Author: sekhrikush11

When things don’t go right, sensible person is left with no choice other than making or finding his way to make things better. Prosperity, happiness and peace only make sense when you make positive and constructive choices in your life. There’s no other way. This blog post is for everyone who is desperate to find way for peace and joy in his life. One thing that, I often stress out is that, we really need to think constructive and positive . Positive attitude attracts positivity. Your mindset helps you to form reality. Your mindset shapes your reality. Guess what, most of the people think when it comes to life? Same negative attitude and with the whining attitude, they think that, they can bring positive change in their lives. All I wanna to say to them is that, good luck with that! One thing about sensible person is that, you can’t force them to make incremental changes in their lives. They just make it. Making incremental changes is a crucial part deeply embedded in their DNA system. The bottom line of this blog post is that, when life’s a mess then, you really have one choice left to put your hands into mess and to clean it off your life. There’s no other choice. People can only tell you to make positive changes in your life. It is you and only you have the capacity to make all of those necessary changes to bring back life back on its track. For good people life gives them lots of challenges. Life is not easy for good people. There are often times bad things happen to them but, does it mean that, we should focus on bad things? Should we just make our lives tragic by indulging in toxic habits? No! That’s not a viable solution to live a life of resentment and depression. Everyone’s life is difficult at some point. When we focus on the crucial principles of life like seeking truth, giving importance to the family, glorify God and keep our head down to do some noble actions for the world we can sure find some kind of inner peace to justify the suffering. So, I’m saying to you. You listen and you listen well. There’s always a way to bring peace and prosperity in life. One best way to do this is to focus on your thoughts. Engage in genuine good efforts to love others. Your love for yourself and others won’t let you down. It just won’t Make your own way.

I made a promise to myself that, I will be faithful and responsible towards my duties. I made a solemn vow before God that, as long as I’m breathing I will follow the path of righteousness. I will seek truth. Serve others with my humble actions. At some point when we find there’s no door opened in front of us we just seek for help from the Creator. We make promises to him and leave everything on him. This blog is for everyone who have tried everything and they are still helpless! Promises are easy to make. Very easy to make but, what really matters is that, when you make promises and your Creator is your witness, silently listening to your vow then, you need to stay true to yourself. It doesn’t matter which side you are on but, as long as you are on God’s side, as long as you are on the side of righteousness there will always be light in your life. You don’t have to listen to the hundreds of thousands of motivational videos. Your inspiration is coming from the solemn vow that you made before God. If you feel like there’s nothing left to be done and evil is overpowering you then, I would like you to go back to the Creator. His doors are already opened for you. He is already waiting for you outside your door. All you need to make an effort and walk towards the door and have the courage to open the door. Let the Creator join you. We all have the freedom to bring evil and good. I would say to you strongly that, if we have the freedom of choice then, why not to let God to be in our lives? Why don’t we make commitments and listen to the God who is sitting somewhere deep inside us and bring peace in our lives? There’s no better way to lead happiness in our lives when we make promises and keep them. When we fulfill our promises, we glorify the God and that’s what we should be doing. Let get back to our lives that is given to us. Let’s make promise to Glorify God not satan. Let focus on positivity not negativity. Let focus on humble actions rather than on ego.

