about you but, when things don’t go right I just go to my desk and pick up the Bible and start reading it. I can only tell you this ever since, I have gone back to God, I have shown more trust on people. I have made more genuine connections with people. I’m sure that, It wasn’t that easy but, when I look at back I can say to you without hesitation, the more I trust God, the more beautiful things happen to me in my life. I know that, life is tricky. It is difficult but, the more I explore you in me, the more life is becoming meaningful to me. You played a role in my birth. You sent me on this planet to justify my existence. I’m forever grateful to you. I know that, I’m not perfect. I did mistakes in my life. Some of them were big and some were small. I am also not sure about my future so, I leave everything on you. I will do my actions only and I leave the results upon you. Whatever verdict you give me, I will accept it with Grace. Help me God to face my life. Help me to follow the path of righteousness. Help me to keep having faith in you in-spite of the fact that, life is not always fair. I know that, God you don’t want me to be weak or nihilistic. I also know that, you want me to face up the problems and take care of the humble responsibilities of my life. With all the strength and courage of my soul and heart, I will continue to worship you and I surrender myself to you completely. So, help me God!

Control, control and control the more we try to manage something, the more it runs away. The more we desire about things, the more desperate we become. There’s no doubt that, people who got most of the power/authority have sleepless nights. In this blog post, we need to understand that, there’s some mysterious force above us that is in charge of our lives. By saying that, not everything is in our control doesn’t mean that, chaos will overwhelm our lives. For instance, if someone is having toxic habits of drinking and smoking, it doesn’t mean that, he can’t control it. Over and over again, I have said that, we got freedom of choice. We are humans and we are above animals cause, we have the ability to create and build. We have ability to think about future. If you choose for bad things, guess what? Your life becomes more and more toxic. Maybe, we are free to make decisions and some decisions we make them under pressure but, we have the authority to make those decisions but, after making the decisions, it generally doesn’t mean that, results will be on our side all the times. No! Everything is not in our control is not just a statement. If you dive deeper into the phrase, it’s basically saying that actions and rewards do not always go hand in hand. It doesn’t mean that, our actions/ efforts are meaningless and we just sit on our butt and do nothing. What’s the profound message? We have control over actions but, there are natural laws above us and results are not in our hands all the times. Does it mean that, if we do something good and good things will happen and if good things don’t happen we can blame God or the universe for making our lives tragic hell? Sure, you can do that. You are free to make your choices. Things happen. Accidents take place. We loose our loved ones. People commit crimes. Bad things happen to good people. It doesn’t mean that, we should start promoting evilness in our lives. Your inner voice (your soul) won’t let it happen to you. That’s why, when we do something bad we regret ourselves and feel guilty about it even though we try to hide it under different layers. What we can really take from the statement is that, we control our actions but, we don’t control the outcomes. Nature does/ the universe does. Whatever the nature decides, I will accept the fate with grace! I would work like everything is dependent on me but, I would pray like everything dependent on God! All I can ask for the courage and strength to accept His verdict!

Strength and courage are not words. They define hope and faith. No matter how hard is the life, do not wish for ‘I don’t wanna to face any more problems’ pray for more strength & courage. In this blog post, we need to get deeper into the meaning of strength and courage. When we talk to the God, we often wish more rather than praying. It’s completely naive to think that, life is not full of challenges. There are challenges but, guess what? Human beings got special powers. We got ability to think. We can find solutions of the problems. Problems don’t disappear overnight. It requires a lot of efforts. When we pray to God and ask Him that, we don’t want to face any challenges. I believe that, it’s just a wishful thinking. God has no control over problems. God got no control over illness either. He doesn’t want people to be evil. He wants us to face problems with courage and strength. If you look at the history, the world has always faced problems. We witnessed countless numbers of wars and natural calamities. If you think that, natural calamities, wars and crimes are going to stop magically then, good luck with that! Although crimes against humanity have come down significantly and most of the people do care about each other. The world has more good people than the bad ones. The reason we focus on the bad stuff cause, our brains are wired in such a way that, it wanna to make sure no physical harm to go unseen. As I said there are some bad deeds in the world so, should we just stop praying and become part of evilness? No that’s not the solution. If there’s illness we got doctors. If there’s violence then sure, we got some really good cops working day and night. If there’s violation of rights of civilians then sure, we got justice( it takes time though). We got solutions of all most every problem on this living planet. I would also like to say that, God has given us freedom of choice. We are free to make decisions. We are free to bring either happiness or sadness. We are free to improve the lives of others and we have the choice of how much evil we can bring into lives of others. We are free to curse our lives or Cherish our lives even though life is not perfect. I didn’t make these rules. Nature does! So, when you are faced with darkness. I would like you to go back to your source and pray to God for more strength and courage.