Life is a serious business you know why? Cause once, it’s gone it’s gone for ever! This blog post is for anyone who’s looking to do well in his life.
Let me start with this, when I say life is a serious business. I mean it very well! I don’t know what’s the problem these days everyone wanna to appear chill out without getting their shit together! What’s so wrong? Youngsters focusing on smoking weed, drinking, pornography, binge watching Netflix… is this a chill out life? We are living in a free world but, hang on! wait for a while, we need to ask ourselves, are we really free? If we were focusing on some goals, if we had taken care of our humble responsibilities then, surely I would have no problem to say chilling out is good.
I’m not against fun. I like to have fun but, if it affecting my peace of mind, if it’s keeping me poor & keeping me to ignore my responsibilities to take care of my life then, it’s better for me to say no to senseless fun!
We need to be clear crystal about the meaning of fun… if partying every weekend, smoking weed, doing bunch of hard core drugs are the main components of your way of defining fun then, you need to read this blog until the end. For me the meaning of fun is when I know That, I have taken care of all the things like physical exercise, reading, blogging & meditation during my day and then, I can focus on things that I don’t really care about!
Here’s an idea to have proper fun
Take a piece of paper. Draw a line in the middle. Name one column ‘major things that I need to do before having fun’. On the other column write about the ‘fun things you would like to do during the day. Make sure that, every-time you have a strong urge to do any fun stuff, you first complete a major task. You can call it a productive task. Every-time you accomplish a productive task you will feel good about your self. If you continue to do this for 30 days. You will be unstoppable!
When you do something meaningful during your day, at the end, when you hit the bed your inner voice will thank you for taking care of your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well being. My message is loud and clear put meaning of your life first. Fun will eventually follow you in your journey!
Very true!!! One should try to make one’s life meaningful and purposeful, since we get only one life to live.
Thanks.