Yes, there’s beauty about you. There’s beauty about everything you say and do. There’s a beauty about the way you walk and talk to others. Instead of cursing yourself and having self doubts, I’m here to remind you about your beauty. I’m here to tell you that, you got a beautiful life even though it is not entirely perfect but, it’s beautiful. You got flaws so does everyone. You are beautiful even in your flaws. It’s sad when you try to kill your inner beauty by engaging in toxic behaviour. Time to forgive yourself sincerely and start appreciating your beauty with the acknowledgment of you are not perfect and you are going to make mistakes. The only thing that self-hate has offered you is more resentment, more bitterness and nihilism. Self-hate is a disease that needs proper treatment and in order to have proper treatment you need to work towards positivity. It’s a tough start but, you need to decide what kind of life you would like to have? Would you forever live in anxiety, fear and resentment? If not, then decide today. Decide right now and start showing positive energy to your mind. It all starts with a decision. You need to embrace your flaws. The only way is to start recognizing the inner beauty when we stay in harmony with nature. It is only possible when we start living in harmony with the universe. The possible way to live in harmony with nature is to revere Creator for creating the wonderful nature and all of those who are in our lives and bring smile on our faces. We need to keep making efforts to seek truth and do good with our humble actions. There’s beauty about you in every case. The struggle you had in past. The pain and suffering you went in your past has only made you courageous and compassionate towards your fellow men. So, you need not be scared. Even if the world says to you that, there’s nothing special about you.. I want you to become absolute determined that, you will think only positive and only engage in humble actions nothing less than that. At the end, I want you to say to you that, you are beautiful. Your strength of your inner soul, your struggles make you beautiful!

I don’t know who wanna hear this but, efforts count. They do and especially the good ones. We have to take our effort’s seriously. We all wanna to improve our lives in someway and somehow. Some people try to escape the reality by blaming and believing everything is dependent upon luck. Few people give importance to their sacrifices that they made in their present for future. One sure thing I would like you to take away from this blog post is that, at some point of your life, efforts are going to pay off. I have said it million times and I will say it again, we just have to believe in ourselves. We just need to believe in our humble acts. The rest will be taken care. I know that, for some people life is incredibly difficult but, ask yourself this- do you wanna live your difficult life forever or are you genuinely serious enough to bring joy in your life? You really need to talk to your inner-self and make the best decision. One sure way to bring happiness, prosperity and endless peace when we focus on right things in our lives. When we focus on the right things, it doesn’t mean that, everything is going to be fine overnight or you will not face any troubles but, you will endure more courage, faith and strength to overcome any trouble and find peace. I know that everyone of us wanna to live a easy life. Easy life has no meaning. I’m not saying that difficult life is good either. What I’m trying to emphasize is that, people who crave easy life often time make bad choices in their present and eventually, live a much harder life later on. I would like you to focus on the fundamentals of life. We have to consistently seek truth and clarity to avoid darkness in our lives and the only way to do is to be authentic with yourself. We need to appreciate our flaws and make genuine & consistent efforts to do right thing and leave everything on the universe. At the end I would like to urge you that, there’s no nobility in making bad choices. Bad choices only result in pain and suffering in longer run. What we need to do is to make efforts and every good effort has the potential to bring joy and peace your life and lives around you .

Everything you do or you have done in your life has its own beauty. It’s not just about good works of your past and your present but, also the mistakes you made in your life. Every inch of your life span defines beauty. We just need to realize and open our eyes to appreciate our lives. One thing is for sure, good times are beautiful but, what about dark times? They are part of our lives too. It’s our job to convert bad times into good times. It’s our job to convert sadness into meaning and happiness. Any sensible man on this planet knows that, there’s a lot to learn from the mistakes. When you genuinely realize that, toxic habits that are gripping you and destroying the potential of your life and you suddenly become aware about it. You decide that, enough is enough and I have decided to the best of my ability to surrender myself to the universe and keep my head down, work for right things in my life and pretty soon, you will understand that, your life is beautiful. Everything defines beauty when you start believing that, all you can make efforts to do right and humble things in your life and leave everything on the universe. Believe me or not, the universe works in a miraculous manners to deliver you the results but, it will only work in your favour if you connect everything to the universe. The end truth is this- good attracts good and bad attracts bad. Even though your life is not 100% align with your dreams, that’s fine. I would like you to still believe in the universe. I would like you to believe in the idea of everything is happening to you is beautiful even the evil things have tremendous power to teach us life lessons. You are a wonderful source of energy not only just limited to yourself but to the others associated with you. You have the potential to make beautiful things happen to you so, dig deeper in your innermost self and make it happen!

