Author: sekhrikush11

This is a broken world. This world is full of problems. There are billions of people who are hustling to make their ends meet. This world is restless and facing a deep problem of depression and resentment. Why we are facing such a huge problem of depression? To understand the challenge, we need to know that, this world is full of people and most of them aimlessly going somewhere and they have no idea with their lives. When you have huge portion of population not aware about the fact that, why they are here for? How they can justify their existence? Guess what? Problems start to take place. Instead of searching for the answers and making a strong connection with the inner-self, we tend to seek for cheap solutions. We get distracted by binge drinking, eating and watching. I have observed one thing especially in North American culture that, our society, governments, mainstream media and big corporations (mostly social media) do not want people to become strong and have rational thinking. Our attention span has reduced considerably because we are spending too much time online. We are talking more and more about rights and freedom than responsibilities to find meaning in life. Relying too much on cheap dopamine and try to appear cool as much as possible to make impression on others even though it’s not helping us at any level. The main stream media has become the battle ground between the left wing and the right wing. We are busy in watching the senseless political debates at night time even though, we know the fact that, it is doing us any good. My observation is also about how weak man with no purpose are making this world a terrible place. Relying on video games, binge watching of anime, Netflix and explicit content online are devastating the lives of our youth. The sad part is that, they are completely blind about it. The systematic destruction of society takes place in 3 ways: 1.when we remove the presence of creator from our lives. 2.When cheap dopamine dominate us completely. 3.When we allow big corporations influence us about, what we should think and how we should act! I will say to you a million times depression is not real. This is all fabricated by our society. When you have no passion, no set routine then, why would you bother to wake up from your stupid bed? When our youth have nothing to focus on then, why wouldn’t they spend too much time playing video games? The ultimate cure to come out of vicious cycle of pain and suffering is by picking up some humble responsibilities and work towards them diligently.Essence of life When you understand this, I assure you that, you will be unstoppable. No need to take any sleeping pills. No need to complain and whim. You will be invincible….

There are like hundreds of thousands of videos can be found on you tube. We can listen to as many as podcasts about inspiration on the internet but, we need to ask this- does it all make any sense to us? We need to ask, even after watching a very energetic motivational video on the internet, we might charge up ourselves for an hour or let’s say for a day and then what? Same boring daily routine… no energy. Instant gratification every time. Depending on cheap dopamine every day. Complaining and whining. It just goes on and on… in this blog post let’s create consistent disciplined daily routine. How to create a consistent daily routine? Take a pen and a paper and draw a line in the centre. Name first column- “things that make me productive” Name second column- things that make me unproductive write down honestly whatever comes to your mind. I think 3 biggest energy draining activities that we do daily are- 1. Aimlessly scrolling down on our social media accounts. 2. Watching videos online. 3 playing video games all day long. Once you figure out the unproductive things that you are doing, you could save up to 2-3 hours daily but, it takes courage to make a decision. Always take baby steps to include new productive habits like reading, writing, exercising and travelling in your life. Consistently increase the presence of good habits every day in your life by getting rid of bad habits steadily. Start prioritizing your day to have fun at the end of the daySet priorities to thrive in the world! I make sure that before showing up at work, I go for reading, physical exercise and writing my blogs. If you ask me how does it feel to you? It’s awesome. If I don’t do the things that are good for constructive thinkingConstructive Thinking then, I think I am missing out something. Always put constructive habits on the top of your list because, personal development reflects positive changes at work place. If you think that, you are spending too much time social media, have the courage to turn your phone off and go out of your room and walk in your house until you feel good. Motivation can make you feel like unstoppable for a day or may be for 2 days but, consistent daily routine shapes you best for your future. It brings out high values and the people can smell those high values when they interact with you. Be consistent and be unstoppable!  

it is that simple, put God first in every situation you face in this world. This blog post is very special to me cause, it’s about the Creator who created us. Some of you might say that, if God created us and if He wanted good for all of us then, why there is so much of chaos in our lives Why there is so much of malevolence & nihilism in life? Why? It was hard for me to find the answers. I had sleepless nights. I thought a lot about the suffering that we are facing because of the way we think and carry out our acts. Finally one day, I was listening to the podcast of Dr. Jordan B. Peterson. He was talking about the problems of the world. One thing simply went straight to my head and my mind and it goes like this and I quote his words “May be God just allowed the possibility of bad things in this world so that, we appreciate good things in our lives”. To me, it just opened my eyes and I said that’s it! That’s what I was looking for. I thought a lot about the statement made by him.  I realized that, everyone of us have some kind of purpose. Maybe that’s why we are put together in this world by the creator to justify our existence to make a life worth living and glorify His name! Some of you might have hundreds of reasons not to put your faith in God and the biggest reason why some people don’t have faith on Him because, they lost their loved ones. They are now  living in vicious cycle of pain and suffering! Look, you might be having valid reason to show your hatred but, is it really helping you? Go & and ask your inner self. Even those ones that you lost in your lives, if they watch you from the heaven just, think about them how would they feel if you are not taking responsibilities in your life to find meaning. If not for the God but, just put your life together for all those people that you care about. Ever since, we have removed presence of God from our lives, we have become mentally, spiritually and morally damn weak.Essence of life We have lost our fundamental values in our lives and we only care about something as long as we are getting likes on our social media. It’s not surprise to me that, kids have stopped praying before they go to sleep. I don’t understand that how stupid is that, we are justifying it in the name of freedom of choice. If this freedom is causing me loss of peace and keeping me away from my God then, take this freedom of choice away from me. The best thing that we can do to our kids is to cultivate the power of praying to God. we can teach to our kids to be grateful.  Above all to put God first in every situation!

