Author: sekhrikush11

I believe that, most of us aimlessly focusing on happiness rather than focusing on to find the meaning of life! There’s no doubt that, there are thousands of posts on social media about happiness and most of us think about it and say that’s it! That’s what I am looking for! One word answer: Happiness! In this blog post we will focus on the meaning of life! Everyone one has to find meaning in their lives. Some people are lucky enough to find it early in their lives whereas, others just keep looking for it throughout their lives. One simple thing we all can do to find meaning in life is to be a good person. Now we need to understand the definition of being a good person. A person who’s rational, kind(not nice). A good person believes in courage to take actions to make his life better and all of those who are associated with him. I believe that, we don’t have to be perfect to be good. Little acts of kindness without asking for a favour in return is a humble characteristic of a good person. I think that, society is teaching us all wrong about happiness. We are too much focused on happiness on surface level. we have forgotten to dig deep enough to find a fountain of goodness within us ever ready to flow if we just keep digging. People often say that when they drink & smoke, they find peace for a while. Well, that’s true alcohol and smoking help you to forget about the pain for a day and then what? We need to look for a concrete solution. The solution lies in finding meaning of life and that is becoming a good person. A genuine good person who promote common good by exercising self control, justice, honesty and kindness! Another problem with chasing happiness is that, it comes and goes. For instance, if I was in a happy mood and Later on I found there’s too much of paper work on my work desk that needs my immediate attention, would I be happy? No! But if I change my paradigm from happiness to meaning I might find my paper work productive & meaningful. I might find my happiness along the path as long as I am focusing on the task. If, you are in the journey of finding meaning of your life and if you encounter happiness along the way, welcome that happiness in your life with open arms. Just focusing on happiness is baseless. I believe that, it’s worthless cause, happiness is temporary whereas meaningful life has strong foundation. A foundation that can give you a right direction to your life. I’ll say one more time meaning of life is deeply embedded in taking care of your humble responsibilities in your life. If, you find happiness while stepping forward on the path of meaning consider yourself to be fortunate!

Life is a serious business you know why? Cause once, it’s gone it’s gone for ever! This blog post is for anyone who’s looking to do well in his life. Let me start with this, when I say life is a serious business. I mean it very well! I don’t know what’s the problem these days everyone wanna to appear chill  out without getting their shit together! What’s so wrong? Youngsters focusing on smoking weed, drinking, pornography, binge watching Netflix… is this a chill out life? We are living in a free world but, hang on! wait for a while, we need to ask ourselves, are we really free? If we were focusing on some goals, if we had taken care of our humble responsibilities then, surely I would have no problem to say chilling out is good. I’m not against fun. I like to have fun but, if it affecting my peace of mind, if it’s keeping me poor & keeping me to ignore my responsibilities to take care of my life then, it’s better for me to say no to senseless fun! We need to be clear crystal about the meaning of fun… if partying every weekend, smoking weed, doing bunch of hard core drugs are the main components of your way of defining fun then, you need to read this blog until the end. For me the meaning of fun is when I know That, I have taken care of all the things like physical exercise, reading, blogging & meditation during my day and then, I can focus on things that I don’t really care about! Here’s an idea to have proper fun Take a piece of paper. Draw a line in the middle. Name one column ‘major things that I need to do before having fun’. On the other column write about the ‘fun things you would like to do during the day. Make sure that, every-time you have a strong urge to do any fun stuff, you first complete a major task. You can call it a productive task. Every-time you accomplish a productive task you will feel good about your self. If you continue to do this for 30 days. You will be unstoppable! When you do something meaningful during your day, at the end, when you hit the bed your inner voice will thank you for taking care of your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well being. My message is loud and clear put meaning of your life first. Fun will eventually follow you in your journey!

You look the world around you… it’s not built in a single day. Only God knows how many years did it take and how many people sacrificed their lives to make sure that, the world keeps on functioning. This blog is special cause, we all owe greatness to our ancestors. What we need to learn from our forefathers? I think we really need to think deep down about the sacrifices made by our ancestors for us. I think that, what we can really do right now is to work diligently and with full dedication for a common good by removing all our energy from toxic habits. What is common good? That’s a very interesting question… what’s the exact meaning of common good? I believe that having one aim for example, building a bridge to connect 2 towns. In order to provide the benefit of connectivity to 2 towns, builders, bankers, governments, workers & civilians have to work together to construct the bridge. I think that, it’s the most basic example of common good I can think of right now. Our forefathers were mighty. They had the courage not just to build the world but, also they worked on how to bring the world closer together. I truly believe in one thing that, in order to build anything we have to have concrete foundation. A foundation on which we can rely on. Whether you are trying to save money, invest money, build a strong relationship with someone. It all comes down to the fundamentals. Our predecessors were pretty much good with the basic things. They had the strength. They had the mighty courage to think outside the box. They didn’t need to watch any you tube videos. They didn’t have to take pills for depression & anxiety. They pretty much focused on how to create a better world for others. I know that, we are living in a different world. So many things have changed. We have made so much of progress & we have so many more miles to go. We are living in a world where we put materialistic things first. We are living in a world where we give more stress on rights than on responsibilities. One thing we all need to take away from this blog post is to set up a good example for next generation by taking care of our humble responsibilities towards the community. At the end, Be so great, your descendants will be proud your blood flows in them.