Why should I worry about my future if I got only today to see? Why should I be worried about my past when I know that, I  can’t change it by any ways? I git only present to live. All I just need strength for today. We only get anxiety and depression when we over stress about future. Human beings are above other animals because, we have the ability to think advance. We have the capability to build future even though the future is highly uncertain. I’m in not any position to say to you that, don’t think about future. It’s just practically impossible to do it. What we can do instead of worrying too about the future is to ask for the strength and courage for today! Most of us living in the future. We got no harmony with our present circumstances. It’s an endless game of illusion. For most of us present seems so tough that, it’s almost hard to find any interest in it and when present seems in shambles what else we got? Probably thinking too much about future. When things don’t go right, we don’t wanna to have any more troubles….we seek comfort in everything from food to our work life. There’s only expectations in future. In order to meet those expectations, we need to make efforts in present, in order to make efforts in present we need to live in present. We just can’t forsake our present for future. In order to make best efforts for better tomorrow we need to take our present seriously and ask for strength from the universe otherwise, we are doing no justice to ourselves… We need to surrender our worries to the universe and I’m sure that, somehow and someway, the nature is going to find out the ways to bring peace, joy and happiness in our lives. If we keep holding the things and keep having wild expectations about tomorrow without asking for strength and courage in present then, I’m sure we are just wasting our lives. I would say to you that, even when you see the present seems in darkness, you still ask for courage and strength for today and keep doing it and keep making efforts genuinely and make progress in life! There’s no future without present so, pray for strength!

You might need a doctor, if you suffer physical injuries but, there’s no better healer than time for mental and emotional stress. With time everything heals. Sometimes time just asks you to have aggression patience. Not many people have patience. We give in some times but time never gives up! It never stops. Its flow is constant. If you look back at your past, some of us made poor choices. We had made some bad decisions and with bad decisions, we are still facing the consequences. Some of us hate our lives because, we did some horrible deeds. With persistent flow of time, we are still punishing ourselves. We got 2 choices in our lives. Number one, we still continue to punish ourselves with every flow of time. 2nd option we have- to accept our past the way it is and with time allow ourselves to heal naturally. The first option is an easy way out to escape the life. The 2nd option is a hard one cause, you accept that, life is not fair. The only way we can make our lives meaningful if we allow the time to use its magic of healing. Healing takes time so does everything. We have to accept that, we are not powerful than time. We can’t sop it from running. Time has seen everything from bloodiest wars in the history to the unbelievable miracles in the past but, it stills never stops. It doesn’t take the side of good or bad. It always stays neutral witnessing all the events of the world. We have to accept that, we are not wiser than time. We don’t have aggressive patience like time does. One thing we can all take is that, even though life gets hard, we can still decide to keep going and keep growing just like time. So, the best thing we can all do is to leave everything on time. Let the time decide our fate. It’s time to find peace with time instead of punishing ourselves. With time everything heals!

We are humans. We have emotions and we got feelings about bunch of things and people. We are never going to eliminate feelings/emotions out of our lives. It’s just not possible. Sadly, what we are doing now is to erode the essence of truth from our lives and frankly feelings are overpowering the truth and it’s happening everywhere especially at much faster pace in the west! We are witnessing the consequences of this. We are running away from the fundamentals of life like, instead of seeking truth we are hiding it. For instance, life gets hard and sometimes unbelievably terrible for others. Instead of justifying the existence on the planet and face the reality we hide the things under the carpet and often times we hide the truth in different layers of lies and feelings. Feelings are crucial and that’s why they help us to understand the pain and suffering of life but, giving control to the feelings is the worst thing we are doing and it’s foolish thing we are doing to our kids in school. The job of everyone in a kid’s life is to help him to build, create and work on betterment for the future. Sadly, we are doing the opposite in schools and colleges. Sometimes, a teenage boy can be overwhelmed with the feminine characteristics but, it doesn’t mean that he has to change his gender and turn into a female. If we have the feelings about certain things especially the gender then, it’s just our feelings but, not our reality. It’s not the truth. If someones says to a young boy that, you should listen to your feelings and if your feelings say to you that, you just displayed some feminine traits in your personality couple of hours ago so, now you should act like a girl. Talk like a girl. Behave and dress up like a girl but. That’s not the truth. The truth is this- a man is a man and a woman is a woman. Every fibre of the body of a guy represents masculine traits. Masculine characteristics are deeply embedded in his DNA. The same thing is with the body of a woman too. Every fibre of the body of a woman represents her feminine qualities. Her feminine features overwhelm her masculine traits but, she still has some masculine traits too, hidden beneath her famine characteristics. we shouldn’t over look the truth that, a man can never be a woman and a woman can never be a man. Both are not equal. Both complement each other. I will say to you that, more importance is given to the truth and yes facing truth is hard sometimes but, it will set you free in long run Truth doesn’t care about your feelings

