Have you ever felt that whenever you are having fear, you just want to do nothing? You just want to stay in your room. You just simply shrink. Some kind of negativity tries to take over you. If you have gone through this kind of feeling, that is what the definition of fear is.
We have been taught since childhood to be brave. Become fearless. We teach our kids that if you show signs of fear, then the other person is going to dominate you. You will lose your battleship with life. People will call you a coward. When we listen to all of this crap over and over again, we start repressing our fear. But repression has never helped. It has only made things worse.
I think I have talked about this in my other blog about how to deal with fear. You have to accept the fear. You don’t have to falsely say things to yourself like “I don’t fear anything” — that’s a wrong approach. You need to accept the fear with some grace and love. With that grace, no matter how trembling you feel, you just have to pass through the fear. You don’t have to escape it. You have to go through your fears.
Have you ever noticed that whenever you are full of love, full of positivity, you feel different about yourself? The only way to kill darkness is to burn some light. Darkness will go away. You can’t do anything with darkness on its own. How can you fight something that’s not real? You will just be exhausted.
If you fear something, it means you’ve got a love problem. It means you are lacking love. To become really fearless, you need to be loving and excited about your life. Your life has so much to offer you.
A lot of people are losing to fear only because they are fighting the wrong thing. You need to accept your fear. Expand your loving and kind self. Once you do that, you will see tremendous growth and results.
Love is the solution. Light is the solution. Kindness is the solution.