I’m not using the word crazy just out of any excitement. I mean it with total sense when I say it why we all need to be obsessed with improving our current self for better tomorrow. The only reason why I’m using word ‘crazy’ so that, I can give clear message to our youth about essence of life. We can do so much good to our lives it’s even beyond my imagination. We can work on anything from improving relationships to bettering our financial situation. When we have an aim and we focus our total energy on that particular aim by all means we can achieve it as long as we are honest, follow the ethics and do the right thing! Pick something that you think will have tremendous impact on your life. It could be finding a good job, getting better in assignments, semen retention, getting better with stocks and cryptos, blogging, getting into good physical shape. You need to pick up your poison and start living with it until you could transform poison into honey! I can assure you that, at first it will seem like a daunting task. First couple of months will be very harsh. You need to be rock solid with full of determination and resilience. When you feel like you are giving up… start praying to God to give you more strength & courage to face the situation. If you feel that, you are lonely in your life go and read your scriptures. Make strong friendship with the creator who created the universe. Very soon, you’ll start seeing the miracles likes of which never seen before in your life. You will start seeing your world coming together if, you are honest with yourself, desperate to make genuine efforts and have faith on almighty. I’m not writing this just because I’m bored. My sole purpose of writing blogs so that, I could remind myself there’s so much needed to be done in life to make it worth living! Worst thing a man can do to himself is to ignore all the necessary changes that are needed to be made to have a better tomorrow not just for his own sake but for his family. When a man ignores his rightful duty to perform his actions and sits on his ass holding a bag of chips in one hand and playing his stupid video games all day long then, I’m pretty sure there’s a problem right there! I’m repeating it to you.. pick up your sacrifice get obsessed with something meaningful right now and see your life taking a freaking crazy positive turn what else you need?

What is hope? Huh.. A believe/faith that we carried out in our hearts & minds when we see a particular situation seems so out of control. Why we need hope? And why some people die in a hopeless situation? We need to talk about it and seek truth! Listen, if you wanna improve your current situation the best possible thing that you can do right now is to stop listening to sad songs. Stop acting being a victim of the particular event on the social media. I’m tired of when people try to gain some sympathy from their peers when they say that, they are hopeless. Let’s consider for a while that, your situation of your life is upside down. Let’s presume that, you are a victim of your bad addictions ( porn, alcohol, drugs) and you are completely hopeless. That’s understandable. You have done every possible thing in your reach to eradicate the bad addictions but, somehow it’s keep dragging you towards the hell. Now what? Should we just surrender ourselves to the toxic habits? If you are a reasonable man then, I must hope that, you would say no! I know that, we got problems in our lives like personal, financial, relationship & career related but, voluntarily indulging yourself in toxic habits won’t solve your real life problems. Let’s imagine you have a car… a nice good looking car, would you keep driving your car into the potholes on the road or would you drive with caution (assuming you are a reasonable person)? The same principle we must apply in our lives. You have a full control over your life. External forces might provide problems to us. Outside forces might do the best to make our situation looks hopeless but, the person who’s behind the wheel must go for rational thinking , emotional stability and focus what lies in front of him! I don’t know about your current situation folks but, if you are facing a tough situation, have some hope. Your friends can leave you anytime but, A hope for better tomorrow will keep you moving forward to face obstacles. Maybe, that’s what you need a challenging task in present to make you stronger & resilient to face better tomorrow. Look, better future is waiting for you. A better future is asking you to make one sacrifice that is to shun your negative attitude/habits. A better tomorrow is looking for you to have a reasonable hope boost with daunting courage to pick up some humble responsibilities. In the face of adversity, having a hope  let it define your courage!

  Sadly, we are taking the word courage very lightly in our lives. I don’t wanna to go into history to describe you the meaning of courage. You can all go to the internet and search the word. I’m here say that, the world is in a desperate need of courageous men and women. Ever-since, we have ignored the essence of real things from our lives like honesty, hard-work, sense of responsibility, seeking truth, patience and faith in God, things have gone downhill pretty fast. We are living in the world where the non sensible content on the internet is considered the new norm of the technological world. We are living in the times where people find it appropriate to change their genders like they are changing their clothes. It is shocking to see that, our youth smoke weed and consume uncontrollable amount of alcohol to fight the depression. Let me tell you straight up, by just simply making yourself a victim on social media every-time, it won’t help you to overcome anxiety! You might feel good about it for a while… you might even get some empathy, some sympathy from your friends on social media but, for how long? 1 week… 2 weeks… a month and then what? Game over! We need something like concrete. Even if you make a million mistakes that’s completely fine as long as we grab the courage to get back on the track. Look, you might have wasted your day by drinking too much or by watching too much of tv that’s fine, what happened has already happened. It’s in the past. You can’t change it. I can’t change it but, from now onwards we can make sure to make best use of our time/day. In order to fully realize this, we need to have courage. We need courageous people who know who to put the world in function despite of ongoing chaos. Look, there’s are so many incredible things we can do with our lives by making positive changes starting right now for better tomorrow. Do not get lost in the propaganda fabricated by main stream media, big corporations, governments and globalists. Denounce their evil agendas like gender pronouns, radical feminism and their so called concern for climate change. Focus on real things. Focus on improving your life by having the courage to pick up real responsibilities of your life.Value life and realness If you focus on the fundamentals and genuinely stay true to yourself I promise, you will start feeling good about yourself. Let courage light up your way up from depression, anxiety and resentment to the wisdom, justice, truth and self control. “Dig deep within yourself, for there is a fountain of goodness ever ready to flow if you will keep digging. -MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS, 7.59