                  I am a slow walker but I never walk backwards Abraham Lincoln Everything is changing with time. Everything is changing with technology but, one thing will never change is the principles of slow progress! The most important thing in life is to move forward consistently with humble actions and keep improving the lives of others. I believe that, our attention span has reduced considerably. Most of us are looking for instant gratification. Anxiety levels and depression are all times high, thanks to unnecessary covid restrictions. The idea of making slow progress is losing its grip. We need to ask ourselves that, where have we gone wrong and how can we come out of the mess? I don’t know about you but, I like the idea of making slow progress at least, my struggle will remind me to be humble with others when the time is tough. 2 years ago, I didn’t like the idea of writing. I didn’t care about reading and forget about working out even for 15 minutes. Now I look back I can say that, I made the right decision in my life and I don’t focus on the results. I rather focus on the consistent efforts with the intention of making slow but, a genuine progress! I would like you to to do one thing- instead of fighting with your toxic habits why can’t we accept it and surrender ourselves in order to make a peace deal? You would have to spend less energy and less efforts to make a progress. Do it for a week. Just accept that, you have flaws and you have made some bad choices and accept it without adding any ‘if’ or ‘but’. Believe me if you do this, results will be astonishing and you will be making so much of progress and in-fact you will be obsessed with the idea of making progress. Slow progress demands sacrifices in present. People who are afraid of making sacrifices in present will suffer in future. Slow progress is asking you to make consistent humble actions to improve your life and inspire others as well. It requires aggressive patience and grace of God Start believing in slow progress

What makes one successful? I don’t know how many times I encounter this question and if you are looking for a perfect answer, I don’t have any but, definitely it’s not talent. Talent can only make you so far on its own. There should be something magical thing that helps you to become successful. If you are thinking about luck is what makes you successful then, I would say to you that, you can be lucky once or twice but, getting lucky all the times without consistent good actions make no sense. So, instead of chasing your luck, why not make persistent good efforts in-spite of the fact that, life is not fair all the times and it’s full of challenges and to embrace those challenges with courage, you have higher chances of becoming successful. When I talk about success, it’s not only financially but an overall improvement in life in terms of physical, mental, spiritual and emotional needs of the person. If someone says that, money doesn’t make sense to become a successful then, it’s all wrong. You just don’t wanna to live from paycheck to paycheck and always fearing that, you are going to lose the roof over your head some day. The same thing is with the physical, emotional and spiritual needs of the body. You just can’t focus only on the finances and come to the conclusion that, since, you are not living from paycheck to paycheck you are successful. You need to address the needs of your life. For good mental health we can spend time with books. We can spend time with mentors. We can listen to the psychological podcasts. For emotional needs we can spend time with our loved ones and be humble in our actions to our neighbours. For spiritual needs of the soul, we can read the scriptures before we go to bed. Pray to God for everything. Be grateful to our loved ones. There’s so much we can do to bring healthy success in our lives and help others to be the same. Even if the day is going bad, we just have to be consistent in fulfilling the overall needs of the life to make tremendous improvements. In chasing success we will encounter many failures. It’s fine but for God’s sake grab the courage to get up and be consistent in your efforts to find meaning and happiness. So, the success is not the absence of failure, but the absence of giving up.