You have to put your house in order before criticizing the whole world. The sooner you realize that, the better it will be for you!
If your own house is a mess, then instead of blaming others, you have to take responsibility and start cleaning up the mess. I know it’s going to be hard, but you have to do the hard stuff now because you are the one who has made your life hard. Your inability to make decisions has led you to this situation. Even if you keep blaming others, you are not going to get far. It’s just a waste of time and energy. Whatever energy you give to others, the same kind of energy you will get in return.
In order to put your house in order, you need extraordinary courage. You need to understand that you are the only one responsible for your inner peace. You can’t just expect people to make you happy. Sure, if you have true loved ones, they will help ease your stress, but they can only help so much. At the end of the day, it’s your decision whether you want to live your life or just sit around doing nothing about it.
You need to work with awareness and a deep level of understanding. You already know very well that clinging to misery is like clinging to a dead body. Most of us are used to living with our miserable lives. Most of us complain all day, then go to bed and repeat the same thing over and over. Some people like to live in misery because that’s all they have in their lives; if you take their miseries away, they won’t be left with any reason to live. You can’t help those people. So, instead of focusing on the world, you need to move inward. Open your inner eyes. Let them live in hell. Care about only one thing, and that is your life.
So, talk to your life. Make a commitment to your life. Serve your life to the fullest.
Put your house in order!