The world needs stronger & responsible men but why? We will talk about it in detail in this blog post.. Our world is facing fundamental problems and one of the principle issues we need to address is the issue of Masculinity… Let me get straight to the point. The world needs to encourage traditional masculinity more then ever before. The main job of a man is to protect, provide and lead the people that He cares about. A world without responsible men is a world full of chaos. You look the world around you… you look at the tallest buildings, roads, hospitals, people working as plumbers, electricians, lawyers, doctors, soldiers, influential leaders, majority of them are men. it’s just never ending list of the things great men have accomplished in this world to make sure that it doesn’t collapse. The sad reality is that we are discouraging our young men to embrace traditional masculinity. It is so true to say that, mainstream media, governments, corporations, globalists and feminist celebrities encourage men to be overly sensitive. They are encouraging men to be ashamed of what our ancestors had achieved to sustain the universe. I said it many times that, the cheap dopamine that you get by watching porn, explicit content, jerking off by looking at their photos of porn stars is devastating the lives of men. we are seeing a pathetic rise of feminism movement especially in the west. We are seeing an unprecedented rise of young men who are not sure of their own identity. Radical feminist women are coming out on the streets with an agenda of humiliating & harassing sensible men who are working their asses off to feed their families. I say to you this, feminist women are causing number of problems in the society by showing themselves as opposed & victims of masculinity. I don’t give a damn to feminist women you know why? Cause I think that feminist women are having low value in the society. I’m in a huge favor of t women’s education & rights overall in the world but, some people who are top in the hierarchy structure giving a radical look to feminism movement & hijacking it completely to make money out of it. They talk more and more about ‘future is Female’ I wanna ask them where are all the men? I’m here to talk about giving equal opportunities to both men and women but there’s no way you can make equal outcomes for both genders. Outcome of any activity has a direct link between the ability & the mindset. On an average men think rationally and are ready to take more risk to have desirable future in comparison to women. Left wing people are trying to change the fundamentals of the game by giving complete control to radical feminist women. We really need to understand the real meaning of feminism movement. It was to rescue women who were oppressed, tortured by toxic men. The real role of the movement was to make them to take care of their physical, mental, emotional and spiritual needs in a positive way. You look the world around you and ask yourself what’s happening? Anyone who’s trying to raise his voice and expose the shallow radical movement of feminism is thrown in the jail. There’s no way you can have an order in the society if we just keep making our men weak. There’s no way you can lead the society if you are keep making men physically, mentally, emotionally weak. There’s a high time for young men to pick up some humble responsibilities toward their lives and bring positive change in their lives. They need to shun the new idea of feminism. The world needs responsible men and caring females. That’s all!

In order to make positive changes in life, there is only one way you can do it. It is by taking full responsibility of your bad actions. I don’t think so there is other way around. Mistakes are the crucial part of our lifestyle. No one is perfect. We like to make mistakes. We then, make more mistakes. Mistakes are all fine as long as we are learning from them. I have said one thing many times and I will say it one more time- bad habits are destructive habits. Toxic habits are easy to do. It’s easy to go out and eat all the times than making food at home. It’s easy to binge watch Netflix than spending time in reading. It’s super easy to play video games all day than actually working out or spending time outdoors. It’s easy to be agitated than taking control of your reasoned choice. Bad thoughts have always led to bad choices/ decisions. Bad decisions have always led to bad actions. Toxic deeds are damaging the world. I truly believe that, a person who is careless in his actions is causing harm to the whole world. If you like to know how? then, you need to observe his actions. Majority of his actions are revolved around consuming content rather than building. A man who takes the accountability of his toxic behavior has the desperation to bring his life back on the track by repeatedly talking to his inner- self. what is your inner voice saying to you? Look, whatever happened in your past, you Can not change it. I can’t change it. What we have is today. That’s why it’s called present. Maybe, you are having many toxic addictions and you have already tried everything in your control to curb the bad addictions but, you are getting the same result. Maybe, you need to step back. Take a deep breath. Learn to take the responsibility of your mess genuinely. Maybe, you need to get off the bed & grab the courage to put your shit together. If you can’t do it for yourself please, do it for those who actually love you the most! Destroy the evil actions (jealousy, hatred, addictions, anger, depression, physical/mental abuse, bad eating habits and comparison with others) before it destroys you! You still have the time. It all starts with some humble responsibility!