I don’t want to scare you off but, life is hard for all of us and it’s way more harder for all of those who refuse to take responsibilities in their lives. It’s merely impossible to escape from tough times. In this blog post, my main motive is to help you, how we can embrace tough times! All of us who are serving on this planet have purpose. The purpose is to take as many as responsibilities to alleviate pain and suffering and bear the cost associated with it. The best way to realize this, is to recognize your inner voice. Any kind of challenge takes in your life whether it’s related to health, relationship and finances, no matter what, always take a constructive action instead of complaining and whining. People who got values are always capable of turning worse things into opportunities. Stocks going down… no problem, hang in there. Looking for a job… no worries, hang in there. Relationship issues… no problem, just hang in there and look for solutions. Always look for positive solutions that will provide peace of mind to you and to all those who are around you. One quick way to turn adversity into opportunity is to write down your problems one by one on a paper in a clear crystal manner and toss up some solutions besides each problem. You don’t have to think hard for a solution, just write the first thing comes to your mind. It might be hard for you to do it but, grab the courage somehow, someway to work more on solutions than on your problems. All tough people have one thing in common: they become mentally tough when the weather of their lives is rough. I remember one thing about my dad and he used to say that, when 2 brains work together in peace and harmony, they always find solutions. Why we need to embrace difficult times? Tough times define us. There is no life without pain and suffering. People who run away from difficult situations always pay price down to the road. It’s not like that, when you have a problem and having a right mind set you will win all the times. The simple answer to this is NO. You try… you fail…. You gain new insight and try again with more efforts until you win. Great people are ready to take as many as responsibilities on their shoulders.The gateway to the ultimate Freedom is through Hell! They are busy in all those things that keeps them in shape and helps in their physical, mental, emotional and spiritual growth. At the end, I just would like to say that, make sacrifices in your present for your better tomorrow. Stay away from all kind 9f drama that is not good for you. The decision is yours!

Asking is tough. It is very hard. The one reason that comes to my mind is  of availability of too much of information in this world. we assume that everybody knows about everything. In this blog I will do my best to show that, why asking is crucial and how it could shape us for better. So, let’s get started Great individuals are crazy people. They think abnormal and act abnormal. When it comes to rules, they do follow the rules but, they are masters of finding legal ways to break the rules and achieve something meaningful. They become great builders, creators to keep this world  moving forward. It’s hard to question the status quo because, the fundamental belief is that, we are so used to follow the old systems. The genes to blindly follow  the society get passed from one generation to another until, a great individual steps up and challenges the old broken system to make it better for millions. Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and you shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you ( Matthew 7:7) even though I am not a christian but, I deeply believe in this verse from the Bible. I give you my personal example: I didn’t wanna to study at my home town. I don’t know from where the idea of Canada came to my mind and I asked my mom and dad that, I just wanted to go to Canada. It did take a lot of persuasion and a lot of hard-work, Unimaginable efforts of my Mom and Dad and Grace of God that made it happen. Even for my permanent residency I asked God to bless me with the strength and the courage to have my permanent status in Canada. Guess what… Everything I desired and asked for became reality. Most of us don’t know how to ask and we ask for those things that we don’t need. Most of us stay confuse and not precise when it comes to asking. For instance, instead of asking for I don’t wanna to gain weight, we should go for “I am looking for my ideal body size”. Ask for all those things that would help you to build and create something meaningful. You look at the world around you… from where did Apple, Google and Amazon started. They all got started from the ideas  that were born in garages and the individuals who started them had a fundamental belief in modern technology by asking their inner selves how could they change this world for good. We should constantly ask ourselves what I am here good for? How can I justify my existence on this planet? When you ask… your mind will start searching for the answers but it takes time and let nature do it’s job. Do ask questions to make things good not worse. Ask for meaningful relationships,  overall health.Build create and add value to this world I do believe that, people who have courage to ask are very dangerous people and they have hunger and passion in their eyes to do a lots of crazy good things.

 You read it right. There could be hundreds of ways to attract happiness but, I will always go for thinking good. Thinking positive. In this blog post we will try to understand about, why it is crucial for all of us to think good and attract happiness! Have you ever heard about the law of attraction? If not, no worries! It’s all good. In simple language it means that, whatever you think.. you attract the same. The Law of attraction is an invisible force that impacts each one of us regardless of our status in the society. In reality, we tend to focus more and more on our problems. We focus too much on things like fear, anxiety and resentment. Guess what, when our main focus is on the negative side, negative things start to take place. I do understand the point that, our main purpose of life is to survive and it’s critical to think about what actions we should take if, we encounter any dangerous situation. Now here is the problem – when we just think 24/7 about the problems and make ourselves busy in making contingency plans all the time, we make no progress. The key to have a prosperous and joyful life is to think more about positivity,Constructive Thinking happiness and love than crying out loud with complains and bitterness. You might have thousands of reasons to show your resentment and laziness towards your life but, for heaven’s sake find one damn stupid reason to build your life together. The first step towards prosperity is to have friendship with law of attraction. The best thing that you can do is to feed your soul with positive thoughts. Learn the game of law of attraction. I gave you my personal example of permanent Residency of Canada – made a tough decision of moving from Ontario to Nova Scotia got the job but, did not like the atmosphere there. I had to leave the job, found another job… almost hopeless but, every night before I used to go to the bed, I would write down my goal of permanent residency.Consistency is the key I had put my shit together, worked hard by keeping in mind the law of attraction. Financial, personal, health and relationship problems go away with this wonderful law of nature but, it takes time and efforts. I leave you here cause I am going out for a walk!